Personally I wanted the split because I felt lonely in the marriage. When I wanted to discuss, it sounded like alarm bells. On my part, I started to realise what I want and felt shortchanged.
It’s so true that one gets to know the true personality of the spouse at the end of the relationship. It’s rare for couples to split amicably. If the decision is to break up, make it a clean cut and have no contact.
After the divorce, move on. It took me quite a while to do so.

My kids are 22 and 26. Older one just started working after he finished his studies. Younger one is studying.

https://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/article/divorce-in-singapore-what-parents-need-to-know

https://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/article/divorce-in-singapore-can-this-be-avoided-can-relationship-counselling-help

https://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/article/having-problems-in-your-marriage-try-these-relationship-tips-from-a-family-court-specialist

If you feel comfortable, post your story here, and we can try to offer support or at least a listening ear.

Natalie84\" post_id=\"2049550\" time=\"1638155690\" user_id=\"195969:

Ask something....what will you do in my case if the hubby is seeing someone outside?

clairengxy\" post_id=\"2030312\" time=\"1626092924\" user_id=\"193753:

Definitely give marriage counseling a shot before making your decision. Remember that ultimately, it's your life and your choice. If you have decided to give your marriage another try, make sure to give it your all. Good luck!

winth\" post_id=\"21967\" time=\"1238576047\" user_id=\"1875:

Are you against divorce?

If a couple no longer have feelings for each other, no intimacy, quarrels, what is your advice? What do you base on when you advise?

If a couple plus husband got affair, do you advise divorce? What do you base on when you advise?

Will there be happiness after divorce? I mean is it better to stay married, with no feelings or better to have a clean break up? Anyone who is able to provide more insight into this?

We need help here. Fyi, it's not us lar... Don't do wild guessing.
But we seriously need advice and help here. DH will sure ask me for my advice soon, moving forward, we need to face this issue and we don't know how to help them.

If you are not comfortable sharing, it's really okay. No obligations.

Joanne25\" post_id=\"1960453\" time=\"1579755987\" user_id=\"165766:

Aztac\" post_id=\"1952634\" time=\"1576027215\" user_id=\"132972:

Divorce or not I think its not up to us strangers to tell as we are not in the person's shoes.

But some wise woman ever told me this whenever you wanna call it quits:

\"A man and a woman got together in the first place for a reason. Just because you forgot that reason doesn't mean it ceased to exist\".

So perhaps after all the soul searching and the reflection, you feel the reason you got together is not sustainable anymore, then choices have to be made.

for me, divorce is not right each couples have their promise infront of God and infront of each other. that's why we need to think before to do such a thing.

Joanne25\" post_id=\"1960453\" time=\"1579755987\" user_id=\"165766:

Aztac\" post_id=\"1952634\" time=\"1576027215\" user_id=\"132972:

Divorce or not I think its not up to us strangers to tell as we are not in the person's shoes.

But some wise woman ever told me this whenever you wanna call it quits:

\"A man and a woman got together in the first place for a reason. Just because you forgot that reason doesn't mean it ceased to exist\".

So perhaps after all the soul searching and the reflection, you feel the reason you got together is not sustainable anymore, then choices have to be made.

for me, divorce is not right each couples have their promise infront of God and infront of each other. that's why we need to think before to do such a thing.

Aztac\" post_id=\"1952634\" time=\"1576027215\" user_id=\"132972:

Divorce or not I think its not up to us strangers to tell as we are not in the person's shoes.

But some wise woman ever told me this whenever you wanna call it quits:

\"A man and a woman got together in the first place for a reason. Just because you forgot that reason doesn't mean it ceased to exist\".

So perhaps after all the soul searching and the reflection, you feel the reason you got together is not sustainable anymore, then choices have to be made.

JassyT\" post_id=\"1951151\" time=\"1575317127\" user_id=\"165768:

For the sake of my children, I would say no. I've grown up in a family without a father and it is really hard. I am always seeking a father figure especially during school events and milestones in my life. I always feel that I am incomplete. I don't want my kids to experience the same thing.

JassyT\" post_id=\"1951151\" time=\"1575317127\" user_id=\"165768:

For the sake of my children, I would say no.