<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you?]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>I believe many employers would say no just by reading the subject heading.<br /><br /><br />But wait. Don't we employers always demand high standards from our maids, no? Just by reading the posts here and elsewhere definitely confirms this as dissatisfied employers keep on changing their maids at the slightest mistakes (mind you even those non-life threatening type, not involviing large amount of cah/valuables type etc) they make, no?<br /><br />Below is real case in S'pore whereby a maid devoted her 20 yrs of service to the employer and her elderly. Upon her employer's death she inherited cash &amp; a luxury apartment worth S$6 million dollars which works out to be S$25 000 per month of her devoted service.<br /><br />Now, for employers who have maid(s) with that length of service or intends to extend your maid's service by keeping her because of her good performance would you do likewise.......I mean reward her S$6 million dollars upon her 20 yrs of devoted service?<br /><br />If you think this case is an exception rather than the norm then what kind of reward would you, as the employer, be willing to give to your maid who will be reaching her 20 yrs of devoted service soon (presuming).<br /><br /><a href="http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/global-filipino/07/21/10/filipino-maid-inherits-us43-m-singaporean-employer">http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/global-filipino/07/21/10/filipino-maid-inherits-us43-m-singaporean-employer</a></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/28768/would-you-pay-a-maid-s-25-000-mth-for-her-devotion-to-you</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 03 May 2026 17:52:09 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/28768.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2011 09:05:09 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Thu, 05 Jan 2012 00:26:38 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Pen88n:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Now, will my employer pay me $25,000 per month for my devoted service to the company, assuming I stay 20 years with the same company? Not to mention I helped the company earn $xxx and save $yyy......I guess not........<br /><br /><br />20 years service will maybe get me a watch???</blockquote></blockquote><br />LOL...well said.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/681339</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/681339</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[dasalo]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 00:26:38 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Mon, 02 Jan 2012 01:59:54 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I guess it all depends on circumstances. If before my death I have accumulated such wealth and all family members that I care about are taken care of well as well, and the maid is a true and trough good person , taking care of me and my family well, then why not. Recently a colleague of mine, not filthy rich but comfy owning a big yatch and nice condo, took the family maid of 20 years service to a first class trip to japan… I didnt know this until I saw pictures of the maid togehter in the holiday pictures (he doesnt boast, but I know when he and family travel, they always go first class) when I asked, he said he wanna say thanks to the maid helping him and his wife feeling at peace at work, knowing their children are safe and well taken care of. Its all boiled down to affordability first, and our r/s and how we view the maid’s worth…</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/678271</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/678271</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[nins]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 01:59:54 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Wed, 21 Dec 2011 06:57:03 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">no! It’s too crazy an amount to fork out! unless im old and alone and on my death bed then maybe for that company i will… hmmms.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/668738</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/668738</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[kiddykiddy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 06:57:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Thu, 01 Dec 2011 03:04:05 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>verykiasu2010:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>ksi:</b><p>This maid simply strikes toto after 20 years, it is as simple as that...  How many people strike toto in their lifetime?  A handful....only.</p></blockquote></blockquote><br />toto-ly true<p></p></blockquote>vk2010... u crack me up  :rotflmao:  :rotflmao:  :rotflmao:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/652135</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/652135</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[schweppes]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2011 03:04:05 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Wed, 30 Nov 2011 19:33:24 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>vk2010,<br /><br /><br />Your one liners can crack me up so bad sometimes  :rotflmao:  :rotflmao:  :rotflmao: <br /><br />And this is at 3.30am in the morn :yikes:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/651916</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/651916</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[autumnbronze]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2011 19:33:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Wed, 30 Nov 2011 16:38:46 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>ksi:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">This maid simply strikes toto after 20 years, it is as simple as that...  How many people strike toto in their lifetime?  A handful....only.</blockquote></blockquote><br />toto-ly true<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/651886</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/651886</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[verykiasu2010]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2011 16:38:46 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Wed, 30 Nov 2011 15:16:38 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">This maid simply strikes toto after 20 years, it is as simple as that…  How many people strike toto in their lifetime?  A handful…only.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/651831</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/651831</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[corneyAmber]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2011 15:16:38 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Wed, 30 Nov 2011 14:41:14 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I think most of us won’t mind being the maid.<br /><br />Not many of us can earn $25 k a month.<br />I, for one, will gladly quit my profession to do domestic work if I am paid that amount.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/651774</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/651774</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[carebear]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2011 14:41:14 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 17:14:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>ok ok just to have more fun in this thread:<br /><br /><br />the $25k/month maid is even better paid than our MP - TPL  :rotflmao:  :rotflmao:  :rotflmao:  :rotflmao:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650654</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650654</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[verykiasu2010]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 17:14:40 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 17:02:41 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>minnie2004:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Chu Liu Xiang:</b><p>In this case ah then the pet dog gets half and you get half lor. Happy or not? If not then you and the dog can go to the court to slug it out<br /><br /><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /></p></blockquote></blockquote>Great! Then someone can start another thread here asking people \"Would you pay a dog S$12 500/mth for its devotion to you?\"  :siao:<p></p></blockquote> :rotflmao:  :rotflmao:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650651</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650651</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Busymom]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 17:02:41 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 15:15:21 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Chu Liu Xiang:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">In this case ah then the pet dog gets half and you get half lor. Happy or not? If not then you and the dog can go to the court to slug it out<br /><br /><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /></blockquote></blockquote>Great! Then someone can start another thread here asking people \"Would you pay a dog S$12 500/mth for its devotion to you?\"  :siao:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650552</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650552</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[minnie2004]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 15:15:21 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:29:02 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Pen88n:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Chu Liu Xiang:</b><p>[quote=\"Pen88n\"]<br />I used my company as an example, and that states I am not BETTER OFF THAN THAT MAID. BUT the example does not state that I am NO BETTER THAN THAT MAID. That is YOUR OWN WORDS which are offensive!!!</p></blockquote></blockquote>I wrote it and I explained the implication. Thats it. If you want to interpret otherwise it's up to you.<br /><br /> :xedfingers:<p></p></blockquote> :xedfingers: You can be sure I will :siam: from people who made such \"implication\"!!! Some people just need to relearn prepositions, brush up his English else he continues mis-interpreting his own offensive remarks! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" />[/quote]Ok ok point noted<br /><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650482</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650482</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chu Liu Xiang]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:29:02 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:25:43 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Chu Liu Xiang:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Pen88n:</b><p><br />I used my company as an example, and that states I am not BETTER OFF THAN THAT MAID. BUT the example does not state that I am NO BETTER THAN THAT MAID. That is YOUR OWN WORDS which are offensive!!!</p></blockquote></blockquote>I wrote it and I explained the implication. Thats it. If you want to interpret otherwise it's up to you.<br /><br /> :xedfingers:<p></p></blockquote> :xedfingers: You can be sure I will :siam: from people who made such \"implication\"!!! Some people just need to relearn prepositions, brush up his English else he continues mis-interpreting his own offensive remarks! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650478</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650478</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Pen88n]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:25:43 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:25:26 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>minnie2004:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Chu Liu Xiang:</b><p>[quote=\"minnie2004\"]I would do the same if I had $6mn (or even more) and no kids and relatives, and no particular charity I would like to donate the money to. This maid is practically my closest family member. Who else should I give the money to? My pet turtle? <br /><br /><br />It's not about whether I'm willing to pay her for her loyalty, it's about whether I have a choice in terms of how to dispose the $$. <br /><br />It's also meaningless to break down the $6mn into monthly payments. Not to mention the time value of money (i.e. 25k monthly payment over 20 years will add up to much more than $6mn), this employer certainly would never pay the maid 25k a month for 20 years.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Your pet turtle?? Why not? There're cases whereby the inheritance of rich people was willed to their pet upon their death. <br /><br />The S$25000/mth (average) is just for discussion purpose only. You think me and others are really interested in the details of monthly payment over 20 yrs with time value of money, interests etc? Just leave out the details lah<br /><br />Knowing that such a case is one in don't know how many millions then the discussion of such subject should be taken on a lightrer note, ok? Just adopt a humourous approah in such discussions lah. No need to have serious discussions.<br /><br /> :roll:<p></p></blockquote>This maid must be really lucky then as her employer didn't even have pets! I would be so :stupid:  :mad: if i was this maid and my doctor employer left the money to her dog instead of leaving it to me, after me working for her loyally for 20 years! :rant: <br /><br />Of course I know the whole discussion is for fun and no one really cares or even understands the time value of money. My point was that no employer would ever pay a maid 25k a month, no matter how loyal, devoted she is, in any part of the world. Unless if you're paying her to do extra jobs, other than the duties of a maid, that is :evil:[/quote]In this case ah then the pet dog gets half and you get half lor. Happy or not? If not then you and the dog can go to the court to slug it out<br /><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650477</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650477</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chu Liu Xiang]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:25:26 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:19:20 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Chu Liu Xiang:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>minnie2004:</b><p>I would do the same if I had $6mn (or even more) and no kids and relatives, and no particular charity I would like to donate the money to. This maid is practically my closest family member. Who else should I give the money to? My pet turtle? <br /><br /><br />It's not about whether I'm willing to pay her for her loyalty, it's about whether I have a choice in terms of how to dispose the $$. <br /><br />It's also meaningless to break down the $6mn into monthly payments. Not to mention the time value of money (i.e. 25k monthly payment over 20 years will add up to much more than $6mn), this employer certainly would never pay the maid 25k a month for 20 years.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Your pet turtle?? Why not? There're cases whereby the inheritance of rich people was willed to their pet upon their death. <br /><br />The S$25000/mth (average) is just for discussion purpose only. You think me and others are really interested in the details of monthly payment over 20 yrs with time value of money, interests etc? Just leave out the details lah<br /><br />Knowing that such a case is one in don't know how many millions then the discussion of such subject should be taken on a lightrer note, ok? Just adopt a humourous approah in such discussions lah. No need to have serious discussions.<br /><br /> :roll:<p></p></blockquote>This maid must be really lucky then as her employer didn't even have pets! I would be so :stupid:  :mad: if i was this maid and my doctor employer left the money to her dog instead of leaving it to me, after me working for her loyally for 20 years! :rant: <br /><br />Of course I know the whole discussion is for fun and no one really cares or even understands the time value of money. My point was that no employer would ever pay a maid 25k a month, no matter how loyal, devoted she is, in any part of the world. Unless if you're paying her to do extra jobs, other than the duties of a maid, that is :evil:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650469</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650469</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[minnie2004]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:19:20 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:12:01 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>3Boys:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I think if one has a loyal maid, one can take some measures to ensure some security for her as she gets older. For instance, we started a bank account for our maid of 6 years, and have been regularly partitioning some of her pay into it, at her request. We also intend to top it up with occasional bonus payments. Best of all, its portable, she can take it with her if she goes to another employer, as opposed to being locked into us. We may not be able to give her $6mn after 20 years, but one hopes we will be able to help set her up over time for a comfortable retirement back home.</blockquote></blockquote><br />Actually, my post is a feeler. As mentioned such a case is one in don't know how many millions type. Hard to occur again although not impossible. My intention is to find out how employers reward their long service (10, 15, 20 yrs) maids.<br /><br />There's a moral responsibility aspect of the employer attach to this type of case (i.e. for long service maids) which is another lengthy discussion if really want to go into it.<br /><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650451</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650451</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chu Liu Xiang]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:12:01 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:04:59 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Pen88n:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Chu Liu Xiang:</b><p>[quote=\"Pen88n\"]Chu Liu Xiang,<br /><br /><br />Putting my position from the company's perpective (in your words), you can say that I am not <b><b>BETTER OFF </b></b>than the maid, as she has an employer who gave her inheritance whilst I do not have a company that gives me that money.<br /><br />However, you cannot say that \"You are no better than the maid\" (quote your exact words). In saying so, you are comparing me with a maid, and implying I am inferior compared to her. In what way and under what circumstances do you have the right to make such a comment when you do not even know me or the maid personally? Even from my company's perspective, why would my company compare me with a maid? Does it mean my company not paying me $6mil is saying I am no better than a maid? Then a lot of people are in this position. Of course I take offence on that remark.<br /><br />I do not think this is a mis-reading / misinterpretation on my part. If you say that you miss the preposition thus causing the misunderstanding, I accept it. But if you say I misinterpret your sentence, read it again yourself and think how you would interpret that if someone say that to you.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Well......you use your company as the example so I just build on it. Nothing more than that. As explained don't read the words literally.<br /><br /> :xedfingers:<p></p></blockquote>I used my company as an example, and that states I am not BETTER OFF THAN THAT MAID. BUT the example does not state that I am NO BETTER THAN THAT MAID. That is YOUR OWN WORDS which are offensive!!![/quote]I wrote it and I explained the implication. Thats it. If you want to interpret otherwise it's up to you.<br /><br /> :xedfingers:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650440</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650440</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chu Liu Xiang]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:04:59 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:02:32 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>minnie2004:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I would do the same if I had $6mn (or even more) and no kids and relatives, and no particular charity I would like to donate the money to. This maid is practically my closest family member. Who else should I give the money to? My pet turtle? <br /><br /><br />It's not about whether I'm willing to pay her for her loyalty, it's about whether I have a choice in terms of how to dispose the $$. <br /><br />It's also meaningless to break down the $6mn into monthly payments. Not to mention the time value of money (i.e. 25k monthly payment over 20 years will add up to much more than $6mn), this employer certainly would never pay the maid 25k a month for 20 years.</blockquote></blockquote>Your pet turtle?? Why not? There're cases whereby the inheritance of rich people was willed to their pet upon their death. <br /><br />The S$25000/mth (average) is just for discussion purpose only. You think me and others are really interested in the details of monthly payment over 20 yrs with time value of money, interests etc? Just leave out the details lah<br /><br />Knowing that such a case is one in don't know how many millions type then the discussion of such subject should be taken on a lightrer note, ok? Just adopt a humourous approah in such discussions lah. No need to have serious discussions and details.<br /><br /> :roll:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650435</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650435</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chu Liu Xiang]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:02:32 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:59:01 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Chu Liu Xiang:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Pen88n:</b><p>Chu Liu Xiang,<br /><br /><br />Putting my position from the company's perpective (in your words), you can say that I am not <b><b>BETTER OFF </b></b>than the maid, as she has an employer who gave her inheritance whilst I do not have a company that gives me that money.<br /><br />However, you cannot say that \"You are no better than the maid\" (quote your exact words). In saying so, you are comparing me with a maid, and implying I am inferior compared to her. In what way and under what circumstances do you have the right to make such a comment when you do not even know me or the maid personally? Even from my company's perspective, why would my company compare me with a maid? Does it mean my company not paying me $6mil is saying I am no better than a maid? Then a lot of people are in this position. Of course I take offence on that remark.<br /><br />I do not think this is a mis-reading / misinterpretation on my part. If you say that you miss the preposition thus causing the misunderstanding, I accept it. But if you say I misinterpret your sentence, read it again yourself and think how you would interpret that if someone say that to you.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Well......you use your company as the example so I just build on it. Nothing more than that. As explained don't read the words literally.<br /><br /> :xedfingers:<p></p></blockquote>I used my company as an example, and that states I am not BETTER OFF THAN THAT MAID. BUT the example does not state that I am NO BETTER THAN THAT MAID. That is YOUR OWN WORDS which are offensive!!!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650424</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650424</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Pen88n]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:59:01 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:49:49 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Pen88n:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Chu Liu Xiang,<br /><br /><br />Putting my position from the company's perpective (in your words), you can say that I am not <b><b>BETTER OFF </b></b>than the maid, as she has an employer who gave her inheritance whilst I do not have a company that gives me that money.<br /><br />However, you cannot say that \"You are no better than the maid\" (quote your exact words). In saying so, you are comparing me with a maid, and implying I am inferior compared to her. In what way and under what circumstances do you have the right to make such a comment when you do not even know me or the maid personally? Even from my company's perspective, why would my company compare me with a maid? Does it mean my company not paying me $6mil is saying I am no better than a maid? Then a lot of people are in this position. Of course I take offence on that remark.<br /><br />I do not think this is a mis-reading / misinterpretation on my part. If you say that you miss the preposition thus causing the misunderstanding, I accept it. But if you say I misinterpret your sentence, read it again yourself and think how you would interpret that if someone say that to you.</blockquote></blockquote>Well......you use your company as the example so I just build on it. Nothing more than that. As explained don't read the words literally.<br /><br /> :xedfingers:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650407</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650407</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chu Liu Xiang]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:49:49 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:46:32 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">3boys, you’re very lucky to have a maid who has worked for you for 6 years. Nowadays it’s hard to get a maid who can complete a 2-year contract, no matter how well you treat them. So to work for a single employer for 20 years (whether as a maid or any other profession) is really rare and definitely deserve some kind of reward. It’s just that in this case, the maid was being particularly lucky to have worked for a rich employer who had no relatives.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650403</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650403</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[minnie2004]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:46:32 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:16:41 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I think if one has a loyal maid, one can take some measures to ensure some security for her as she gets older. For instance, we started a bank account for our maid of 6 years, and have been regularly partitioning some of her pay into it, at her request. We also intend to top it up with occasional bonus payments. Best of all, its portable, she can take it with her if she goes to another employer, as opposed to being locked into us. We may not be able to give her $6mn after 20 years, but one hopes we will be able to help set her up over time for a comfortable retirement back home.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650364</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650364</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[3Boys]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:16:41 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:16:11 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Chu Liu Xiang,<br /><br /><br />Putting my position from the company's perpective (in your words), you can say that I am not <b><b>BETTER OFF </b></b>than the maid, as she has an employer who gave her inheritance whilst I do not have a company that gives me that money.<br /><br />However, you cannot say that \"You are no better than the maid\" (quote your exact words). In saying so, you are comparing me with a maid, and implying I am inferior compared to her. In what way and under what circumstances do you have the right to make such a comment when you do not even know me or the maid personally? Even from my company's perspective, why would my company compare me with a maid? Does it mean my company not paying me $6mil is saying I am no better than a maid? Then a lot of people are in this position. Of course I take offence on that remark.<br /><br />I do not think this is a mis-reading / misinterpretation on my part. If you say that you miss the preposition thus causing the misunderstanding, I accept it. But if you say I misinterpret your sentence, read it again yourself and think how you would interpret that if someone say that to you.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650361</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650361</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Pen88n]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:16:11 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Would you pay a maid S$25 000&#x2F;mth for her devotion to you? on Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:11:18 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I would do the same if I had $6mn (or even more) and no kids and relatives, and no particular charity I would like to donate the money to. This maid is practically my closest family member. Who else should I give the money to? My pet turtle? <br /><br /><br />It’s not about whether I’m willing to pay her for her loyalty, it’s about whether I have a choice in terms of how to dispose the $$. <br /><br />It’s also meaningless to break down the $6mn into monthly payments. Not to mention the time value of money (i.e. 25k monthly payment over 20 years will add up to much more than $6mn), this employer certainly would never pay the maid 25k a month for 20 years.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650356</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/650356</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[minnie2004]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 13:11:18 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>