<![CDATA[boy or girl?]]>nowadays, do you think boys are expose to more dangers or gals?


seems that more perverts are now targetting boys more than gals.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/33461/boy-or-girlRSS for NodeFri, 29 May 2026 15:19:50 GMTThu, 22 Mar 2012 03:00:19 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Tue, 01 May 2012 12:49:26 GMT]]>When i asked my son in p1,he said teacher teaches about proper touch and improper touch.

One more thing parents should be more friendly with them.my son tells me everything.one of his classmates hide from parents cos parents give him always punishment.i told my son whatever u have to tell me then only i can guide u.
Do u remember the 13 yr old girl raped by a prc student?i watched it in the crimewatch,he came home and threatened her tell to ur father if u not cooperate to sex.worst think there were two men in the house when he raped her.i stunned when i watched.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/754710https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/754710Tue, 01 May 2012 12:49:26 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Tue, 01 May 2012 12:38:35 GMT]]>

Chenonceau:
This makes me thankful for having had an equivalent of a \"sex talk\" with my kids from the moment they were 3. I walked them through various scenarios of adults touching them inappropriately and taught them to yell \"Pervert! Get away from me!! Aaaaaaaaaah! *Scream head off*\" and kept repeating that if EVER that happens, they must tell me. Over the years, I remind them what to do.


I also never allow either to go to public toilets alone. Even with DS at 11, I will now still stand outside the men's toilet and yell \"Are you alright?\" just to make sure that people know that the little boy in there has a Mommy outside waiting... and that this Mommy was prepared to barge in there to save her son if any male tried anything.
For a 3 year old, how to teach them about perverts, without confuse them with teachers bathing them? If start to teach so early, will they start to scream pervert whenever teachers help them to bath?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/754701https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/754701Tue, 01 May 2012 12:38:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Tue, 01 May 2012 12:12:43 GMT]]>Both have equal exposure to danger so it is really necessary for us to prevent our kids.I think every child should join self defense training classes so that they can protect themselves.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/754685https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/754685Tue, 01 May 2012 12:12:43 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Thu, 29 Mar 2012 01:36:51 GMT]]>its so sickening to hear that because of some perverts’ doing, the entire family (of the victim) has to suffer.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/737295https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/737295Thu, 29 Mar 2012 01:36:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Thu, 29 Mar 2012 01:22:33 GMT]]>there are also molesters who disguised themselves as people of authority such as policeman and doctors to confuse our kids

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/737279https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/737279Thu, 29 Mar 2012 01:22:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Wed, 28 Mar 2012 01:02:18 GMT]]>Same here. I sat down with DD when she was about 4 and told her if anyone touches her in an inappropriate way (quoted her some examples) whether a stranger or someone she knows, she is to let mummy know immediately. If we don’t protect our own children who are defenceless, who will ?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/736410https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/736410Wed, 28 Mar 2012 01:02:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Tue, 27 Mar 2012 14:25:51 GMT]]>This makes me thankful for having had an equivalent of a "sex talk" with my kids from the moment they were 3. I walked them through various scenarios of adults touching them inappropriately and taught them to yell "Pervert! Get away from me!! Aaaaaaaaaah! Scream head off" and kept repeating that if EVER that happens, they must tell me. Over the years, I remind them what to do.


I also never allow either to go to public toilets alone. Even with DS at 11, I will now still stand outside the men’s toilet and yell "Are you alright?" just to make sure that people know that the little boy in there has a Mommy outside waiting… and that this Mommy was prepared to barge in there to save her son if any male tried anything.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/736288https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/736288Tue, 27 Mar 2012 14:25:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Tue, 27 Mar 2012 13:07:11 GMT]]>:mad: :stupid: :stompfeet:



I think I saw in tonight chinese papers (briefly) that the dad of one victim is now 精神异常 because of this.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/736257https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/736257Tue, 27 Mar 2012 13:07:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Tue, 27 Mar 2012 12:49:46 GMT]]>The Straits Times


Published on Mar 26, 2012
[quote] Former teacher jailed for molesting students
By Elena Chong

A former teacher was jailed for 10 years and ordered to be given six strokes of the cane on Monday for molesting two boys and performing oral sex on an eight-year-old in school.

The 38-year-old had admitted to two counts of molesting an 11-year-old and eight-year-old and two counts of penetrating another eight-year-old in 2009.

The court heard that in early 2009, the accused saw the 11-year-old in school and took him to a computer lab, offering him a chance to play with his PlayStation Portable (PSP).

He molested the victim as he was playing with the PSP. The victim did not say anything as he was afraid of the accused.[/quote]

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/736249https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/736249Tue, 27 Mar 2012 12:49:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Fri, 23 Mar 2012 08:18:45 GMT]]>Remember the Bishan Gay pervert a few years back? My friend spotted him at Junction 8 last week looking at him and then my friend broke off into a run because that guy was simply pervertic and eyeing at my friend with a so-called "pedo-smile"

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733812https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733812Fri, 23 Mar 2012 08:18:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Thu, 22 Mar 2012 13:41:39 GMT]]>I am most disgusted when the perpetrator is a relative. Makes me so paranoid…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733356https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733356Thu, 22 Mar 2012 13:41:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Thu, 22 Mar 2012 07:39:14 GMT]]>yes, the pervert could be a family member as well. :yikes:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733130https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733130Thu, 22 Mar 2012 07:39:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Thu, 22 Mar 2012 07:34:23 GMT]]>donch blame the foreigners…there are also alot of dirty old uncles lurking the public male toilets!!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733121https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733121Thu, 22 Mar 2012 07:34:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Thu, 22 Mar 2012 07:32:32 GMT]]>

smurf:
but it seems that the recent trend, its more towards boys...maybe boys more easier to target since parents tend to think perverts prefer gals so let guard down on boys??


usually, people will think, this kind of thing only gals more dangerous, no?
Boys and girls face same risk...those 2 who were kidnapped years ago are boys. There are perverts who visit third world countries to hit on young boys. With so many foreigners here, our kids are not safe anymore.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733119https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733119Thu, 22 Mar 2012 07:32:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Thu, 22 Mar 2012 06:06:41 GMT]]>but it seems that the recent trend, its more towards boys…maybe boys more easier to target since parents tend to think perverts prefer gals so let guard down on boys??


usually, people will think, this kind of thing only gals more dangerous, no?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733020https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733020Thu, 22 Mar 2012 06:06:41 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Thu, 22 Mar 2012 05:33:56 GMT]]>No difference - both subject to same assault in one way or another or whatever in public spaces.

Just need to caution them to tell if anyone does do anything out of line.
Being an innocent mind they are equally subjected to coerce by another person easily.They build on the trusting mind of the young.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733004https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/733004Thu, 22 Mar 2012 05:33:56 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Thu, 22 Mar 2012 03:58:49 GMT]]>yes, both have equal exposure to danger. l think it is more difficult for a boy to accept it and tell any1 of the assault.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/732913https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/732913Thu, 22 Mar 2012 03:58:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to boy or girl? on Thu, 22 Mar 2012 03:02:47 GMT]]>I think both equally in danger… most important equip the kids with the knowledge to defend themselves. Sign up for karate lessons or self-defense lessons…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/732859https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/732859Thu, 22 Mar 2012 03:02:47 GMT