<![CDATA[Daddy bath for daughter.]]>Can anyone tell me daddy bath for daughter healthy or not? my ex even bath in front our daughter. Daughter said to me she saw daddy bird bird (keep laugh with it).


note: she 4yrs 7mth old.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/35360/daddy-bath-for-daughterRSS for NodeTue, 05 May 2026 02:01:06 GMTMon, 07 May 2012 03:29:47 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Sun, 21 Dec 2014 09:05:39 GMT]]>I don’t think it’s okay. 4 yo plus do actually know a lot of things already.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1434919https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1434919Sun, 21 Dec 2014 09:05:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Sat, 26 Jan 2013 08:11:38 GMT]]>I bath my DD and DS since they are a few days old till they were 5/6 years old. But to the later time I only do washing the hair and spraying water while they scrub their body them selves. After that they got use to bath themselves 😉

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/946588https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/946588Sat, 26 Jan 2013 08:11:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Sat, 26 Jan 2013 07:28:05 GMT]]>I allow my daughter to take a bath with his daddy until she reached her 5 years of age. I dont want her father touching my daughter’s private parts now that she’s growing bigger. Have to educate my child about how to take care of herself and not to let any man touch her private parts.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/946577https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/946577Sat, 26 Jan 2013 07:28:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Fri, 05 Oct 2012 00:41:34 GMT]]>My DH has been bathing for our DD since she was 2 days old. IMO, Bathing for is okay, bathing WITH is a no-no with the opposite sex. E.g. I bathe with my DD from time to time; but I wouldn’t do that with my DS.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/868811https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/868811Fri, 05 Oct 2012 00:41:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Thu, 04 Oct 2012 09:32:04 GMT]]>yes u can never expect or assume nothing will happen out of it… better stop it before the unexpected happens…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/868377https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/868377Thu, 04 Oct 2012 09:32:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Thu, 04 Oct 2012 09:22:38 GMT]]>Please do what u can to stop it before something irreversible and undesired happens.


Be strong for your girl.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/868363https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/868363Thu, 04 Oct 2012 09:22:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Tue, 02 Oct 2012 07:29:22 GMT]]>DH has never bathe our 4yo DD before.. when she was 2+ or 3yo, i requested DH to help bathe DD as I was busy with other task but DH shyly rejected quoting he does not know how to bathe for a gal.. :oops: But he did helped to bathe our 6yo DS quite a number of times.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/866231https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/866231Tue, 02 Oct 2012 07:29:22 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Mon, 24 Sep 2012 08:34:36 GMT]]>even if dh dun mind or dd dun mind or whatever reason…


the same applies to all kids if u want their minds to be clear from right and wrong…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/857794https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/857794Mon, 24 Sep 2012 08:34:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Mon, 24 Sep 2012 08:33:20 GMT]]>i dun agree dh bathing dd too…


its not about not having family bonding… how would my dd feel?? if she were to discuss with her friends, she would be laughing stock!!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/857790https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/857790Mon, 24 Sep 2012 08:33:20 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Mon, 24 Sep 2012 08:17:03 GMT]]>Whole family bathe together?? That is a big no no for most singaporeans I think. My dh did not bath ds by the time he was 7. And dd was never bathed by him after she was 3.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770882https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770882Mon, 24 Sep 2012 08:17:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Mon, 28 May 2012 07:07:15 GMT]]>Yah, should be the other way round. My hubby dun mind bathe for DS but not DD.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770870https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770870Mon, 28 May 2012 07:07:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Sun, 27 May 2012 13:56:10 GMT]]>

BeContented:
geee21:

In Japan and western country, family still bath together even above teens.

It's more of family bonding.

Whole Family - perhaps. But for the dad who just wants to bath the dd but not DS, imo big NO. :nunchuk:

Agree

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770543https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770543Sun, 27 May 2012 13:56:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Sun, 27 May 2012 09:10:18 GMT]]>Dad should stop bathing their daughter, once they reach K1 (> 4 yrs old)


once turn > 4 -
only mother / helper / grandma bathe girls, OR daughter learn to bathe independently.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770447https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770447Sun, 27 May 2012 09:10:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Sun, 27 May 2012 08:52:42 GMT]]>

geee21:
In Japan and western country, family still bath together even above teens.

It's more of family bonding.
Whole Family - perhaps. But for the dad who just wants to bath the dd but not DS, imo big NO. :nunchuk:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770439https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770439Sun, 27 May 2012 08:52:42 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Sun, 27 May 2012 08:43:30 GMT]]>In Japan and western country, family still bath together even above teens.

It’s more of family bonding.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770434https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/770434Sun, 27 May 2012 08:43:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Wed, 09 May 2012 06:14:18 GMT]]>My DH used to shower together wif DD before she turn 4. Now DH still shower for DD once in a blue moon(when we go swimming) but never together anymore.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/759053https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/759053Wed, 09 May 2012 06:14:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Wed, 09 May 2012 05:58:28 GMT]]>

EileenHee:
Can anyone tell me daddy bath for daughter healthy or not? my ex even bath in front our daughter. Daughter said to me she saw daddy bird bird (keep laugh with it).


note: she 4yrs 7mth old.

So Sorry to hear about your unhappy marriage.....

As a Single mother now , you must be under a lot of pressure.....

Now most important you must protect you 2 innocent kids.....

Especially from their Father....

You should know his character well ...that's why you married him ...but too bad the marriage did not work...

We do not know what your Ex has in his mind....


Protect your 4 year old Girl ....in this pervert society...


Before is too late....

Be brave!!!

Remember your are your kids pillar....

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/758031https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/758031Wed, 09 May 2012 05:58:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Mon, 07 May 2012 14:22:31 GMT]]>Told DH about this.

First - he protested that i better clear his name. He stopped bathing for DD way before 5yo. Ha.
Second - he looked shocked & disgusted when I mentioned about the daddy bathing in front of DD & she laughed about the bird. He only said 3 words "should call police".

If after telling your ex about the rationale & he still insist, something is wrong isn’t it?! Then pls do take action immediately.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757865https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757865Mon, 07 May 2012 14:22:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Mon, 07 May 2012 13:49:46 GMT]]>My hubby doesn’t even bath or pee in front of our son!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757848https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757848Mon, 07 May 2012 13:49:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Mon, 07 May 2012 13:47:28 GMT]]>

EileenHee:


he said im daughter father y cannot n that nothing wrong with it.

we have son too but he never want bath for him.

er.
Isn't it quite obvious that there is a prob - both are his children right? But why he is so keen to shower the girl but not the boy?

You are the mother of this girl. I suggest you stop him from showing in front of your daughter and showering your daughter. I think it will be unhealthy for the little girl in the long run.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757846https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757846Mon, 07 May 2012 13:47:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Mon, 07 May 2012 13:24:23 GMT]]>My bro and my DH could never make themselves bathe their daughters… DH said he was afraid of scratching her accidentally with his rough hands… hahaha


The furthest my bro would go was to hold the shower head and tell his gal to wash the private parts herself.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757838https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757838Mon, 07 May 2012 13:24:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Mon, 07 May 2012 07:51:52 GMT]]>There are many ways to have bonding beside bathing. like bring her to playground, park ,cycling , reading story book, watching cartoon/ tv together etc. Bathe and change your DD ready bsfore seeing her daddy.

My HB also bathed my DD since baby, but stopped when DD about 4-5 years old.
Try ! start with small steps.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757678https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757678Mon, 07 May 2012 07:51:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Mon, 07 May 2012 07:28:14 GMT]]>By the way, seeking help from MCYs doesn’t mean your ex will go to jail or get unto trouble. Unless he has done bad things to his dd like touching her at inappropriate places or getting her to do indecent things on him.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757666https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757666Mon, 07 May 2012 07:28:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Daddy bath for daughter. on Mon, 07 May 2012 07:24:07 GMT]]>No need to be stressed. You obviously are afraid for your dd. stand firm and pick up the phone and talk to MCYs at 63 555 000.


Be safe than sorry. Once damage is done, you cannot reverse or erase it.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757664https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/757664Mon, 07 May 2012 07:24:07 GMT