<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[All About Life Without Maids]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I am a working mum with 2 kids, 18mths and 3-1/2yrs.  I am thinking of releasing my maid early due to her attitudes, though she had worked with me for 3yr.  But I am worried about how to cope without her.  <br /><br /><br />My 2kids are now in full-day care.  But my hubby always work late so he is hardly at home to help.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/5331/all-about-life-without-maids</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 10:46:40 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/5331.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 07:47:39 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Wed, 20 Sep 2023 09:14:15 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>nutsaboutarts\" post_id=\"2117997\" time=\"1693552859\" user_id=\"202665:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />I gave up on robot vacuum as mine often got stuck somewhere and ran out of battery. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" /> I like Scotch-Brite mop. Easy to use. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></blockquote></blockquote>Been using that before too! But 6 mos ago, cousin gave me her extra Mop Daddy she bought overseas. Very nice! Lifesaver <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2119296</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2119296</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[rubyzpaz]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 Sep 2023 09:14:15 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Fri, 01 Sep 2023 12:05:58 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">The only thing that I miss about no longer having a maid was not doing the household chores lol but back then, I really needed to hire one because of work. Now that i’m a proud stay-at-home mom, had to let go of our helper. But im still happy because I can now spend more time with my kiddos <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/2764.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--heart" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="&lt;3" alt="❤" /></p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2118044</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2118044</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[lechar_rachel]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 01 Sep 2023 12:05:58 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Fri, 01 Sep 2023 07:20:59 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>I gave up on robot vacuum as mine often got stuck somewhere and ran out of battery. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" /> I like Scotch-Brite mop. Easy to use. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2117997</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2117997</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[nutsaboutarts]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 01 Sep 2023 07:20:59 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Mon, 26 Jun 2023 07:00:53 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I got mine from dibea. It does the job.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2111578</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2111578</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mich_wong]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 26 Jun 2023 07:00:53 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Mon, 27 Mar 2023 11:52:10 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">my maid is gone, and i have do all the chores. Not used to it. Any way I can hire part time cook, that comes to my house to cook &amp; clean daily?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2103035</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2103035</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[maidmaid]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2023 11:52:10 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Tue, 19 Jul 2022 15:56:20 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">When it comes to sharing household chores, it’s beneficial to stay with parents as they are ageing…but it’s really 相见容易，同住难. Maids today are often here to enjoy life. So costly and drive one nuts. I’ve not had a maid since daughter was in K2…almost 12 years now.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2075239</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2075239</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2022 15:56:20 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Sun, 03 Jul 2022 08:48:20 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>ChiefKiasu\" post_id=\"2073072\" time=\"1656837403\" user_id=\"3:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />DH as in Domestic Help??  In these quarters, DH actually means Dear Husband  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /></blockquote></blockquote>I’m so sorry! It actually refers to domestic helper haha.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2073073</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2073073</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Hindsight]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 03 Jul 2022 08:48:20 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Sun, 03 Jul 2022 08:36:43 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Hindsight\" post_id=\"2073069\" time=\"1656835050\" user_id=\"198611:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />I’m also currently using Tingkat for dinner as many of times by time reach home, caifan no more ingredients. Paying about $500 for dinner for 2 pax which is not cheap as food ingredients costs have went up.<br /><br />I am also engaging 3 hours helper weekly @ $58 to clean my house. With the above cost, <b><b><span style="\&quot;color:">I’m thinking I can actually get a DH given that I will have 2nd one coming in Q4</span></b></b>. Anyone same situation as me?? I may only need to top up a little bit more for weekly marketing for food.</blockquote></blockquote>DH as in Domestic Help??  In these quarters, DH actually means Dear Husband  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2073072</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2073072</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[ChiefKiasu]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 03 Jul 2022 08:36:43 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Sun, 03 Jul 2022 07:57:30 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I’m also currently using Tingkat for dinner as many of times by time reach home, caifan no more ingredients. Paying about $500 for dinner for 2 pax which is not cheap as food ingredients costs have went up.<br /><br /><br />I am also engaging 3 hours helper weekly @ $58 to clean my house. With the above cost, I’m thinking I can actually get a DH given that I will have 2nd one coming in Q4. Anyone same situation as me?? I may only need to top up a little bit more for weekly marketing for food.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2073069</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2073069</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Hindsight]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 03 Jul 2022 07:57:30 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Fri, 01 Jul 2022 00:19:48 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Estéema\" post_id=\"2072639\" time=\"1656594296\" user_id=\"66413:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />8% increase only if u’re still using SP utilities. If u’ve switched over to 3rd party, u’re shielded fr this increase for now.</blockquote></blockquote>That's us! But our contract finishes later this year and we won't get such a good deal again. But our electrcity consumption is below average - my husband says that at current rates we are below $90 a month (5-rm HDB, 4 adults). We are currently paying just over half of that under our 3rd-party contract.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072657</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072657</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sharonkhoo]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 01 Jul 2022 00:19:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Thu, 30 Jun 2022 13:04:56 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"2072586\" time=\"1656575141\" user_id=\"14025:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />OT: S'pore electricity tariffs to rise by about 8% for Q3 amid global oil, gas crunch<br /><a href="https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/consumer/spore-electricity-tariffs-to-rise-by-about-8-for-q3-amid-global-oil-gas-crunch">https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/consumer/spore-electricity-tariffs-to-rise-by-about-8-for-q3-amid-global-oil-gas-crunch</a></blockquote></blockquote>8% increase only if u’re still using SP utilities. If u’ve switched over to 3rd party, u’re shielded fr this increase for now.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072639</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072639</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Estéema]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 13:04:56 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Thu, 30 Jun 2022 12:13:23 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"2072586\" time=\"1656575141\" user_id=\"14025:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />OT: S'pore electricity tariffs to rise by about 8% for Q3 amid global oil, gas crunch<br /><a href="https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/consumer/spore-electricity-tariffs-to-rise-by-about-8-for-q3-amid-global-oil-gas-crunch">https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/consumer/spore-electricity-tariffs-to-rise-by-about-8-for-q3-amid-global-oil-gas-crunch</a></blockquote></blockquote>Prices of everything have increased <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072631</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072631</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 12:13:23 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Thu, 30 Jun 2022 07:45:41 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>OT: S'pore electricity tariffs to rise by about 8% for Q3 amid global oil, gas crunch<br /><br /><a href="https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/consumer/spore-electricity-tariffs-to-rise-by-about-8-for-q3-amid-global-oil-gas-crunch">https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/consumer/spore-electricity-tariffs-to-rise-by-about-8-for-q3-amid-global-oil-gas-crunch</a></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072586</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072586</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[starlight1968sg]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 07:45:41 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Thu, 30 Jun 2022 04:36:19 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Without army uniform, I can wash towels and bedsheets in my washing machine any day. <br /><br />My mum helps me wash queen quilt cover once a month as it is hard to dry in my service yard.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072535</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072535</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 04:36:19 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Wed, 29 Jun 2022 16:36:27 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2072368\" time=\"1656511469\" user_id=\"43981:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Fabric sheets I never used before. Not even half load I think. Just a comforter cover somehow got problem one. The washer spinner cant seem to spin it very dry. I suspect it is a little heavier after soaked with water. But it is ok la..so far spread out for drying is working.</blockquote></blockquote>If it’s only half load, it should be okay as long as it is spread out. Good that it is working!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072388</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072388</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Zeal mummy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 16:36:27 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Wed, 29 Jun 2022 14:04:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Zeal mummy\" post_id=\"2072356\" time=\"1656504092\" user_id=\"58173:</b>[quote=\"Zeal mummy\" post_id=2072356 time=1656504092 user_id=58173]<br />Try using fabric sheets and straighten them as much as you can before loading into the dryer. Maybe too many items at one time, the dryer can only take half or 3/4 of your washer’s load.[/quote]</blockquote>Fabric sheets I never used before. Not even half load I think. Just a comforter cover somehow got problem one. The washer spinner cant seem to spin it very dry. I suspect it is a little heavier after soaked with water. But it is ok la..so far spread out for drying is working.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072368</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072368</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[MrsKiasu]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 14:04:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Wed, 29 Jun 2022 12:01:32 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2072339\" time=\"1656498927\" user_id=\"43981:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />I have dryer but really use very little of it. When I dry my bedsheet it will just lumped together so I have to take it out loosen/turned it around and slot in back again. And the side that facing out can be so hot yet inside wet.</blockquote></blockquote>Try using fabric sheets and straighten them as much as you can before loading into the dryer. Maybe too many items at one time, the dryer can only take half or 3/4 of your washer’s load.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072356</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072356</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Zeal mummy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 12:01:32 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Wed, 29 Jun 2022 11:50:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Zeal mummy\" post_id=\"2072328\" time=\"1656496836\" user_id=\"58173:</b>[quote=\"Zeal mummy\" post_id=2072328 time=1656496836 user_id=58173]<br />Rephrase, then I became \"smarter\".[/quote]</blockquote>Yes, you are smarter now  :evil: and also with the washing machine, you won’t suffer backache hanging up wet laundry.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072355</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072355</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 11:50:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Wed, 29 Jun 2022 10:41:00 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>zac's mum\" post_id=\"2072334\" time=\"1656497763\" user_id=\"53606:</b>[quote=\"zac's mum\" post_id=2072334 time=1656497763 user_id=53606]<br />SP. But according to this latest comparison article, not any more:<br /><br /><a href="https://www.singsaver.com.sg/blog/open-electricity-market-oem-singapore">https://www.singsaver.com.sg/blog/open-electricity-market-oem-singapore</a>[/quote]</blockquote>Oh! Thanks! Interesting model..<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072342</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072342</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Zeal mummy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 10:41:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Wed, 29 Jun 2022 10:35:27 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I have dryer but really use very little of it. When I dry my bedsheet it will just lumped together so I have to take it out loosen/turned it around and slot in back again. And the side that facing out can be so hot yet inside wet.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072339</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072339</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[MrsKiasu]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 10:35:27 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Wed, 29 Jun 2022 10:16:03 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Zeal mummy\" post_id=\"2072319\" time=\"1656495719\" user_id=\"58173:</b>[quote=\"Zeal mummy\" post_id=2072319 time=1656495719 user_id=58173]<br />There are off-peak electricity plans? I’ve not heard of them.. which electric company is that?[/quote]</blockquote>SP. But according to this latest comparison article, not any more:<br /><br /><a href="https://www.singsaver.com.sg/blog/open-electricity-market-oem-singapore">https://www.singsaver.com.sg/blog/open-electricity-market-oem-singapore</a><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072334</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072334</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[zac&#x27;s mum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 10:16:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Wed, 29 Jun 2022 10:00:36 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=\"2072323\" time=\"1656496538\" user_id=\"195250:</b>[quote=\"Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=2072323 time=1656496538 user_id=195250]<br />… Only after marriage, DH insisted to buy washing machine, then I became \"lazy\".[/quote]</blockquote>Rephrase, then I became \"smarter\".<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072328</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072328</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Zeal mummy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 10:00:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Wed, 29 Jun 2022 09:56:11 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I use the dryer for towels and bed linens. <br /><br /><br />For clothes, only jeans during very wet weathers. I find the dryer warps the clothes and not all material are suitable for dryer.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072324</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072324</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Funz]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 09:56:11 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to All About Life Without Maids on Wed, 29 Jun 2022 09:55:38 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Zeal mummy\" post_id=\"2072311\" time=\"1656494764\" user_id=\"58173:</b>[quote=\"Zeal mummy\" post_id=2072311 time=1656494764 user_id=58173]<br />I picked up this habit while overseas too. Agree with you it’s the simplest way. (especially without a FT helper). <br />[/quote]</blockquote>I picked up a habit of hand washing when I stayed alone in a rental room before marriage.  It is not so difficult and water saving. Only after marriage, DH insisted to buy washing machine, then I became \"lazy\".<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072323</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2072323</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Liew Nga Wing]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 09:55:38 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>