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]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/73182/depressed-husband-driving-taxi</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 06:10:59 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/73182.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2014 23:25:58 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Sat, 21 Jun 2014 05:28:01 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>LarryG67:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">There may be some regular customer-rich areas which may be a good options. Every time I get back to Singapore especially at night, I see a really long queue of taxis at the airport. That might be a good option because i see hundreds and hundreds of taxis there. I have always wondered if it made sense for a taxi driver to wait so long just for a customer, but it could be because the passengers fee may be worth it. Worth a try</blockquote></blockquote><br />This is quite true. Taxi drivers like to queue there to enjoy the chit chat session with fello and the earning at the end of it. After that they just try to get another mid-nite charge customer and already have made enough to cover the rental and can call it a night.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1316167</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1316167</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[matrix0405]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 21 Jun 2014 05:28:01 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Fri, 23 May 2014 05:57:50 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">There may be some regular customer-rich areas which may be a good options. Every time I get back to Singapore especially at night, I see a really long queue of taxis at the airport. That might be a good option because i see hundreds and hundreds of taxis there. I have always wondered if it made sense for a taxi driver to wait so long just for a customer, but it could be because the passengers fee may be worth it. Worth a try</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1298169</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1298169</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[LarryG67]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2014 05:57:50 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Mon, 19 May 2014 04:48:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi wifey2014,<br /><br /><br />Like many others, I have seen quite a few cab drivers who are doing well.  One even showed me his personal log book to show me that he has already hit 4-5k when it was not the end of the month yet.  So I believe there is scope of increasing your husband’s income.<br /><br />I recall another driver telling me that he has a regular customer (expat I think) who charters his cab every morning to go to Tuas and pays for the service above market rate.  That helped to cover his daily expenses and he can cut down on his hours.  <br /><br />In the meantime, your husband also needs your support and understanding because it is always tough dealing direct with all sorts of customers through the day.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1294457</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1294457</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[UncleLim]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2014 04:48:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Tue, 06 May 2014 12:30:25 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>BlueBells:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">He can also apply to DHL / FedEx and the likes?  It taps on his experience and it's company provided vehicle.<br /><br /><br />No harm calling them and finding out.</blockquote></blockquote>Hi BlueBells,<br /><br />We have checked before and the offer is not ideal but we are not totally eliminating the possibility if driving taxi does not work out. Thanks!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283498</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283498</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[wifey2014]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2014 12:30:25 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Tue, 06 May 2014 12:28:15 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>jetsetter:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>wifey2014:</b><p>Hi, thanks for \"listening\" to my story and sharing your views. Appreciate that.<br /><br />Both of u are right. Yes, we need to adjust to the change. I will share with hubby about your suggestions of adjusting working time and the splitting of shifts (that is a very good suggestion beatrice!).<br /><br />I suppose I also need to give him some time to learn the ropes and adjust his own driving preference etc. If things still don't work out then will consider changing job.<br />Hope things will be better. Thanks!</p></blockquote></blockquote>hi wifey2014<br /><br />Which taxi operator did your DH hire his cab from?  If it's Comfort Delgro/City Cab or SMRT, there should be some internal advertising platforms to matchmake principal hirers like your DH with relief drivers. I know the former operator offers diesel rebates for their hirers.<br /><br />Has he joined the National Taxi Association yet? It might be useful to join this to widen his social network so that he can find a long-term partner to share the cab/slit the shifts. <a href="http://www.nta.org.sg/activities-54/recent-events/164-share-a-taxi-workshop.html">http://www.nta.org.sg/activities-54/recent-events/164-share-a-taxi-workshop.html</a><br /><br />Once DH gets into the network, he might come across good corporate or tourist lobangs that could help reduce his plying hours? <br /><br />As a self-employed person, your DH will need to top up his Medisave savings on his own. Did u know that MOM/CPFB has this \"Drive and Save\" scheme? <a href="http://www.nta.org.sg/drive-and-save-scheme">http://www.nta.org.sg/drive-and-save-scheme</a><p></p></blockquote>Hi jetsetter<br /><br />Yes we know can register online for relief drivers but he is not confident now to get one as he is worried that by shortening the hours, he may earn much less. Not so sure abt the taxi association, I thought they will automatically become a member? Will need to ask him.<br /><br />I think he does have some corporate or regular lobangs but I don't think he has started to take them yet as he is not confident of how to fill up the in between waiting time with passengers so as not to wait without working. The routes have to be \"on the way\" or something like that so that he will not end up on the other side of SG and be on time to pick up the appointed customer.<br /><br />Yes, we know about the Drive and Save scheme and he is already contributing to it on a daily basis. Thanks for your advises.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283495</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283495</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[wifey2014]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2014 12:28:15 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Tue, 06 May 2014 12:19:07 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>BeContented:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>auntieM:</b><p>Hi wifey2014,<br /><br />How about getting your DH to check out those cabby forum where they chat about 'strategy' and pick up some tips.. ...<br />Can also try make friends with those seasoned cabbies over coffee where they hang out.. ..<br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /></p></blockquote></blockquote>Agree.  <br />My BIL friend quit job &amp; became cab driver.  He says quite good biz &amp; doing pretty ok.   Must know when &amp; where to go ie. he used the word 'strategize' &amp; dun be 无头苍蝇.   On timings when biz is generally bad, he takes some rest to recharge.   And he works only 5-6 days per week.<p></p></blockquote>Hi BeContented, ya at times when he sent a customer to some ulu place, or some places he is not familiar with, he may end up with an empty car for the return trip. Any advice from your BIL friend when &amp; where to go? Hmm, maybe a sensitive qns to ask as this is \"trade secret\" hor...<br /><br />And as I am not out with him I do not know if he is like 无头苍蝇 or not. Though during the short conversations with him at times I do understand from him that he is adjusting and trying out various methods to see how to improve biz.<br /><br />Am I asking or expecting too much since he is just about 2 weeks on the road? How long did your BIL friend \"learn\" before he reached \"mastery\" to just need to work 5-6 days?<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283488</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283488</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[wifey2014]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2014 12:19:07 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Tue, 06 May 2014 12:12:13 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>auntieM:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi wifey2014,<br /><br />How about getting your DH to check out those cabby forum where they chat about 'strategy' and pick up some tips.. ...<br />Can also try make friends with those seasoned cabbies over coffee where they hang out.. ..<br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /></blockquote></blockquote>Hi auntieM, where's the cabby forum? Never heard of that lei... <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f937.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--shrug" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":shrug:" alt="🤷" /> <br /><br />DH doesn't like to join the other cabbies for kopi break and he said most cabbies end up spending alot of time la kopi and never work. But the forum may be a good idea as i can help him to check. Thanks!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283482</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283482</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[wifey2014]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2014 12:12:13 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Tue, 06 May 2014 12:08:28 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>dimsum:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi wifey2014, based on the sharings of some taxi drivers when they chit chatted with me, I believe your hb  does not need to work 7 days a week and driving 14-15 hours a day. According to them, it is about working smart and not hard. Those who earn good income told me they don't aimlessly drive on the roads to search for customers. Seems like they have a small network and secure regular bookings from corporate customers. Many work around 10-12 hours a day and have relief drivers. <br /><br />My uncle, a retiree (close to 70 yrs old) drives less than 8 hours a day (and not daily) to pass time. I don't know how much he earns but if he can drive for fun, I am sure it is enough to cover the rental and petrol. <br />Recently, I read about this taxi booking app (Sorry, cant remember the name) that is getting popular in Singapore. Taxi drivers who signed up with it get attractive incentive for accepting bookings . This taxi  driver that was interviewed said his monthly earnings have increased. Perhaps you can ask your hubby to find out more and sign up too.</blockquote></blockquote>Thanks dimsum, I think he is a case of inexperience. Weekdays are still ok but surprisingly, on PH &amp; Sun biz was bad and he could only cover rental &amp; petrol even after a full day. I've heard of grabtaxi and has installed the app on his phone but he is still not very familiar with the procedures since it's not directly from the company's booking system. I don't really get to see or talk to him much these days and haven't been able to find out more. I hope as he build up his experience &amp; network, things will be better and he can start to reduce the hours of work.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283479</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283479</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[wifey2014]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2014 12:08:28 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Tue, 06 May 2014 12:08:28 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>dimsum:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi wifey2014, based on the sharings of some taxi drivers when they chit chatted with me, I believe your hb  does not need to work 7 days a week and driving 14-15 hours a day. According to them, it is about working smart and not hard. Those who earn good income told me they don't aimlessly drive on the roads to search for customers. Seems like they have a small network and secure regular bookings from corporate customers. Many work around 10-12 hours a day and have relief drivers. <br /><br />My uncle, a retiree (close to 70 yrs old) drives less than 8 hours a day (and not daily) to pass time. I don't know how much he earns but if he can drive for fun, I am sure it is enough to cover the rental and petrol. <br />Recently, I read about this taxi booking app (Sorry, cant remember the name) that is getting popular in Singapore. Taxi drivers who signed up with it get attractive incentive for accepting bookings . This taxi  driver that was interviewed said his monthly earnings have increased. Perhaps you can ask your hubby to find out more and sign up too.</blockquote></blockquote>Thanks dimsum, I think he is a case of inexperience. Weekdays are still ok but surprisingly, on PH &amp; Sun biz was bad and he could only cover rental &amp; petrol even after a full day. I've heard of grabtaxi and has installed the app on his phone but he is still not very familiar with the procedures since it's not directly from the company's booking system. I don't really get to see or talk to him much these days and haven't been able to find out more. I hope as he build up his experience &amp; network, things will be better and he can start to reduce the hours of work.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283478</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1283478</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[wifey2014]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2014 12:08:28 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Tue, 06 May 2014 02:49:31 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">He can also apply to DHL / FedEx and the likes?  It taps on his experience and it’s company provided vehicle.<br /><br /><br />No harm calling them and finding out.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282997</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282997</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[BlueBells]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2014 02:49:31 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Tue, 06 May 2014 02:12:37 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>wifey2014:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi, thanks for \"listening\" to my story and sharing your views. Appreciate that.<br /><br />Both of u are right. Yes, we need to adjust to the change. I will share with hubby about your suggestions of adjusting working time and the splitting of shifts (that is a very good suggestion beatrice!).<br /><br />I suppose I also need to give him some time to learn the ropes and adjust his own driving preference etc. If things still don't work out then will consider changing job.<br />Hope things will be better. Thanks!</blockquote></blockquote>hi wifey2014<br /><br />Which taxi operator did your DH hire his cab from?  If it's Comfort Delgro/City Cab or SMRT, there should be some internal advertising platforms to matchmake principal hirers like your DH with relief drivers. I know the former operator offers diesel rebates for their hirers.<br /><br />Has he joined the National Taxi Association yet? It might be useful to join this to widen his social network so that he can find a long-term partner to share the cab/slit the shifts. <a href="http://www.nta.org.sg/activities-54/recent-events/164-share-a-taxi-workshop.html">http://www.nta.org.sg/activities-54/recent-events/164-share-a-taxi-workshop.html</a><br /><br />Once DH gets into the network, he might come across good corporate or tourist lobangs that could help reduce his plying hours? <br /><br />As a self-employed person, your DH will need to top up his Medisave savings on his own. Did u know that MOM/CPFB has this \"Drive and Save\" scheme? <a href="http://www.nta.org.sg/drive-and-save-scheme">http://www.nta.org.sg/drive-and-save-scheme</a><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282977</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282977</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jetsetter]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2014 02:12:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Mon, 05 May 2014 16:43:10 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>auntieM:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi wifey2014,<br /><br />How about getting your DH to check out those cabby forum where they chat about 'strategy' and pick up some tips.. ...<br />Can also try make friends with those seasoned cabbies over coffee where they hang out.. ..<br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /></blockquote></blockquote>Wow, there is cabby forum!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282842</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282842</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[dimsum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2014 16:43:10 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Mon, 05 May 2014 16:42:26 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Wifey2014, the taxi booking app that I mentioned earlier is GRABTAXI. Even temasek invested in it.  <br /><br /><a href="http://grabtaxi.com/singapore/?gclid=CN">http://grabtaxi.com/singapore/?gclid=CN</a> ... jgodunIAMA<br /><a href="http://www.todayonline.com/singapore/ta">http://www.todayonline.com/singapore/ta</a> ... masek-unit</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282841</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282841</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[dimsum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2014 16:42:26 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Mon, 05 May 2014 16:03:22 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>auntieM:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi wifey2014,<br /><br />How about getting your DH to check out those cabby forum where they chat about 'strategy' and pick up some tips.. ...<br />Can also try make friends with those seasoned cabbies over coffee where they hang out.. ..<br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /></blockquote></blockquote>Agree.  <br />My BIL friend quit job &amp; became cab driver.  He says quite good biz &amp; doing pretty ok.   Must know when &amp; where to go ie. he used the word 'strategize' &amp; dun be 无头苍蝇.   On timings when biz is generally bad, he takes some rest to recharge.   And he works only 5-6 days per week.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282836</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282836</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[BeContented]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2014 16:03:22 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Mon, 05 May 2014 15:24:02 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Hi wifey2014,<br /><br />How about getting your DH to check out those cabby forum where they chat about 'strategy' and pick up some tips.. ...<br />Can also try make friends with those seasoned cabbies over coffee where they hang out.. ..<br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282815</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282815</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[auntieM]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2014 15:24:02 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Mon, 05 May 2014 15:08:26 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi wifey2014, based on the sharings of some taxi drivers when they chit chatted with me, I believe your hb  does not need to work 7 days a week and driving 14-15 hours a day. According to them, it is about working smart and not hard. Those who earn good income told me they don’t aimlessly drive on the roads to search for customers. Seems like they have a small network and secure regular bookings from corporate customers. Many work around 10-12 hours a day and have relief drivers. <br /><br />My uncle, a retiree (close to 70 yrs old) drives less than 8 hours a day (and not daily) to pass time. I don’t know how much he earns but if he can drive for fun, I am sure it is enough to cover the rental and petrol. <br />Recently, I read about this taxi booking app (Sorry, cant remember the name) that is getting popular in Singapore. Taxi drivers who signed up with it get attractive incentive for accepting bookings . This taxi  driver that was interviewed said his monthly earnings have increased. Perhaps you can ask your hubby to find out more and sign up too.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282803</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282803</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[dimsum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2014 15:08:26 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Mon, 05 May 2014 14:14:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi, thanks for "listening" to my story and sharing your views. Appreciate that.<br /><br />Both of u are right. Yes, we need to adjust to the change. I will share with hubby about your suggestions of adjusting working time and the splitting of shifts (that is a very good suggestion beatrice!).<br /><br />I suppose I also need to give him some time to learn the ropes and adjust his own driving preference etc. If things still don’t work out then will consider changing job.<br />Hope things will be better. Thanks!</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282776</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282776</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[wifey2014]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2014 14:14:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Mon, 05 May 2014 10:09:14 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Yep, I have heard of many families pulling through even with the sole breadwinner as a taxi driver. It can be done. Why not suggest for him to split his shifts? He can drive night shifts for maybe 3 days where the fares are doubled. Especially on weekends, there is a constant (and I mean constant) demand for taxis along the clubbing districts of clarke quay, boat quay, river valley, etc.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282586</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282586</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Beatrice_NoQ]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2014 10:09:14 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Depressed - Husband driving Taxi on Mon, 05 May 2014 06:39:36 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>So Sorry to hear what you are going through.<br /><br /><br />You mentioned that your spouse just started the taxi job for 2 weeks.<br />Maybe he should adjust his driving time , lower his earning target per day.<br /><br />If your spouse is so used of driving as a career , maybe he should look for jobs related to driving like working for SMRT, SBS , Private Bus Company.<br /><br />I think for above jobs he needs to upgrade his driving license.<br /><br />40 years ago , my uncle  was a full time taxi driver. <br />He managed to bring up 4 kids and own 2 private landed properties.<br />But this is 40 years ago!<br /><br />I guess every now and then we have to adjust our lifestyle when something happens.<br /><br />Like me, when late spouse was around . Going for Holidays trips is Yearly Affair . Now is 3 years then 1 trip.<br />All trips is always by SQ. Now the cheapest airline will do. :evil: <br /><br />Family Car was always Big Luxury European Car.<br />Now our transport - BMW<br />BUS/ MRT/WALK! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /> <br /><br />So must be strong , Good or Bad -Life is Just a Cycle!<br /><br />Take Care! :xedfingers:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282411</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1282411</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[dolphinsiah]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2014 06:39:36 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>