<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ??]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>sapphiredreams:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi, I'm a Y5 student in an IP school. I did alright in Y4, finishing with an overall GPA of 3.47 + 0.2 CCA bonus points. I used to be a very driven/motivated student who really strives to improve every test/exam. However, ever since I entered JC, the workload and subject difficulty suddenly increased tremendously and I find myself unable to cope with the rigour of the A level curriculum. I can't really absorb well in lectures. I've also lost my motivation to even complete my tutorials. It's like when the academic workload was manageable last year (I signed up for a couple of leadership activities), I was able to pace myself and set tiny milestones to work towards the bigger goal (to get 4H2s). Now, I'm just aimless and living a very empty life. I live in a motion and I know that all the trust and respect I've garnered from my friends are also decreasing because they see that I don't complete my tutorials/giving my best shot/studying/revising for any tests. Yes, I do procrastinate but it seems even worse than before because I was able to play catch up previously but now, I just accumulate a backlog of things undone, unsure and I kept clearing my \"debts\" by telling myself that \"I will get my shit together\" but I never seem to be able to do so after a week. I just find myself slacking and I have no 'energy' to pull myself together, knowing that I'm wittingly walking into the lion's den. <br /><br />Here is the estimate of my recent results: <br /><br />GP - B/C<br />Math - B (but i screwed up the last test)<br />Chemistry - U<br />Econs - U <br />History - D<br /><br />Admittedly, I've not been putting much effort studying and I know this is my own fault. I just feel like the sky is falling down and I can't muster any strength to prevent it. Do you have any advice for me?</blockquote></blockquote>Honestly, face up to your fears! Put your debt in front of you, every single piece of work. This is similar to a bankrupt cutting away their credit cards and looking at every single bank statement. <br />1. Start a regime for catching up! <br />2. Tell your close friends your regime with exact details and gain some social support! let down your pride a little(correct me if i am wrong but i feel that you do have some sense of self pride when you start talking about respect from friends), we all need our good friends in life! <br />3. Assess your progress with full honesty. <br /><br />Your attitude is what makes or break you but not these \"plans\". so Don't Give Up!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/79497/my-son-not-coping-well-in-jc-1-now-is-poly-route-better</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 04 May 2026 15:33:15 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/79497.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2015 08:15:24 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Fri, 19 Jun 2015 02:52:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>CatMoon:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I think ultimately, whether JC or Poly, it is important that the end goal is Uni. Majority of my friends who opted for Poly seemed to have \"lost\" their focus and interest in the end  - they didn't even try.</blockquote></blockquote><br /><br />I agree. My nephews n niece opt for Poly, did very well - got high GPA n qualified for NTU. Niece even got scholarship.<br /><br />It's important to stay focused on your goal so as to reach final destination.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1526310</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1526310</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[zbear]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2015 02:52:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Fri, 19 Jun 2015 02:45:24 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I think ultimately, whether JC or Poly, it is important that the end goal is Uni. Majority of my friends who opted for Poly seemed to have "lost" their focus and interest in the end  - they didn’t even try.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1526305</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1526305</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[CatMoon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2015 02:45:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Thu, 18 Jun 2015 18:25:39 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps it is the better students that i happen to know as the people i knew were all in pretty competitive courses at melbourne uni. the few jc people that i hung out with, we were all struggling with first year science even though we were science students. but could be we were lousy students in jc too <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /><br /><br /></p><blockquote><b>havok_ex:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>ajcy:</b><p>Just sharing my own experiences years ago. I was in a top 5 JC and good science class but wasn't doing well (Ended up with B, B, C) - in JC 2 i had good private tuition for all subjects . If i could go back and choose again, i wouldn't want to be pressured by my parents to 1st go to JC, then 2nd stay in JC to finish what i started. When i went to a good overseas uni to a science course of my choice, i felt that my two years in JC were a complete waste of my time since i did not particularly learn anything useful for university in terms of academics nor skills.<br /><br />Friends at my uni who came from Singapore polys seemed a lot more prepared for university. They are all now graduates with good jobs.  <br /><br />So, can't say what anyone should do, whether to go to poly or stay on, but just ask yourself, why are you staying on? what will happen if results don't turn out the way you want in the end and you're left with limited choices?</p></blockquote></blockquote>Really? From what I observe in local uni, everyone, both poly and JC are equally unprepared for university. Except for some of the better engineering students from poly who continue in their specific field of engineering. <br /><br />In fact, when you compare between JC and poly students in humanities courses, I think JC students seem more prepared since most poly students do not have a humanities background (geography, history, lit, philosophy) etc.<p></p></blockquote><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1526162</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1526162</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[ajcy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2015 18:25:39 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Tue, 09 Jun 2015 03:38:43 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><b><b>H2 Math For A Levels</b></b><br /><br /><br />Have the following for sale: 1. H2 math lecture notes from hwa Chong, vjc, njc, cjc, sajc. 2. H2 math prelim papers from 2014 and earlier. 3. H2 math papers and solutions for more than 10 years. 4. H2 math promo/ mid year papers. 5. Over 3000 pages of topical exercises, packages, summaries for h2 math.<br /><br /><b><b>H2 Chem For A Levels </b></b><br /><br />Have the following for sale: 1. H2 chemistry lecture notes from hwa Chong, raffles junior college for sale. 2. Over 1500 pages of topical exercise, resources, guides, packages for sale. 3. H2 chem prelim papers from 2014 and earlier with worked solutions. 4. H2 chem A level papers with solutions for more than 10 years.<br /><br /><b><b>H2 Physics For A Levels </b></b><br /><br />Have the following for sale: 1. H2 physics lecture notes from hwa Chong, Dunman high school. 2. Over 1200 pages of topical exercises/ summaries/ packages compiled from various junior colleges- solutions included. 3. H2/h1 physics prelim papers with solutions from 2014 and earlier.<br /><br /><br /><b><b>H1 General Paper For A Levels </b></b><br /><br />Have the following for sale: 1. Gp notes by Rjc students. 2. School of thought notes. 3. Broader perspectives (&gt;20 editions). 4. Ks Bulls from various years. 5. Prelim papers from 2014 and earlier available. 6. Hwa Chong guides/ gp Bulls. 7. Other junior college's essay compilations such as vjc, tjc, njc etc. 8. Gp database.<br /><br /><br /><b><b>H2 Economics For A Levels</b></b><br /><br /><br />Have the following for sale: 1. H2 econs model essays/ essay outlines compiled from various junior colleges- over 600 pages 2. H2 econs summaries from various junior colleges( both micro and macro). 3. H2/ h1 econs essay and case study guides. 4. H2/ h1 econs prelim papers from 2014 and earlier with worked solutions available.<br /><br /><b><b>Also have Primary School Papers for sale too. All levels included. All subjects included</b></b><br /><br />Email me at <b><b>leonardlimty@hotmail.com</b></b> to receive previews or samples for any of the above.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1521021</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1521021</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[leonardlim]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2015 03:38:43 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Fri, 05 Jun 2015 04:05:49 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>ajcy:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Just sharing my own experiences years ago. I was in a top 5 JC and good science class but wasn't doing well (Ended up with B, B, C) - in JC 2 i had good private tuition for all subjects . If i could go back and choose again, i wouldn't want to be pressured by my parents to 1st go to JC, then 2nd stay in JC to finish what i started. When i went to a good overseas uni to a science course of my choice, i felt that my two years in JC were a complete waste of my time since i did not particularly learn anything useful for university in terms of academics nor skills.<br /><br /><br />Friends at my uni who came from Singapore polys seemed a lot more prepared for university. They are all now graduates with good jobs.  <br /><br />So, can't say what anyone should do, whether to go to poly or stay on, but just ask yourself, why are you staying on? what will happen if results don't turn out the way you want in the end and you're left with limited choices?</blockquote></blockquote>Really? From what I observe in local uni, everyone, both poly and JC are equally unprepared for university. Except for some of the better engineering students from poly who continue in their specific field of engineering. <br /><br />In fact, when you compare between JC and poly students in humanities courses, I think JC students seem more prepared since most poly students do not have a humanities background (geography, history, lit, philosophy) etc.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1518602</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1518602</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[havok_ex]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2015 04:05:49 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Fri, 05 Jun 2015 02:25:07 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>ajcy:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Just sharing my own experiences years ago. I was in a top 5 JC and good science class but wasn't doing well (Ended up with B, B, C) - in JC 2 i had good private tuition for all subjects . If i could go back and choose again, i wouldn't want to be pressured by my parents to 1st go to JC, then 2nd stay in JC to finish what i started. When i went to a good overseas uni to a science course of my choice, i felt that my two years in JC were a complete waste of my time since i did not particularly learn anything useful for university in terms of academics nor skills.<br /><br /><br />Friends at my uni who came from Singapore polys seemed a lot more prepared for university. They are all now graduates with good jobs.  <br /><br />So, can't say what anyone should do, whether to go to poly or stay on, but just ask yourself, why are you staying on? what will happen if results don't turn out the way you want in the end and you're left with limited choices?</blockquote></blockquote> :goodpost:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1518554</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1518554</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[kitty2]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2015 02:25:07 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Thu, 04 Jun 2015 15:38:28 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Just sharing my own experiences years ago. I was in a top 5 JC and good science class but wasn’t doing well (Ended up with B, B, C) - in JC 2 i had good private tuition for all subjects . If i could go back and choose again, i wouldn’t want to be pressured by my parents to 1st go to JC, then 2nd stay in JC to finish what i started. When i went to a good overseas uni to a science course of my choice, i felt that my two years in JC were a complete waste of my time since i did not particularly learn anything useful for university in terms of academics nor skills.<br /><br /><br />Friends at my uni who came from Singapore polys seemed a lot more prepared for university. They are all now graduates with good jobs.  <br /><br />So, can’t say what anyone should do, whether to go to poly or stay on, but just ask yourself, why are you staying on? what will happen if results don’t turn out the way you want in the end and you’re left with limited choices?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1518399</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1518399</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[ajcy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2015 15:38:28 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Sun, 24 May 2015 16:01:16 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>sapphiredreams:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi, I'm a Y5 student in an IP school. I did alright in Y4, finishing with an overall GPA of 3.47 + 0.2 CCA bonus points. I used to be a very driven/motivated student who really strives to improve every test/exam. However, ever since I entered JC, the workload and subject difficulty suddenly increased tremendously and I find myself unable to cope with the rigour of the A level curriculum. I can't really absorb well in lectures. I've also lost my motivation to even complete my tutorials. It's like when the academic workload was manageable last year (I signed up for a couple of leadership activities), I was able to pace myself and set tiny milestones to work towards the bigger goal (to get 4H2s). Now, I'm just aimless and living a very empty life. I live in a motion and I know that all the trust and respect I've garnered from my friends are also decreasing because they see that I don't complete my tutorials/giving my best shot/studying/revising for any tests. Yes, I do procrastinate but it seems even worse than before because I was able to play catch up previously but now, I just accumulate a backlog of things undone, unsure and I kept clearing my \"debts\" by telling myself that \"I will get my shit together\" but I never seem to be able to do so after a week. I just find myself slacking and I have no 'energy' to pull myself together, knowing that I'm wittingly walking into the lion's den. <br /><br />Here is the estimate of my recent results: <br /><br />GP - B/C<br />Math - B (but i screwed up the last test)<br />Chemistry - U<br />Econs - U <br />History - D<br /><br />Admittedly, I've not been putting much effort studying and I know this is my own fault. I just feel like the sky is falling down and I can't muster any strength to prevent it. Do you have any advice for me?</blockquote></blockquote>Your grades aren't all that terrible honestly. For crying out loud you managed a B grade for maths despite screwing the last test. Consider yourself lucky that you know you didn't do well because you didn't strive hard enough, not because you tried and still couldn't make it.<br /><br />If you read this person's circumstances you will know what I mean.<br /><br />Hello,<br /><br />I am a J3 student redoing my 'A' Levels in a mid-tier JC (don't feel comfortable disclosing which school sorry), and my recent block test results were really bad. Despite working so hard, I feel like I'm not making any progress, and I am so scared my 'A' Level results this time round will also be equally horrible, and I can't get into university in the end. That will mean I have completely wasted 3 years of my life. Having so many sleepless nights, should I just call it quits now and transfer to a poly? Or hang on hoping things will turn out okay? <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" /><br /><br />Source: <a href="http://goo.gl/XXJW1G">http://goo.gl/XXJW1G</a><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1512165</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1512165</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[annielovesboogeydog]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2015 16:01:16 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Thu, 21 May 2015 09:05:51 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I think you’re stressed up and feeling negative. For a start, you can change all your "I can’t…" statements to "I can…" A change in attitude may be what you need to get started. Start small and good luck!</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1510530</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1510530</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mdm Koh]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2015 09:05:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Thu, 21 May 2015 08:15:02 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><a></a></p><blockquote><b>sapphiredreams:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi, I'm a Y5 student in an IP school. I did alright in Y4, finishing with an overall GPA of 3.47 + 0.2 CCA bonus points. I used to be a very driven/motivated student who really strives to improve every test/exam. However, ever since I entered JC, the workload and subject difficulty suddenly increased tremendously and I find myself unable to cope with the rigour of the A level curriculum. I can't really absorb well in lectures. I've also lost my motivation to even complete my tutorials. It's like when the academic workload was manageable last year (I signed up for a couple of leadership activities), I was able to pace myself and set tiny milestones to work towards the bigger goal (to get 4H2s). Now, I'm just aimless and living a very empty life. I live in a motion and I know that all the trust and respect I've garnered from my friends are also decreasing because they see that I don't complete my tutorials/giving my best shot/studying/revising for any tests. Yes, I do procrastinate but it seems even worse than before because I was able to play catch up previously but now, I just accumulate a backlog of things undone, unsure and I kept clearing my \"debts\" by telling myself that \"I will get my shit together\" but I never seem to be able to do so after a week. I just find myself slacking and I have no 'energy' to pull myself together, knowing that I'm wittingly walking into the lion's den. <br /><br />Here is the estimate of my recent results: <br /><br />GP - B/C<br />Math - B (but i screwed up the last test)<br />Chemistry - U<br />Econs - U <br />History - D<br /><br />Admittedly, I've not been putting much effort studying and I know this is my own fault. I just feel like the sky is falling down and I can't muster any strength to prevent it. Do you have any advice for me?</blockquote></blockquote>Lock yourself up in the coming June break and be a serious mugger for a month to catch up<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1510499</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1510499</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pirated]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2015 08:15:02 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Thu, 21 May 2015 07:28:59 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi, I’m a Y5 student in an IP school. I did alright in Y4, finishing with an overall GPA of 3.47 + 0.2 CCA bonus points. I used to be a very driven/motivated student who really strives to improve every test/exam. However, ever since I entered JC, the workload and subject difficulty suddenly increased tremendously and I find myself unable to cope with the rigour of the A level curriculum. I can’t really absorb well in lectures. I’ve also lost my motivation to even complete my tutorials. It’s like when the academic workload was manageable last year (I signed up for a couple of leadership activities), I was able to pace myself and set tiny milestones to work towards the bigger goal (to get 4H2s). Now, I’m just aimless and living a very empty life. I live in a motion and I know that all the trust and respect I’ve garnered from my friends are also decreasing because they see that I don’t complete my tutorials/giving my best shot/studying/revising for any tests. Yes, I do procrastinate but it seems even worse than before because I was able to play catch up previously but now, I just accumulate a backlog of things undone, unsure and I kept clearing my "debts" by telling myself that "I will get my shit together" but I never seem to be able to do so after a week. I just find myself slacking and I have no ‘energy’ to pull myself together, knowing that I’m wittingly walking into the lion’s den. <br /><br />Here is the estimate of my recent results: <br /><br />GP - B/C<br />Math - B (but i screwed up the last test)<br />Chemistry - U<br />Econs - U <br />History - D<br /><br />Admittedly, I’ve not been putting much effort studying and I know this is my own fault. I just feel like the sky is falling down and I can’t muster any strength to prevent it. Do you have any advice for me?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1510477</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1510477</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sapphiredreams]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2015 07:28:59 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Fri, 28 Nov 2014 02:00:45 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>csc:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Thanks for the sharing. Glad to know my gal is not alone. Looking at her results at her promo, I actually went into panic mode and she has to attend tuition classes  this holiday. <br /><br /><br />The classes are helpful in regaining her confidence and clarifying her doubts. The tutors gave good summary notes. Just wondering why her own JC tutors are not doing the same thing?</blockquote></blockquote>don't they allow appointment for consultation ? those jc i know of they do allow<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1424058</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1424058</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pirated]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2014 02:00:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Fri, 28 Nov 2014 01:55:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Thanks for the sharing. Glad to know my gal is not alone. Looking at her results at her promo, I actually went into panic mode and she has to attend tuition classes  this holiday. <br /><br /><br />The classes are helpful in regaining her confidence and clarifying her doubts. The tutors gave good summary notes. Just wondering why her own JC tutors are not doing the same thing?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1424054</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1424054</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[csc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2014 01:55:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Mon, 13 Oct 2014 14:47:47 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Dr.Daniel:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><span style="\&quot;color:">I can tell you that for physics there is a big jump in difficulty between O'Level Pure Physics and A'Level H2 Physics</span>. That's why for secondary students who tell me they want to go to JC, I try to go a bit beyond the standard O'Level, so they at least have a head start going into JC. And JC1 can be rather brutal. I've got students now who passed their promos but they are seeing 1/4 or even up to 1/3 of their classmates not getting promoted.</blockquote></blockquote>Would like to add to the above....Not only for Physics...<br />There is also a huge gap in difficulty between O level n H2 Chem (as well as Bio)..<br /><br />As what was forewarned by the Chem teachers at the beginning of the yr...<br />What pupils learn in O level Chem is only a few % of H2 Chem...<br />Failures rate is high in gal's promos exam...( grades S and U)<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1398228</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1398228</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Augmum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2014 14:47:47 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Mon, 13 Oct 2014 09:17:49 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>phankao:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><br /> So...... is there something in the IP curriculum that prepares them better? Sigh - apart from accelerating them too lah.</blockquote></blockquote>Based on the students I have seen from lots of IP schools the answer is yes, the IP track prepares students better for A'Level. Usually in Sec 3 and Sec 4 I see the IP schools doing some of the easier problems that are encountered at A'Level but are beyond the O'Level. This eases the transition once they get to A'Level. When I have IP students I go over this more advanced material and give them some harder practice worksheets. <br /><br />I can tell you that for physics there is a big jump in difficulty between O'Level Pure Physics and A'Level H2 Physics. That's why for secondary students who tell me they want to go to JC, I try to go a bit beyond the standard O'Level, so they at least have a head start going into JC. And JC1 can be rather brutal. I've got students now who passed their promos but they are seeing 1/4 or even up to 1/3 of their classmates not getting promoted.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1398102</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1398102</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr.033430Daniel]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2014 09:17:49 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Thu, 25 Sep 2014 03:21:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>phankao:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>whizzard:</b><p>[quote=\"phankao\"]<br /><br />Whizzard - not even \"mediocre\" grades. S &amp; U grades basically mean fail at A-level standard. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" />   On the flipside, my other child who is now in JC1 but went through the IP programme (no O-levels) got fairly decent grades at Mid-year, including A grades.  And he isn't even one of those top students who went thru IP but is in the programme bc of DSA (PSLE score below school COP).  So...... is there something in the IP curriculum that prepares them better? Sigh - apart from accelerating them too lah.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Hi phankao:  I hope it didn't cause you unnecessary worry then but it's water under the bridge for you now.  :boogie: <br /><br />I just hope they see it as a challenge, persevere and believe in themselves rather than be disillusioned.  Of course as a parent, I also get worried but am checking myself not to push my son too much ..... unless he is not building momentum on his own.   :spank:<p></p></blockquote>Whizzard - <b><b><span style="\&quot;color:">it was somewhat worrying but can't help it</span></b></b>.  Esp when the percentile was low too, and definitely NOT in top JC !!!   My child found it somewhat of a bad experience - being in JC. But went to JC simply bc couldn't decide what to do in Poly. So going to JC was just like the next logical step.  With such bad experience in JC, eventual plan was that, if actual A-level results cannot make it to the Univ, then would go to Poly, do a course that has a Degree option or simply that we'd send overseas for additional degree year(s).   So that was the plan.[/quote]I am in the same boat now ..... I think I worry more than my son worries and I am not the one preparing and eventually taking the A level exams ..... though I know I would have to help him deal with the consequences of not doing well if that happens, which I am doing my best to prevent it from happening.<br /><br />I learnt a few lessons myself:-<br />(1)  That I have to adjust my own expectations for his transition from O to A levels;<br />(2)  That my son's perception about A levels is not always accurate and it needs to be corrected;<br />(3)  That I need to be more hands-on in advising and guiding him for his preparations unlike the O levels.    <br /><br />At the end of the day, whatever resources we provide for our children, an A grade has to be earned from their own sheer hard work and determination.<br /><br />Whatever the case, I hope he does well enough for his promos and I will need to review with him the year that has gone by and set the stage for the year that will be coming up.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388448</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388448</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[whizzard]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2014 03:21:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Wed, 24 Sep 2014 15:33:48 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Annabelle21:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi All<br /><br />Thanks for all your sharing. I agree with all of you... some of the JCs are known for setting tough papers.And this may somewhat discourage our poor kids, esp those who are not resilient enough in telling themselves \"I can do it &amp; I must put in my very best\".<br />My child is one such example. He ( &amp; his peers) have the mentality that \"no matter how hard i try, i'll still fail\".<br />As parents,this is a frightening scenario for us; seeing our kids giving up hope even before they enter the examination ground <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" /><br />It's exam time now... let's wish all our kids the very best &amp; may they learn to realise that one has to put in effort in order to yield results.</blockquote></blockquote>For Maths, try not to give up! Even if it seems difficult at first, it is because it is new material, and learning new things often seems hard at first. Continuing thinking and progress will come slowly but surely. It is like the \"rabbit and tortoise race\", even though the tortoise is slow, he will definitely reach the finishing line eventually. And maybe the tortoise can even beat the rabbit if the rabbit gets complacent. \"Learn one thing about Math everyday\" is a good motto.<br /><br />The strategy for studying Maths is to learn the basic theory and exercises as soon as possible so that one can start practicing past year papers. Once you reach the standard that you can attempt past year papers, with each past year paper you practice, your knowledge and technique will improve dramatically. Circle those questions that are not sure, and try them again after a few weeks.<br /><br />Try not to compare with others as that may make one either demoralised or complacent. Always strive to do one's best. Although exams are graded on a bell curve, ultimately the goal of education is to reach the maximum of one's own potential.<br /><br /><img src="\&quot;http://mathtuition88.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/keep-thinking.png?w=640\&quot;" /><img src="\&quot;&lt;a" />http://mathtuition88.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/keep-thinking.png?w=640\"&gt;<br />This is a quote by famous mathematician Zhang Yitang, who recently made breakthrough in the Twin Prime Conjecture. His talents were not recognized and he was working in Subway, but he did not give up. After many years of hard work, he proved that there are infinitely many pairs of primes with gap less than 70 million.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388215</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388215</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mathtuition88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2014 15:33:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Wed, 24 Sep 2014 11:01:21 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Thanks very much, Phankao.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388123</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388123</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Annabelle21]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2014 11:01:21 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Wed, 24 Sep 2014 10:55:53 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Annabelle21:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi All<br /><br />Thanks for all your sharing. I agree with all of you... some of the JCs are known for setting tough papers.And this may somewhat discourage our poor kids, esp those who are not resilient enough in telling themselves \"I can do it &amp; I must put in my very best\".<br />My child is one such example. He ( &amp; his peers) have the mentality that \"no matter how hard i try, i'll still fail\".<br />As parents,this is a frightening scenario for us; seeing our kids giving up hope even before they enter the examination ground <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" /><br />It's exam time now... let's wish all our kids the very best &amp; may they learn to realise that one has to put in effort in order to yield results.</blockquote></blockquote>Just remember to tell your son not to give up hope. Bc it's mostly a test of endurance!  If get discouraged, then no hope already.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388119</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388119</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phankao]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2014 10:55:53 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Wed, 24 Sep 2014 10:49:36 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Hi All<br /><br />Thanks for all your sharing. I agree with all of you... some of the JCs are known for setting tough papers.And this may somewhat discourage our poor kids, esp those who are not resilient enough in telling themselves \"I can do it &amp; I must put in my very best\".<br />My child is one such example. He ( &amp; his peers) have the mentality that \"no matter how hard i try, i'll still fail\".<br />As parents,this is a frightening scenario for us; seeing our kids giving up hope even before they enter the examination ground <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" /><br />It's exam time now... let's wish all our kids the very best &amp; may they learn to realise that one has to put in effort in order to yield results.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388115</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388115</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Annabelle21]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2014 10:49:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Wed, 24 Sep 2014 09:05:34 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>whizzard:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>phankao:</b><p><br /><br />Whizzard - not even \"mediocre\" grades. S &amp; U grades basically mean fail at A-level standard. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" />   On the flipside, my other child who is now in JC1 but went through the IP programme (no O-levels) got fairly decent grades at Mid-year, including A grades.  And he isn't even one of those top students who went thru IP but is in the programme bc of DSA (PSLE score below school COP).  So...... is there something in the IP curriculum that prepares them better? Sigh - apart from accelerating them too lah.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Hi phankao:  I hope it didn't cause you unnecessary worry then but it's water under the bridge for you now.  :boogie: <br /><br />I just hope they see it as a challenge, persevere and believe in themselves rather than be disillusioned.  Of course as a parent, I also get worried but am checking myself not to push my son too much ..... unless he is not building momentum on his own.   :spank:<p></p></blockquote>Whizzard - it was somewhat worrying but can't help it.  Esp when the percentile was low too, and definitely NOT in top JC !!!   My child found it somewhat of a bad experience - being in JC. But went to JC simply bc couldn't decide what to do in Poly. So going to JC was just like the next logical step.  With such bad experience in JC, eventual plan was that, if actual A-level results cannot make it to the Univ, then would go to Poly, do a course that has a Degree option or simply that we'd send overseas for additional degree year(s).   So that was the plan.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388059</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388059</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phankao]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2014 09:05:34 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Wed, 24 Sep 2014 09:03:23 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>gjooheng:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I am a JC H2 math tutor. A level math is so much easier than the questions in JC.<br /><br /><br />Analogy: to get A in A level, one need to clear a height of 1m in high jump.<br /><br />Some schools set questions at 1.2 m high, some set at 1.4 m especially the top JCs. Hence, getting lousy grades in JC does not mean lousy performance in A level.<br /><br />Try the A level questions and see whether your son can do it. That's the actual standard required. In fact, 50% of students score distinction in A level math.<br /><br />The high standards set by JCs prepare students well for universities, where only the top 10 to 20% get A grades.</blockquote></blockquote>Hmm ..... I do not necessarily doubt that some of the JCs may set tougher questions than the A levels to raise their students' standards but isn't the A level grades moderated into a bell curve such that the percentage of students scoring an A would remain more or less the same in each cohort?  <br /><br />Just that the marks for scoring an A may differ from year to year depending on the quality of the cohort and the difficulty of the paper.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388057</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388057</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[whizzard]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2014 09:03:23 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to My son not coping well in JC 1 now&#x2F;is Poly route better ?? on Wed, 24 Sep 2014 08:05:53 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>phankao:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><br />Whizzard - not even \"mediocre\" grades. S &amp; U grades basically mean fail at A-level standard. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" />   On the flipside, my other child who is now in JC1 but went through the IP programme (no O-levels) got fairly decent grades at Mid-year, including A grades.  And he isn't even one of those top students who went thru IP but is in the programme bc of DSA (PSLE score below school COP).  So...... is there something in the IP curriculum that prepares them better? Sigh - apart from accelerating them too lah.</blockquote></blockquote>Hi phankao:  I hope it didn't cause you unnecessary worry then but it's water under the bridge for you now.  :boogie: <br /><br />I just hope they see it as a challenge, persevere and believe in themselves rather than be disillusioned.  Of course as a parent, I also get worried but am checking myself not to push my son too much ..... unless he is not building momentum on his own.   :spank:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388002</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1388002</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[whizzard]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2014 08:05:53 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>