<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Anglo-Chinese School (Independent)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">My boy brought back a invitation letter from his school yesterday rdg a presentation talk about the ACS Independent. <br /><br /><br />Any feedback regarding this school?<br /><br />Txs</p>
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<p dir="auto">My apologies for posting this bus service as we received feedback that many parents cannot find school bus service for their boys/girls.</p>
<p dir="auto">We are a licensed bus transport service provider ferrying Acsi’s students since 2021, covering Bukit Timah, Newton, Orchard and River Valley.</p>
<p dir="auto">If you are from other areas, and have a group pooling together, we try our best to help start a new route.</p>
<p dir="auto">Do contact me by whatsapp 83831088 (Darren).</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2147279</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2147279</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[tan6866]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 21 Dec 2025 19:08:58 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Sun, 30 Nov 2025 01:39:32 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">@J-Loke said in <a href="/post/2147118">Anglo-Chinese School (Independent)</a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">Hoping to get the year 1 ACSI uniform before leaving for holiday.<br />
May I know where can I find the unform list for ACSI?<br />
<a href="https://www.schooluniforms.sg/acs-independent-11" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow ugc">https://www.schooluniforms.sg/acs-independent-11</a></p>
<p dir="auto">Which ones are required and worn more frequently?</p>
<p dir="auto">thanks</p>
</blockquote>
<p dir="auto">Call the retail shop (or walk in) to enquire. They are extremely experienced in advising what to buy for every school.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2147119</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2147119</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[zac&#x27;s mum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2025 01:39:32 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Sat, 29 Nov 2025 23:51:24 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hoping to get the year 1 ACSI uniform before leaving for holiday.<br />
May I know where can I find the unform list for ACSI?<br />
<a href="https://www.schooluniforms.sg/acs-independent-11" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow ugc">https://www.schooluniforms.sg/acs-independent-11</a></p>
<p dir="auto">Which ones are required and worn more frequently?</p>
<p dir="auto">thanks</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2147118</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2147118</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[J.Loke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2025 23:51:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Sun, 23 Mar 2025 11:02:07 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi, wonder if there were any success stories of boys transferring from ACS BR to ACSI (Sec) at end of sec 1? my child met the COP for ACSI (Sec) but was balloted out and posted to our next choice ACS BR. We tried to appeal but no reply from them and we wonder if it will be worth taking the effort to try the transfer at end sec 1. any advice is appreciated. thank you.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2143583</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2143583</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[potatospringroll]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2025 11:02:07 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Sat, 18 Jan 2025 22:06:53 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/mama_ambitious" aria-label="Profile: Mama_ambitious">@<bdi>Mama_ambitious</bdi></a></p>
<p dir="auto">Is it only your child, feel this way ?<br />
How about the rest of the students, inside his IB class ? How do they feel, about this same Teacher ?</p>
<p dir="auto">If is the general consensus of the whole class that this IB Teacher is really no good,</p>
<p dir="auto">then,</p>
<p dir="auto">Let the students inside his class raise this issue up, directly to the Form Teacher plus the (Academic VP + Principal), inside ACSI. Let the students themselves, at 18 years old already, raise this issue up, themselves, directly to the VP + Principal. Parents should not intervene anymore, when students have already reached this age (18 years old).</p>
<p dir="auto">What happen next is,<br />
if what the students collaboratively as a class, feel that this IB Teacher (ACSI) is really no good, then,<br />
ACSI should, ought to find another Teacher, to substitute and to replace this no-good IB Teacher. Of course, ACSI (P + VP) will ask their students :-  in what way, is this IB Teacher, no good ? Show evidence.</p>
<p dir="auto">They can inform this Teacher to teach, up to the remaining balance days, in the current Term. When the next new Term come, ACSI ought to have replaced this IB Teacher, with another one. This no good Teacher, would have left the school, in the next new Term, if he or she, is really no good.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142955</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142955</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phtthp]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 18 Jan 2025 22:06:53 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Fri, 17 Jan 2025 01:08:31 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><img src="https://uniim1.shutterfly.com/render/00-rSxJbtQainpkSvx2egHb8bld0IEzIvfYONCLtIcDvwE00MXbBviXJf7RGLllKv5UqCe7ffHDJpwno-pEcjtJnw?cn=THISLIFE&amp;res=small&amp;ts=1737075215" alt="alt text" class=" img-fluid img-markdown" /></p>
<p dir="auto"><a href="https://chat.whatsapp.com/HqXsqqSuKgYFWOCCeHlCZE" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow ugc">https://chat.whatsapp.com/HqXsqqSuKgYFWOCCeHlCZE</a></p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142879</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142879</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[lnjason888]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jan 2025 01:08:31 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Fri, 10 Jan 2025 02:43:45 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/mama_ambitious" aria-label="Profile: Mama_ambitious">@<bdi>Mama_ambitious</bdi></a> If a school teacher is negligent or incompetent, perhaps the way to voice this concern, is to the school?</p>
<p dir="auto">My impression is that the schools offering IB In Singapore are generally producing very strong scores, hence by and large the teaching should be quite okay? For the occasional less than stellar teacher, there is tuition (haha Singapore style).</p>
<p dir="auto">IO marking is moderated by IBO I think.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142795</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142795</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[doodbug]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jan 2025 02:43:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Fri, 10 Jan 2025 01:35:18 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Dear parents of Students sitting for IB this year,</p>
<p dir="auto">Would be good to be connected here anonymously and share insights on how we can support our students.</p>
<p dir="auto">Right now, I am particularly troubled by teacher who teaches language arts in the school and really does not belong there.<br />
Even the boys know that she is wasting their time. and there is no real analysis being done.</p>
<p dir="auto">I worry as even the IOs will be marked by this teacher. What options do we have at this stage but to ride the year out…</p>
<p dir="auto">Any thoughts and PMs are welcome.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142792</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142792</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mama_ambitious]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jan 2025 01:35:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Wed, 18 Dec 2024 06:41:31 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">ACS (INDEPENDENT)’S 2024 IB EXAM RESULTS 18 DEC 2024</p>
<p dir="auto">100.0% passes; school achieved an average score of 41.2 points.</p>
<p dir="auto">Anglo-Chinese School (Independent)’s Class of 2024 comprising 452 students achieved 100% passes at the November 2024 International Baccalaureate (IB) Diploma Programme Examination. Of these 452 students, 356 (79%) obtained 40 points and above, while 267 students (59%) achieved a score of between 42 to 45 points. This set of results saw the school achieving an average score of 41.2 points. The students received their results online at 8 am on 18 December 2024 via the IB candidate website.</p>
<p dir="auto">The Principal of Anglo-Chinese School (Independent), Mr Arene Koh, extends his heartfelt congratulations to the Class of 2024 for completing the rigorous IB Diploma Programme (IBDP) and achieving outstanding results in the November 2024 IBDP examinations.</p>
<p dir="auto">Commending their performance and achievements, he noted that this outcome has shown what is possible when dedication, resilience, and the pursuit of excellence come together. He urged the Class of 2024 to remain steadfast in their journey and continue to build a legacy of positive change as they step into the next chapter.</p>
<p dir="auto">The school also expresses its gratitude to the ACS Board of Governors, the ACS(I) Board of Management, the ACS Old Boys’ Association, the Methodist Church in Singapore, MOE, parents and well-wishers for their support and encouragement.</p>
<p dir="auto">The IBDP Class of 2024, together with teachers, parents and the Senior Administration, will come together on 3 January 2025 to celebrate and give thanks for this set of results.</p>
<p dir="auto">To God Be The Glory!<br />
The Best Is Yet To Be!</p>
<p dir="auto">Source:<br />
<a href="https://www.acsindep.moe.edu.sg/acs-independent-s-2024-ib-exam-results/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow ugc">https://www.acsindep.moe.edu.sg/acs-independent-s-2024-ib-exam-results/</a></p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142598</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142598</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sky minecrafter]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Dec 2024 06:41:31 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Mon, 02 Dec 2024 05:51:26 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Asking for a friend living in Newton. Is there still a private school bus service from Newton area to ACSI? Pls PM me the latest contact details. Thanks.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142504</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2142504</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[zac&#x27;s mum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Dec 2024 05:51:26 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Mon, 15 Apr 2024 05:13:32 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>blessedm\" post_id=\"2132066\" time=\"1712308504\" user_id=\"113006:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Looking at the most recent COP for ACSI, both IP and O levels are standing at AL7 for non affiliated students. <br />I hope to hear what are your views if my child who's not from ACS, gets AL7, which would he stand a higher chance of entry? Given that IP has a smaller intake (I think) but with no affiliation at all vs O levels with a bigger intake but only 20% space for children not from affiliated schools. <br /><br />Will be great also if anyone knows the intake for both tracks each year or in 2023.</blockquote></blockquote>Have you called the school to find out the intake for both tracks in 2023? I doubt 80% of ACSI G3 (O levels) seats go to affiliated ACSJ and ACSP kids. <br /><br />If my child scores AL7, I think he will stand higher chance to get into ACSI if he chooses O levels stream, assuming he has no preference for the streams and just wants to get into the school. <br /><br />But if he only wants IP stream, then he should ONLY place ACSI IP as first choice.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132681</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132681</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[manorway]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Apr 2024 05:13:32 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Mon, 15 Apr 2024 00:15:42 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi, may I check where I can buy references books/ practise materials for ACSI IP year 1 for the various subjects?<br /><br /><br />It seems not so many books in Polular Bookstore suit for IP students.<br /><br />Thank you!:)</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132664</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132664</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[skysky2018]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Apr 2024 00:15:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Mon, 08 Apr 2024 02:37:21 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>phtthp\" post_id=\"2132084\" time=\"1712322427\" user_id=\"35251:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />If your child's PSLE AL score is exactly equal to (identical) Any  Secondary school's official Cut off point, not just ACSI only - <br /><br />then,<br /><br />there will be a computer balloting taking place, when  the demand exceeds the available supply of  vacancies (seats). Everything  will depend on your child's luck, during computer balloting process.  Of course, SG citizenship also play a part. Priority is given to SCs first. SC comes before any PRs &amp; PRs come before any foreigners. So, the answer is - <br /><br />during computer balloting for the last seat available, your P6 son only have ... 50  percent chance. Is either in or out, during the computerised balloting.  So, what to do ?<br /><br />Just make sure that inside your S1 listing submitted to MOE, ensure that there are some other Sec schools whose official Cut off point is more than AL 7. Example, COP with AL (8 or 9 or 10, etc), so that other sec schools can \"catch\" your son, well.<br /><br />SC : Singapore Citizenship<br /><br />In the event those with AL 7 got balloted out of ACSI, can proceed to appeal. But appeal, is a separate matter.</blockquote></blockquote>Thanks for the explanation. I understand the process but just wondering in advance if I'm stuck in such a predicament, which would have a higher chance of admittance within ACSI.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132241</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132241</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[blessedm]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 08 Apr 2024 02:37:21 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Fri, 05 Apr 2024 13:07:07 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>blessedm\" post_id=\"2132066\" time=\"1712308504\" user_id=\"113006:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Looking at the most recent COP for ACSI, both IP and O levels are standing at AL7 for non affiliated students. <br />I hope to hear what are your views if my child who's not from ACS, gets AL7, which would he stand a higher chance of entry? Given that IP has a smaller intake (I think) but with no affiliation at all vs O levels with a bigger intake but only 20% space for children not from affiliated schools. <br /><br />Will be great also if anyone knows the intake for both tracks each year or in 2023.</blockquote></blockquote>If your child's PSLE AL score is exactly equal to (identical) Any  Secondary school's official Cut off point, not just ACSI only - <br /><br />then,<br /><br />there will be a computer balloting taking place, when  the demand exceeds the available supply of  vacancies (seats). Everything  will depend on your child's luck, during computer balloting process.  Of course, SG citizenship also play a part. Priority is given to SCs first. SC comes before any PRs &amp; PRs come before any foreigners. So, the answer is - <br /><br />during computer balloting for the last seat available, your P6 son only have ... 50  percent chance. Is either in or out, during the computerised balloting.  So, what to do ?<br /><br />Just make sure that inside your S1 listing submitted to MOE, ensure that there are some other Sec schools whose official Cut off point is more than AL 7. Example, COP with AL (8 or 9 or 10, etc), so that other sec schools can \"catch\" your son, well.<br /><br />SC : Singapore Citizenship<br /><br />In the event those with AL 7 got balloted out of ACSI, can proceed to appeal. But appeal, is a separate matter.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132084</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132084</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phtthp]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 05 Apr 2024 13:07:07 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Fri, 05 Apr 2024 09:15:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Looking at the most recent COP for ACSI, both IP and O levels are standing at AL7 for non affiliated students. <br /><br />I hope to hear what are your views if my child who’s not from ACS, gets AL7, which would he stand a higher chance of entry? Given that IP has a smaller intake (I think) but with no affiliation at all vs O levels with a bigger intake but only 20% space for children not from affiliated schools. <br /><br />Will be great also if anyone knows the intake for both tracks each year or in 2023.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132066</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132066</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[blessedm]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 05 Apr 2024 09:15:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Mon, 29 Jan 2024 23:57:03 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>ynwa9\" post_id=\"2128151\" time=\"1706507871\" user_id=\"48765:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Does anyone have an idea as to how many boys get admitted yearly into ACS (I)'s IP from the O level track in year 3?  Mostly from ACS(I) or are there some from other schools too?</blockquote></blockquote>Don't think it can be more than 60 or so, based on the number of IP classes in Y3 compared to Y2. But ACS(I) has of course got a lot of leeway in internal transfers. I don't have detailed data.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128172</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128172</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[autolycus]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 29 Jan 2024 23:57:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Mon, 29 Jan 2024 05:57:51 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Does anyone have an idea as to how many boys get admitted yearly into ACS (I)'s IP from the O level track in year 3?  Mostly from ACS(I) or are there some from other schools too?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128151</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128151</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[ynwa9]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 29 Jan 2024 05:57:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Sun, 28 Jan 2024 23:45:59 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Estéema\" post_id=\"2128128\" time=\"1706441870\" user_id=\"66413:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Reminds me during my era, doctors &amp; engineers are “good catch” for girls looking for partners. <br /><br />I met several young doctors (ages btwn 30-40), at different times, asking for my help to introduce life partners to them. Some of them were probably bookworms &amp; achieved well academically but lack the social skills &amp; often introverts &amp; shy. Wonder what is life for them now. Not all doctors got ‘caught’ as treasures yah?<br /><br />I wld rather my kids learn to lead a balance life, with work/study and not chase too much of the world &amp; forget to build relationships at home or with friends. Life will hv a better quality than having a big landed, branded cars, etc. When one hv good strong supportive relationships, shld be able to ride thro though times not being alone. Happiness does not come fr material well-being alone.</blockquote></blockquote>Agree, studying Med and becoming a doctor should not be parents' wish. The journey is too tough and lonely. It has to be their own wish. I came across one such candidate with potential (no, not my own) out of so many kids i know, but unfortunately she doesn't want to do Med. Her parents aren't keen too. Why study so hard to do what many think AI can do. But if the kid wish to be one, I am sure her parents will be supportive too. <br /><br />What's my wish? When I was told I am having a baby, my wish was the baby wld be healthy and happy. We are so blessed already. What more do we need?<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128135</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128135</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[00skyblue00]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 28 Jan 2024 23:45:59 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Sun, 28 Jan 2024 13:16:07 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>What keeps us healthy and happy as we go through life? Harvard study of adult development, a 75 years study of life unfolding , shows the answers. This study tracks a few hundreds men ( why not women??) from their teenage years onwards. They consist of brick layers, factory workers , lawyers, doctors, and 1 US president.  Watch this video for what the study has to say about healthy and happy life :<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://youtu.be/8KkKuTCFvzI?si=S_bsfacIBP-VX9Xz">https://youtu.be/8KkKuTCFvzI?si=S_bsfacIBP-VX9Xz</a></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128129</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128129</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[bbbay]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 28 Jan 2024 13:16:07 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Sun, 28 Jan 2024 11:37:50 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>00skyblue00\" post_id=\"2128126\" time=\"1706436524\" user_id=\"143605:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Can still pose so brightly even if they hv slept zero hours for weeks... <br /><br /><a href="https://www.zaobao.com.sg/news/singapore/story20240128-1464867">https://www.zaobao.com.sg/news/singapore/story20240128-1464867</a><br /><br />Noticed most doctors are married, wonder how they find time for dating and to get married.</blockquote></blockquote>Reminds me during my era, doctors &amp; engineers are “good catch” for girls looking for partners. <br /><br />I met several young doctors (ages btwn 30-40), at different times, asking for my help to introduce life partners to them. Some of them were probably bookworms &amp; achieved well academically but lack the social skills &amp; often introverts &amp; shy. Wonder what is life for them now. Not all doctors got ‘caught’ as treasures yah?<br /><br />I wld rather my kids learn to lead a balance life, with work/study and not chase too much of the world &amp; forget to build relationships at home or with friends. Life will hv a better quality than having a big landed, branded cars, etc. When one hv good strong supportive relationships, shld be able to ride thro though times not being alone. Happiness does not come fr material well-being alone.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128128</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128128</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Estéema]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 28 Jan 2024 11:37:50 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Sun, 28 Jan 2024 10:08:44 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Can still pose so brightly even if they hv slept zero hours for weeks... <br /><br /><br /><a href="https://www.zaobao.com.sg/news/singapore/story20240128-1464867">https://www.zaobao.com.sg/news/singapore/story20240128-1464867</a><br /><br />Noticed most doctors are married, wonder how they find time for dating and to get married.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128126</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128126</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[00skyblue00]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 28 Jan 2024 10:08:44 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Sun, 28 Jan 2024 09:17:08 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Looking back, my uncles &amp; aunties were in a generation when doctors serve ppl with their heart when society was not as competitive but not many cld aspire due to lack of good education. The pioneers were the ones find their education &amp; medical jobs were not as competitive.<br /><br /><br />Then it became competitive when education was given free to citizens &amp; parents having a hard life encourage their children to do well &amp; dream towards career in medicine. Our economy wasn’t as developed, so not many thinks abt a banker job or be a fund manager or even an insurance agent.<br /><br />ACS sch wasn’t popular back then coz it’s a foreign established mission school up on a hill. Parents were more keen for their kids to hv an iron rice-bowl or teaching positions for girls &amp; yes, some thinks nursing are just as good as teaching for their daughters. <br /><br />My 3 SILs were nurses &amp; all grudging their parents nvr allow them to study for medicine tho the 4th SIL got to take up dentistry, even tho they were rich but only the boys get to study medicine &amp; be doctors. Hence, the generation after all became competitive as cousins compare notes when as young students &amp; see each other finishing medical degrees. Guess the motivation is more for recognition, status &amp; the good life.<br /><br />Only 2 of my nephew &amp; niece (BIL &amp; SIL were both doctors) set out on their own practices &amp; in their spare time one offered services to prisoners who wish to erase the tattoos before they set out to a new life, whilst niece engage her time with a church-based aged-home with her geriatric specialty. These 2 were fr very privileged families. The other nephews &amp; nieces now hv aged parents &amp; busy with their practices, complaining little time for their families &amp; often get stressed to arrange their patients’ needs when they’ve to plan for family vacations. Obligations causes them lots of stresses when they’ve to leave their patients behind hoping nothing of emergency crop up when they’re away. They envy cousins who were bankers &amp; dentists whose families plan holidays after holidays (at least 2-3 in a year) at will.<br /><br />In fact, one niece recently cut her maternity leave &amp; back yo her clinic coz she was concern leaving her partner to hold the fort and she claimed she’s not a good mother, leaving her newborn to my SIL whilst she hv to worry abt contributing to cover overheads. For her it’s keeping up with the costs of leading the high life - mortgage for their landed, facial, holidays &amp; hubby’s golf &amp; other memberships.<br /><br />Some other nephews &amp; nieces started taking different positions as they see AI taking over , and as our population will become largely geriatric, they’re less attracted to serving this sector unlike the one kind niece spending her time to serve &amp; care for the aged ‘s concerns. Many of our young N&amp;N are more interested to pursue research or economics. Some are really into saving the earth &amp; living simple lives considerations for future generations as long as they think they’re contributing to stretching earth’s resources. So, we’ll see what the next batch will gravitate towards. Times changes.<br /><br />I tend to go along with slmkhoo’s uncle’s advice to leave the young choose their aspirations. We shld not attempt to press them towards living out our ideals. Afterall, they’re living in a different era fr our times.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128124</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128124</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Estéema]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 28 Jan 2024 09:17:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Sun, 28 Jan 2024 08:06:03 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Some qualities can be observed from young:<br /><br />They enjoy studying and learning. Can learn quickly. <br />Not bothered, nor stressed by tests or exams. Still study and revise for them but not troubled by what’s coming. I personally had met one who said she didn’t hate tests, exams at all. She seems to enjoy studying for them. <br />Can still do sports, social activities amidst studying or revising. Of course, can score well at the end of the day. Very prominent in scholars (based on observations) <br />Enjoys reading widely and very knowledgeable. Knowledge retention is high. <br />Not afraid or making mistakes though seldom wrong too. <br />Generally, they are the type who can take things easy. <br />I had a minor surgery before while awake, the doctor was humming throughout the whole time… Lol<br />Brilliant but Not obnoxious, usually the obnoxious type will take up law instead … Haha… Just kidding…</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128122</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128122</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[00skyblue00]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 28 Jan 2024 08:06:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Anglo-Chinese School (Independent) on Sun, 28 Jan 2024 06:54:11 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>slmkhoo\" post_id=\"2128115\" time=\"1706422472\" user_id=\"28674:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />I think each person has to work this out for themselves. Courage and determination will carry a person far, but those traits have to come from some strong desire/motivation - for interest, wealth, status, recognition, self-fulfillment, charitable/religious conviction, etc. Without one of those strong motivators, I think most people won't be able to pursue these goals for long. I also have many friends and relatives, ranging from those in their 30s to 60s, who have studied medicine. Not all are in the top tier earners - most have continued to stay in the medical line, but many have eschewed the \"top\" jobs - some are GPs in HDB clinics, some are in private practice but not in the glossy high-end clinics, some work in government service (not in the top jobs), some are in the charitable sector, some are doing locum in GP clinics, some are in academia, some have switched to jobs where medical background is useful but not in actual practice, etc. Most say they hate the competition and rate race, and find the money not worth the stress, and find satisfaction in serving the \"ordinary person\" rather than the well-heeled. <br /><br />None of these are \"low-income\" by any means, but many are not earning more than people in other professions, sometimes a lot less (compared with top lawyers, finance people, management consultants, senior civil servants, etc). Only a few (but these are the ones people talk about) are actually earning those eye-watering salaries. A few of my friends say that they regret doing medicine, but felt that it wasn't possible to switch after investing all those years in study and training. They don't hate their jobs, but don't love them either - that's probably the same as many in other professions and jobs, but it's still a pity given how many people really have the heart to be good doctors for non-monetary reasons but can't get one of the limited places.<br /><br />It is true that many who are doctors advise their children and other young people to think carefully about becoming doctors - long years of training, long hours, stiff competition for postings, high stress of  dealing with people's lives, etc. My parents wanted me to be a doctor, but I didn't want to because I wasn't interested, and I later learned that one of my uncles (a specialist doctor doing well then) advised my parents that they should not push me to do medicine if I wasn't interested as it wasn't worth the hard work and sacrifices if I wasn't keen.</blockquote></blockquote>It is pretty common for parents/students to get so attracted by doctor professions or any professions , probably due to TV drama that romanticise the profession, or that few real life highly accomplished individuals, that what does on behind the scenes are seldom experienced by others , so much so that advice from senior to think twice whether ready for it, often fell on deaf ears. It happened to many of us one time or another too. I guess we have to experienced first hand ourselves then we  know reality is not what they imaging them to be.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128119</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2128119</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[bbbay]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 28 Jan 2024 06:54:11 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>