Hi @tyeogh

Sorry if I drop by a little late!

Yes, I can totally agree with you 110%!

I learnt in order for my child to get better/improve…consistency is the key.
And there can be no consistency without us working together.

The past few years was hard where I didnt even have to battle with DH…(because he think there was nothing wrong with DS3)
and I will just allow DH get carried away with his own thoughts…because I will find myself too exhausted trying to win each time.

These are mistakes I made because I had let DS3 became more confused with differences in parenting.And I had to put a stop on these.

So I started getting DH involved with his therapy sessions (and currently Social Class)- so we both could understand the right approaches and what/how/when to apply/not to apply.

I devote my time to explain to my older children(DS1 &DD2) as well.

I even read DS3’s Psyc report to DH…he shows no reaction.‍️
I will tell myself to be strong to keep going because my child needs someone who understand him.

Thank you Tyeogh for coming in with your replies and encouragements!

I will update u on Pathlight!

Hi @tyeogh

Sorry if I drop by a little late!

Yes, I can totally agree with you 110%!

I learnt in order for my child to get better/improve…consistency is the key.
And there can be no consistency without us working together.

The past few years was hard where I didnt even have to battle with DH…(because he think there was nothing wrong with DS3)
and I will just allow DH get carried away with his own thoughts…because I will find myself too exhausted trying to win each time.

These are mistakes I made because I had let DS3 became more confused with differences in parenting.And I had to put a stop on these.

So I started getting DH involved with his therapy sessions (and currently Social Class)- so we both could understand the right approaches and what/how/when to apply/not to apply.

I devote my time to explain to my older children(DS1 &DD2) as well.

I even read DS3’s Psyc report to DH…he shows no reaction.‍️
I will tell myself to be strong to keep going because my child needs someone who understand him.

Thank you Tyeogh for coming in with your replies and encouragements!

I will update u on Pathlight!

@tyeogh

Thank you so much for sharing with me in detail!

Pathlight touched my heart in many ways and I can immediately feel the connections that DS3 will be very happy there.

I totally skipped the P1 MOE Registrations.
Convincing DH to allow me to make the school decision IS challenging as he would never think of SPED at all in the 1st place.

DS3 attended Pathlight internal screening assesment last month.
If all goes well, I should be expecting an offer letter by September (if accepted) …otherwise by October (if not accepted)

Be it Foundation or P1, I promised myself to be positive with whatever Pathlight offers -for the best interest of my child.

Tyeogh ,( Im aware you are a dad!) … and am very encouraged by your post especially on how involvements by both parents (aside Teachers) at home is crucial for our child’s progress.

I am still learning the ropes and hope that i am able to gear my DH in that direction just as much.
While I am already in the “managing” mode, DH is still in “pre-acceptance” mode, so to speak.

It is really not easy for me to have to shoulder it alone without DH support.

@tyeogh

Hi!
Good to hear from you again, Tyeogh!

I am new to this forum BUT had been reading all the AMAZING pages here since couple months back.

As of now, I am anxiously waiting for Pathlight offer for DS3 P1 next year.
Screening done and all…so ya crossing fingers and toes for the good news to come🥶
I believed Pathlight has helped groomed your child in many ways.
If u can recall, do u mind sharing the ups and downs during transition to Pathlight P1?
Appreciate other Parents contributions as well!
TKIA