Thanks for sharing.


Last one week had been challenging and stressful for me. I received many complains from my son’s kindergarten about him. Kindergarten called and emailed me numerous times. I did’t reply as I know they will tell me that they need help in managing my son and they wanted to talk to me. I have no solution on how to manage him as well.

Any parents here who has strategy to share? I hope to further discuss my situation privately.

Thanks.

Hi,

I am new to forum. My son is suspected Aspergers. He was complained by his kindergarten with these symptoms: no eye contact, kick his classmate, cannot take instruction, opinionated, defiant, outspoken, cannot wait for his turns etc.
I sent him to 2 private psychologists (in 2012 and 2013) but both felt that he is not Aspergers and it is a matter of managing him. I am currently waiting for KK to do an assessment in 6 months time- just to get another opinion.

The Kindergarten felt that the psychologists should do a classroom assessment of him other than depending just on a clinical assessment and this will be scheduled on end of this September 2013.

Below are a few example of his recent behaviour :

There were occasions that my son pulled down his pants in public. I asked him why, he said because he want to dance by shaking his butt. He thought it will be funny.
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He also laughed at kids who fell down. He said he found it funny.

He use his mouth to hold the fork during refreshment time. Other kids laughed at him and he likes it thinking that he made jokes and he made everyone laugh by doing funny acts.

He is getting impulsive and violent like hitting his play mate with his slipper and hitting a kid he taught shake the balancing robe he was climbing.

His unacceptable behavior continues despite numerous explanations, warnings and even at times physical punishments.

As a mother, I am worried that his friends, classmates, teachers who may not understand him will soon isolate him. The society may not accept him.

I hope to find mothers whose kids have the symptoms to come together and share how best to handle such kids.

I hope we can form a support group to share experiences and ways of handling them.

Hope to hear from anyone of you.

Thanks