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    • RE: Cedar Girls Secondary School

      livewith_vanilla:
      As a pupil in a Secondary Two class, I can tell you that even though I'm not in IP, the amount of stress here is no joke.

      Honestly, after reading the junior's post about the things they do, I'm shocked. But after I think about it, I'm not.
      This opinion is going to be for the express stream.
      Even though we learn things meant for secondary school education, it is not going to be easy. The maths and science we learn, sometimes it overwhelms me. We have integrated syllabus. At sec one, we buy sec one and sec two books. At sec two, we buy sec three and sec four books, and use sec two books.
      For science, our performance task was on digestion. We were given a problem situation, and told to diagnose the patient's illness. However, not all information was given, so the diagnosis can be anything. There is more than one diagnosis.
      It may sound okay. But honestly, we weren't taught the topic beforehand. We were left like this, and we had to finish this performance task that was for maths and science. The math part had to do with quadratic equations, which at that time we were taught the term before. It was all very messy and stressful for us. Even my tuition teacher says time to time that my school is crazy.
      Throughout this year, my class have had many complains. Complains that we brought up to the teacher, to the principal even. Like how our timetable was ridiculously long. Tuesdays and Fridays we end at 3.15 pm. On Fridays, most have CCAs until 6. Yes we have the weekend, but I would really love to let myself rest during the weekends. But I can't, the amount of homework, catching up on revision etc . It's crazy.
      My maths teacher is a really good teacher, but he's really fast. Too fast. Things like graphs, i never understood clearly until i cleared it up with my tuition thing. My science teacher is so unbelievably soft, sit further than the second row, you have to strain your ears to listen. We told him that he was too soft, but nothing really changed. I guessed it didn't really matter after a while, we all developed sensitive hearing to hear him.
      In Cedar, textbooks are sometimes just there for show. We have no textbooks for English, and our textbooks for maths is used only for the questions in them. We have our own notes. For history, the workbook isn't even touched. For Science, we do touch our textbook, but we are very much more dependent on the notes they give, because the textbook is insufficient. Work like EMS (Electromagnetic Spectrum) and Light and Lenses, we depend on notes, worksheets and our own research and understanding.
      I guess, for Cedar, the only thing that I really, really love is my CCA. The friends I make in my CCA are real and true, they don't pretend and I really love them alot. They pulled me up when I fell, helped me through everything and supported me when I'm at my lowest. In Cedar, my friends and I all joked that with the amount of pressure we face now, and the way that we are so used to it we no longer care that much even if we stay up pass midnight to finish everything, we will have no problem managing life later on. Cedar taught us to be self-sufficient, not be dependent on others to spoonfeed us with answers.Cedar taught us how to cope with negative stress, positive stress, and shaped us into determined,strong,open-minded characters that are successful at study and play at the same time.
      I guess, it's a love-hate relationship for me with Cedar. I don't like the system, but at the same time, I acknowledge that this system is what makes me have an opinion, stand up for myself, know what I want, how to cope with different people, different things, how to face stress, and more importantly, how to study hard, play hard and appreciate the things we've been given.
      This system at Cedar gives one an enormous amount of stress, yet I feel that it is this stress that we learn to cope, accept and get used to that allowed Cedarians to be so successful in everything we put our hearts to doing. When I look at my seniors, my classmates, I feel that the amount of resilience we have is commendable, to be able to live with the pressure of excellence coming from our school, teachers and parents, and from ourselves.
      To all potential sec ones, yes this school may seem very scary, very stressful. I once doubted my choice of school, wanted to transfer out, even doubting if I'll be able to survive, to love this school as my school. When I came into this school, i was looking for an all-rounded education. And after a turbulent year and a half, i can't exactly love this school, but this school has definitely gave me an all-rounded education.
      Whether or not you are in IP or express, you WILL face stress. You WILL feel like you're gonna die, gonna give up on everything. But if you give up, then you WILL fail. But if you don't give up, persevere on, then you WILL reap the benefits. Do everything with an open mind, with appreciation, gratitude, and you will be able to see for yourself, beneath that entire strive for excellence facade, is a huge valuable store for you to open, explore and benefit.
      Goodluck.
      *No offence meant to the school, to anyone. This is my honest opinion.

      Hi Live with vanilla

      Do you mind to recommend your math's tutor to me as my dd is currently in sec 1 and she is having big problem with her Math.She is totally lost during every maths lesson. Really appreciate if you could pm me.
      Thanks

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    • RE: Cedar Girls Secondary School

      chrisu:
      I'm having the same problem with my daughter too. Their cca is always having last minute annoucement on the fb instead of putting up advance notices in the respective cca notice board (if they still have it). This made them failed to plan an event well in advance and relying on fb to message to members last minute.


      Sigh...sometimes I wonder over relying on such technology is it really good?
      daranic:

      I wanted to ban her from fb but she said sometimes her classmates will make annoucement on fb. I wanted confiscate her hp but she said the same things like her senior will text her if there is a need to inform her anything regarding cca. and I know what she had said is the truth cos I have read her sms before. Any parents having same problem as me!


      Is your DD in sec 1? Do you mind if i check whether aside from doing her sch homework, does she do any assessment book or tuition? How does your dd revise all other subject especially history and lit? I find that sch is not doing enough as there is hardly any homework for them(except Maths) and my dd does not even bother to make her own notes or revise on her own. I am really very worry. Any advice from parents?

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    • RE: Cedar Girls Secondary School

      SunBrazen:
      My school uses MacBooks too and I must say its a real distraction. Whats more, I'm Sec 3. Such 1 to 1 programs are not so beneficial after all.

      I fully agreed with you. Unless you are very disclipine then it will not affect your study.

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    • RE: Cedar Girls Secondary School

      vuh.nessa:
      Bestmark:




      Hi Daranic

      My dd is in sec 1 non IP .She is always on her laptop too but not doing homework. Even when she is doing online homework, she always secretly switch to facebook. Its driving me crazy. Anybody know how to block the facebook website. I can not be 24 hrs watching her. I have tried to block fb under security link but she still can access into fb. I also tried to block under parental control link but it can only block programs. I wanted to ban her from fb but she said sometimes her classmates will make annoucement on fb. I wanted confiscate her hp but she said the same things like her senior will text her if there is a need to inform her anything regarding cca. and I know what she had said is the truth cos I have read her sms before. Any parents having same problem as me!

      hi...i'm not a parent but i realised that your daughter seems to be me o.o i am almost totally like your daughter. i even dislike my math teacher. anw, i was addicted too but i realised that facebook was causing me to not be able to finish up my homework. so i asked my father to help me block facebook on my laptop. he disabled javascript for my internet explorer browser so now i am able to go to the facebook website but cannot log in. you can try doing that too or maybe you can go to this site: http://www.hidetools.com/how-to-block-facebook.html idk if it will work but it's worth a try. btw, you have to disable facebook in all the browsers that you use (eg. google chrome) so it will work properly. however although i now have no access to facebook on my laptop or phone my father lets me log in on weekends because he knows i still need my 'freedom'. ^^


      Hi

      You are definitely very sensible. i bet your parents must be very happy when you volunteered to block your fb account. Hope that one day my DD will realise that addicted to fb is affecting her studies and whatever I am doing now is for her good. I will try the method you recommend, hopefully it works.FYI I m not an unreasonable parent, I still allow her to use her hp to access fb everyday so long as she is not spending too time on it like secretly switching to fb even when she is doing her online homework.Btw, are you also in sec 1.

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    • RE: Cedar Girls Secondary School

      zeemimi:
      daranic and bestmark


      u are not alone. facebook is very addictive. had so much Problems with dd over her online activities. realised that my dd is not disciplined enough to manage her facebook activities. so we came to agreement I will control her fb password. she has to ask for permission to use fb. much resistance in the beginning but over time, she got over urge to use fb. she lets her classmates know any impt msg must be communicated to her viasms because she is not active in fb. she has also come to realise she has a lot more time to study without the distractions of fb.

      this method should not be employed unless necessary. we did go through a tough period of time setting things in place. afterall this is also the teenage
      years. lots of angst.
      Thank you so much to zeemimi and rich dad poor dad for your advice and comforting words. I have tried both soft and hard method as mentioned by you guys. Like giving her 30 mins everyday after dinner to get connected and updated with her friends on fb. But it did not work. She still has the temptation to switch to fb or youtube when doing her online homework. Initially, I was also in control of her fb password, however, I gave up half way cos she would always find excuses to log on to fb to get info or project discussion ( don't understand why they cannot call each other on the phone) from classmates and thereafter she deliberately did not log off and I too forgot about it. I have done everything that i could help her to get distracted from fb , it is up to her whether she has the determination to focus on her studies. Everyday I am hoping that she would become more sensible and motivated in her studies.

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    • RE: Cedar Girls Secondary School

      daranic:
      Bestmark:



      Hi Rich dad poor dad

      My dd is in sec 1 non IP .She is always on her laptop too but not doing homework. Even when she is doing online homework, she always secretly switch to facebook. Its driving me crazy. Anybody know how to block the facebook website. I can not be 24 hrs watching her. I have tried to block fb under security link but she still can access into fb. I also tried to block under parental control link but it can only block programs. I wanted to ban her from fb but she said sometimes her classmates will make annoucement on fb. I wanted confiscate her hp but she said the same things like her senior will text her if there is a need to inform her anything regarding cca. and I know what she had said is the truth cos I have read her sms before. Any parents having same problem as me!

      Me! Me! Exactly the same, except my dd watches the Korean movies on youtube too, which is worse. She drives me up the wall too. Last Sat I was so mad that I locked up her laptop and hp, so she guai guai do some reading (not school work though :mad: ).

      I wonder if both our dds are in the same class.

      Hi Daranic

      I was so mad at her last nite that I tore her maths homework into pieces and get her to redo ! I don think they are in same class cos my dd is crazy for japanese and not korean. Its comforting to know some parents are having same problem as me .

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    • RE: Cedar Girls Secondary School

      daranic:
      Rich dad poor dad:

      [quote=\"Bestmark\"]hello


      You are so lucky ! Your DD is so independent. My DD is not motivated and refused to look for teachers for help. To make matter worst, she does not like her Maths teacher so how to approach him! Actually, I m surprised that my DD does not have much homework and she has a lot of free time during the weekends. That's worry me. Aside from doing school homework, she does not do any assessment book , that is why I felt it is not enough.
      Anyway, thanks for the advice.

      that strange...my daughter has too much homework....most of the time in weekend will be spending on homework...and this is after she had managed to finish some during her break time...


      Is your daughter in the IP programme?

      Mine is in the 4 years track and she too has little homework. Like Bestmark, my dd has so much free time everyday that I see her playing with her hp and laptop. And it worries me too![/quote]
      Hi Daranic

      My dd is in sec 1 non IP .She is always on her laptop too but not doing homework. Even when she is doing online homework, she always secretly switch to facebook. Its driving me crazy. Anybody know how to block the facebook website. I can not be 24 hrs watching her. I have tried to block fb under security link but she still can access into fb. I also tried to block under parental control link but it can only block programs. I wanted to ban her from fb but she said sometimes her classmates will make annoucement on fb. I wanted confiscate her hp but she said the same things like her senior will text her if there is a need to inform her anything regarding cca. and I know what she had said is the truth cos I have read her sms before. Any parents having same problem as me!

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    • RE: Cedar Girls Secondary School

      zeemimi:
      Bestmark:

      hello


      Could anyone recommend good maths home tutor? I tried sending my DD to tuition ctr, however cos Cedar's maths topics comprises of Sec 1 and Sec 2 , therefore, I would prefer home tuition. Hopefully, someone could respond as I badly needed one urgently. thanks

      Did your DD try looking up her math teachers in school? My DD does that. She makes appointments with her teachers for extra consultation after school when necessary.
      My personal opinion is should be more independent at secondary school already. Where possible, try not to fall back on a private tutor. A certain degree of independent learning must be cultivated fr sec sch onwards.
      Also, i find that DD has little time left for tuition after the long hours of sch and cca and homework. with tuition, i will see even less of her.


      You are so lucky ! Your DD is so independent. My DD is not motivated and refused to look for teachers for help. To make matter worst, she does not like her Maths teacher so how to approach him! Actually, I m surprised that my DD does not have much homework and she has a lot of free time during the weekends. That's worry me. Aside from doing school homework, she does not do any assessment book , that is why I felt it is not enough.
      Anyway, thanks for the advice.

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    • RE: Cedar Girls Secondary School

      hello


      Could anyone recommend good maths home tutor? I tried sending my DD to tuition ctr, however cos Cedar’s maths topics comprises of Sec 1 and Sec 2 , therefore, I would prefer home tuition. Hopefully, someone could respond as I badly needed one urgently. thanks

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    • RE: CHIJ St Nicholas Girls' Secondary

      Hello


      Any recommendation for maths home experience tutor. Would appreciate if could help. Thanks

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