Parents tend to make it a 'Mission' in supporting their offspring, over-stretching their finance in some cases and often overlooking their own needs. Of course there are happy ending, nonetheless sad ones are very common as well. In our case, we decide to use cash for local tuition fees after some maths, without a ROI. We thought, it is also parents' responsibility to provide funding for their educations. In extreme case (fortunately didn't have to) where finance is tight to support an overseas med-study, parents has to explain and encourage alternative to secure a full/partial study-loan, surely they can handle. Just won't show-hand & forget about living well for ourselves.
Med is quite diff.
I often hear med-students saying their peers/seniors in finance filed is expecting to draw more than them before turning 30. For mbbs, at the end of the 5 yrs bond, 8-9k/Mth is quite normal. Beyond the bonded years, that's where the income grows, depending on what specialization path they take. Frankly, poor doctor is hardly heard of.
DD had a shot at uniform scholarship before applying to med.
After 2nd interviews; The same interviewer in uniform with 2 crests explained that eventual role is likely be part of the command team, policy makers. She decided not to pursuit and reasons were, she wants to be real doctor and money is not her priority. She decides to make us poorer
Like many med-students, they are aspired to be a doctor for a good cause ; They knew money will come later.
But most parents not in medical field; no clue or little clue, what is means to be a doc in their ds's/dd's perspective.
In plain words, most parents think about earning power for being a doc, not wrong, just different.
DD is finishing yr3, soon yr4 starts.
She says, med-study is interesting but challenging as always. many of them feels 'Jaded', but pressing on to complete what they started. She wasn't concern about future earning in the past...Now I sensed she is starting to have thoughts on future planning that ties to finance. Now, this is part of growing up and soon they will be on their own.
What started as a pure passion to be a doc, a scientific healer, eventually cannot escape the real world expectation where success is somehow measured by eventual wealth (among other aspects) that comes along. Parents were right all along, some say its because we taken more salt then the rice they eaten
Just sharing for thoughts..
Zeal mummy\" post_id=\"2067429\" time=\"1652443764\" user_id=\"58173:[quote=\"Zeal mummy\" post_id=2067429 time=1652443764 user_id=58173]in such cases, one may need to have an agreement w the child to return the investment in full with some ROI.
I know a few 30 year old insurance/property agents who make 20k monthly too. There are many roads to success.. especially if money is how you define it.[/quote]