mommyNg:mommyNg:My friend has this problem. Her DD was unsuccessful from Sch A but received a CO from Sch B. Her choice school is really Sch A. Now her dilemma is whether to reject CO from Sch B and try her best in PSLE to enter her dream Sch A (but risky because you won't know the results until Nov), or to accept CO from Sch B but with possible regret if PSLE results good enough to enter Sch A? Any parents with past experiences (successful and unsuccessful ones) to share?
Thanks for the kind parents who shared inspiring stories! I wonder if there are cases where DC gave up CO, but PSLE results couldn't make it to either schools?
Want to have as realistic a picture as possible.
Friend's son gave up CO cos he was very sure he only wanted his dream school. Psle score did worse than prelims and ended up in a school that he didn't even hear of before. He was very disappointed and even kept asking his father to try to see if he can switch school. Partly due to the fact that he had no friends and the culture of the school was very different.
However, now 3 years down the road, he's adapted well, thriving academically and is a student leader actively involved in CCA. Guess what I'm trying to say is that children are resilient even with setbacks, we just have to be there to listen to them, and support them the best way we can.
He didn't get into what he deemed to be his dream school, but he's doing well and most importantly, he's happy and thriving now.