Club Wild Wild West (From Bukit Merah to Tuas)
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Hi Bowie,
You’ve posed a difficult question for me.
I supposed it’s the love and care that I have for everyone of them.
I try to be fair to each of them. However, there are times that it can’t be done eg. the enrichments. I send them based on their characters and capabilities.
Sometimes when I’m not free, No.1 and 2(even No.3 or 4) will help me look after the younger ones. When come to buying things/ordering of food, they will usually share with each other. (to reduce wastage)
When they are playing games, they have to take turns within an allocated tiime. If one of them happens to quarrel with another party or they show unhappiness, none of them is allowed to play.
When I go shopping, I will usually buy things for all of them. Due to this, the younger ones will remind me to get something for their elder bothers if the brothers did not follow me.
However, there are times I punish them when they are naughty. I believe that if you spare the rod, you spoil the child. Definitely, rewards is a must if they have done some good deeds.(eg. helping the younger sister to get a book which she can’t reach it.)
I’m mostly in charge of planning my kids’ enrichment or programme(related to school ) whereas my hubby is more on the sports areas(e.g. swimming,badminton, basketball etc.)
As No.1 is a book lover, he is much closer to me. No.2 is a sports person, he is closer to my hubby. Due to this, there are times that they are not treated equally. -
tsh0202, you can't treat all your children equally. Even other parents with fewer children also can't. This is because all children are not the same. Therefore, I feel that you shouldn't feel bad about it (if you are) because you are treating them fairly; providing what you think they need to grow into well-rounded adults. That shows that you are a great mother. :celebrate:
Psst, Chief, we need to find some non-alcoholic toasting emoticon leh, especially at this time in the morning, beer is just not appropriate.
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schellen:
is that beer? i thought it's chrysanthemum tea...
Psst, Chief, we need to find some non-alcoholic toasting emoticon leh, especially at this time in the morning, beer is just not appropriate.
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jedamum:
It's in a beer mug mah. LOL
is that beer? i thought it's chrysanthemum tea...schellen:
Psst, Chief, we need to find some non-alcoholic toasting emoticon leh, especially at this time in the morning, beer is just not appropriate. -
schellen:
:!: They make beer mug so small these days?!
It's in a beer mug mah. LOL
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Thanks,schellen.
Lately, have been 'addicted' to this site. Enjoy reading the messages you people wrote to each other. It's so funny. A good way to relax. :lol: [/img] -
You’re welcome, tsh0202. ^_^
I also come here to relax, and escape from work. Shhhh… -
Lets have a great time on this site! :celebrate:
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Lots of people are in the west, don’t forget me!
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Hey count me in too
Me hails from Hillview Ave, full-time Maria to my 6 yrs dd and 11 mths old dd
This is a great site, with lotsa interesting people :lol:
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