All About Full-Time Maids
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Wow, u posted so many times....u bet we heard you
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Dun allow your maid to pick and choose her tasks.
Just set your expectations right and clear from the beginning.
If she wants to play with your child, I think it is ok but she shld know her focus and not neglect her main duties. Strange that she likes to take care of kids over doing housework. A lot of my maids like to do housework and would hide in the kitchen all the time if I don't call them to take over the kids, after they had a taste of the tantrums my kids throw when the maids have to take care of them .
You shld not go and pick up after her, else she wld expect you to do it everytime. Dun hv to pack the room in advance for her to clean. She will do the packing. You just need to tell her where things should be placed.
If things are not done, and she is not auto, then you just have to voice activate her. Call her to pick up everytime until she gets the idea. No choice lah sometimes.
Think you can just tell her that she dun get to rest early until she finish her chores. Dun hv to wait. This is an expectation.
In the meantime, you can go and complain to your agent. Agent will usually counsel maid. -
Actually I think some prefer to look after babies, play only mah.
My maid wakes at 6am/6.30am, mops the floor morning and evening (after dinner). Alternate days wash toilets (2). Handwashes clothes but final rinse use machine. Ironing twice a week. No cooking, but she’ll clean up the kitchen after cooking is done. Furniture dusting here and there - we don’t need her to clean everyday.
She’s done by 7pm usually, latest 8pm. These days, I see her going to shower and in her room by 7.30pm - bedtime by 8pm. In fact, most of her work is done before lunchtime - during afternoon, she can sit there with nothing to do. And then she’ll start getting busy when my mum starts cooking (she only stand there to see/wash).
ongmum, be aware how she cleans the toilets also. My first maid used jif/cif so much until the exterior of my toilet seat spoilt (ummm, it’s rough to touch).
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Maids ah maids…my current one also cannot make it after working for a year. Use leg to pick things, Tupperware cover forever not close tightly. And many many other unacceptable acts. She can still tell me time flies, so fast 1 year already. I feel like telling her, have u made any impreovements? Imagine I’m a SAHM yet i still need to guide her every now and then.
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bzmum22:
I tried this way but so sian, 嘴巴讲到要烂了. Everytime gotta tell. Even after a year...You shld not go and pick up after her, else she wld expect you to do it everytime. Dun hv to pack the room in advance for her to clean. She will do the packing. You just need to tell her where things should be placed.
If things are not done, and she is not auto, then you just have to voice activate her. Call her to pick up everytime until she gets the idea. No choice lah sometimes. -
KopiYing:
Aiya, you must set timeline on how long you can tolerate doing the voice activation and then give the maid ultimatum to change, else she goes.
I tried this way but so sian, 嘴巴讲到要烂了. Everytime gotta tell. Even after a year...bzmum22:
You shld not go and pick up after her, else she wld expect you to do it everytime. Dun hv to pack the room in advance for her to clean. She will do the packing. You just need to tell her where things should be placed.
If things are not done, and she is not auto, then you just have to voice activate her. Call her to pick up everytime until she gets the idea. No choice lah sometimes.
For your case, alrdy 1 year liao....cannot change liao. In fact, she shld be starting change for the worse 'cos her contract is coming to an end. Anyway, she must hv some good points abt her that you like, so you are willing to keep her for so long despite her 'bad habits'.
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I'm at home to monitor that's why certain household stuff I also do myself eg clean inner fridge, pack children's clothes. She wont take the initiative. They just do the minimum.
May shorten her contract coz 'no eyes see' & intend to enrol kids in childcare soon. Anything to take note if I do not need her service before contract ends? Pls enlighten me -
I am hoping to go maidless one day. My mum has been complaining that my 10 months PHL maid is starting to argue and talk back at her.
Then a few days back, we brought my DD to Universal Studio. DS is only 9 months old and we brought DS into the park in the evening. As we didnt buy a ticket for the maid, we asked her to wait outside. We told her that we will only be inside for the most an hour. Feeling bad, I thought that we can get her a drink while she waited for us and asked her to choose. She daringly chose a fruit shake (with ice cream) and it cost $8 when there are definitely cheaper drinks! The price of the fruit shake is clearly displayed and she definitely knows that it is an expensive drink. And that happened right after we brought her for a meal at the restuarant! My heart ached lor, I wouldnt even order such an expensive drink for myself. Would probably have stopped her if not the fact that my hb ordered the drink and it was already being prepared when I joined them at the counter.
Sometimes, it really doesnt pay to be kind. -
Nightmare begins liao…
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Sigh... my nightmare continues... during interview, we repeated MANY MANY times (over the phone, when my hub met her in person at the agency) to the new fili maid that she has to help take care of my boy in the mornings when we are getting ready for work.. and when we are busy.. since last fri she came.. she NEVER even bother to interact with him... and the worst is, when we talk to her, she sometimes dont even bother to respond! It is a COMPLETELY different person whom we had met and talked with before hiring her! :slapshead:
After so many days, I finally BTH and questioned her abt her non answers to us... and also helping out with my boy when needed... then she faked to ask my boy to play with him this morning, but when my boy took his toys to her to play with her, she WALKED away and ignored him... ARGGHH.. had to reprimand her becos we already set the expectations prior to hiring and this is what she is doing to us!! I could tell that she is treating coming to SG like a playground.. becos she very eagerly asked me where is merlion.. and even was sooo happy when we went marina sq to jalan jalan last Sun...
And guess what... after reprimanding her this morning.. she cried to my hubs and asked to go back to agent... agent rang up and she insists she cannot take care of children.. dunno how to take care! Complete reverse of what she said when we interviewed her.. even agent says bth her... ARGGHHH :stupid: :mad: :rant: :frustrated:
I am really beginning to feel like i have no maids luck and is wondering if i shd go maidless instead... buy those robot vacuums, mops, dishwasher etc and automate half my house.. so i can do w/o these ridiculous maids!! SOBZZZZ
But then again.. my aim to hire is also with the intention that i hope to get preggie for #2 by end of this year.. my parents sure complain cannot handle a newborn (as it was with #1)... so, am really in a dilemma whether to continue to lookout for a maid... since now, i do have replacements waiting with 2 different agencies.... SIGH... :gloomy: :gloomy: -
SMH FOREST:
Probably your new maid is just finding an excuse to come here to work and hence agreed to look after your boy during the interview. If she doesnt like looking after kids, then no point keep her. But very sian to wait for replacement also as we do not know if the next one will be better or worse.Sigh... my nightmare continues... during interview, we repeated MANY MANY times (over the phone, when my hub met her in person at the agency) to the new fili maid that she has to help take care of my boy in the mornings when we are getting ready for work.. and when we are busy.. since last fri she came.. she NEVER even bother to interact with him... and the worst is, when we talk to her, she sometimes dont even bother to respond! It is a COMPLETELY different person whom we had met and talked with before hiring her! :slapshead:
After so many days, I finally BTH and questioned her abt her non answers to us... and also helping out with my boy when needed... then she faked to ask my boy to play with him this morning, but when my boy took his toys to her to play with her, she WALKED away and ignored him... ARGGHH.. had to reprimand her becos we already set the expectations prior to hiring and this is what she is doing to us!! I could tell that she is treating coming to SG like a playground.. becos she very eagerly asked me where is merlion.. and even was sooo happy when we went marina sq to jalan jalan last Sun...
And guess what... after reprimanding her this morning.. she cried to my hubs and asked to go back to agent... agent rang up and she insists she cannot take care of children.. dunno how to take care! Complete reverse of what she said when we interviewed her.. even agent says bth her... ARGGHHH :stupid: :mad: :rant: :frustrated:
I am really beginning to feel like i have no maids luck and is wondering if i shd go maidless instead... buy those robot vacuums, mops, dishwasher etc and automate half my house.. so i can do w/o these ridiculous maids!! SOBZZZZ
But then again.. my aim to hire is also with the intention that i hope to get preggie for #2 by end of this year.. my parents sure complain cannot handle a newborn (as it was with #1)... so, am really in a dilemma whether to continue to lookout for a maid... since now, i do have replacements waiting with 2 different agencies.... SIGH... :gloomy: :gloomy:
My maid also has the habit of not responding to me when I talked to her. After 4 years, she is still the same! Sometimes I fed-up and will just talk louder to get her respond. :mad: :rant:
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