Principal of top school under investigation for hiring prost

[Angelight]

The principal’s identity (with pix included) already exposed in another forum. Think it would be hard for him to return to the education sector. An educator, what more a head of school, is expected to uphold a higher moral standard, so no school would want to hire him again.


With these recent sexual crimes involving educators, hopefully MOE will be more stringent in its selection of teachers and principals. Then again, if a person is careful to hide his/her sexual secrets, it’s hard for others to assess them.

[Lilac66]

Sorry, but by saying this, you are inadvertently giving alot of men the excuse of straying. Many men involved in affairs always say they’re torn because they also love the mistress.


As for Goh Keng Swee’s case, if the public had known at that time, I believe most will frown on it considering the older generation being more conservative. That’s why I believe he married her only after stepping down.
His children, seemed unwilling to talk too much about this union and still can’t come to terms with it after his death , I believe.


And I won’t call him wise for that, my 2cents.

[buds]

phtthp:

\"越来越多人 求助心理医生。团圆饭前 赶去嫖妓\"

- all these people better seek marital counselling at once to salvage marriage & before situation worsen. got proper marriage, don't want to cherish your spouse, your family properly. something very wrong ! before CNY Chinese reunion dinner, rush to seek prostitute.

It's not so much about their marriage but more to the sick addiction of hiring prostitutes to live their fantasies..
1.... the kind of fantasies they either don't expect their spouses to do or;
2.... the kind of fantasies their wives can't/don't want to do;
3.... the kind of fantasies they don't want their spouses to do;
4.... the kind of fantasies they \"think\" their spouses cannot do.

Then again if young chics (spring chickens) are what they're looking for, it's chop plus guarantee their wives cannot bring to life that kinda fantasy no matter how they try to fantasize. :roll: No matter how you iron oso skin still wrinkled. Unless wives agree to take from butt to inject/put everywhere else.. :idea:

[friendship]

So in layman terms, can I conclude that this P is charged for being a Pimp? A pimp is illegal, is it?

[corneyAmber]

I don’t think anyone on this forum supports or advocates EMA. That is clear to me. However, when it happens, I believe what some are trying to say (insider is one of them) is that there is no need to mass persecute the person publicly as everything happens for a reason, right or wrong reasons, usually the reason is unique to the person. People need the space for corrective behaviour and people need time to reform. Speaking generally about the bad of EMA is fine but if constant remarks on a person who has committed the error, we are not giving the person room to breathe and change if specific remarks are directed at them constantly. I always believe pushing a person to a corner is also pushing ourselves to a corner in our mindset.


So far the discussion on EMA generally is not unhealthy, that is fine as long as we do not keep pushing the hypotheses related to EMA directly onto specific individuals especially when we know them not personally.

[corneyAmber]

friendship:

So in layman terms, can I conclude that this P is charged for being a Pimp? A pimp is illegal, is it?

I thought he bought the services? The online booking was the pimping part right?

Yes. Pimping is illegal unless it is a licensed operation.

[Lemonlime]

insider:

Lilac66:

Sorry, but by saying this, you are inadvertently giving alot of men the excuse of straying. Many men involved in affairs always say they're torn because they also love the mistress.


As for Goh Keng Swee's case, if the public had known at that time, I believe most will frown on it considering the older generation being more conservative. That's why I believe he married her only after stepping down.
His children, seemed unwilling to talk too much about this union and still can't come to terms with it after his death , I believe.


And I won't call him wise for that, my 2cents.

If men were to stray, they will stray, not by I \"inadvertently giving alot of men the excuse of straying\" hor...

GKS was fortunate to live in an non-wired world at that time and so his EMA was limited to the knowledge of a small circle, which should include the cabinet and his family. He had the gut to bring it 'public' after stepping down instead of EMAing til the end of his life with his lover.

So, the 'right' thing to do is to honour his first marriage and forsake his second love and then the three of them (himself, wife, and lover) live miserably thereafter?

So, the 'right' thing for his child to do is to see his dad suffer and then mum staying in a marriage without love?

What's 'right' actually??

。

...Two Wrongs do not make it Right - that's the way I see it.
Marriage is a commitment and there is no question about it. It is WRONG to stray or giving up on marriage or abandoning your commitment regardless of the reasons. This applies to everyone, ordinary or prominient class folks. Successful marriage is not about finding the right person to marry but rather learning to love the person you found..(And not oops..I married the wrong one so I jump ship)..

[buds]

I married the one mom chose.


Definitely not the one i found
or the one i loved… hmmm…

Successful marriage is a lotta
work and not just one factor
tt can sum it all up…

My 2 cents.

[raysusan]

http://www.tremeritus.com/2012/02/13/ex-principal-in-sex-probe-works-closely-with-pap-politician/


i am surprise when my p4 dd came home ytd and told me about this
she said the principal from X X primary school was suspended due to prostitution
so i guess it is like a open secret now

[csc]

[/quote]


...Two Wrongs do not make it Right - that's the way I see it.
Marriage is a commitment and there is no question about it. It is WRONG to stray or giving up on marriage or abandoning your commitment regardless of the reasons. This applies to everyone, ordinary or prominient class folks. Successful marriage is not about finding the right person to marry but rather learning to love the person you found..(And not oops..I married the wrong one so I jump ship)..[/quote]

May I add that it is also being the right person as well