dalki:...when i was young my parents never stressed me to excel, just be happy and to get through every level which i did heng... So i guess i will do likewise for my son. As long as he passes every exam , get a degree and decent job, i happy liao!...Hi dalki, welcome to KiasuParents.com! It's great that you are not planning to stress your kid, but remember that even achieving your goal of getting a degree is going to be very competitive by the next decade. Expectations must be set right. Good luck.