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    How to handle your children when they start to be rebellious

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    • sharonkhooS Offline
      sharonkhoo
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      Why start a new thread when you have already started a similar one (the James Dobson one)? Maybe you can just amend the title to your first post.

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        FishFingers
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        Ok,sorry for the inconvenience caused.

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          patty89\" post_id=\"1905040\" time=\"1554371508\" user_id=\"175252:

          Get Cell Phone Spy Software for their mobile phone you can Remotely Read SMS, Check Call Logs & Track GPS Location! Even Listen in! Totally Untraceable! Keep Tabs on the Kids, keep them safe and know what is really going on before it is to late to see for yourself go to http://www.SpyOnAnyMobile.com

          I'm totally intrigued by this Cell Phone Spy Software.. is this for free? I want to try this out!

          Personally, I would regard using something like this as a sign of defeat. It's one thing to have some tracking capability in case the child goes missing, or the phone gets stolen, but that should be with the child's knowledge.

          Unless your child is already too old and things have got really bad, and this is the last-ditch resort, it would be better to teach them your values, and coach and mentor them, rather than spy and hope to stop them in time. If the child discovers that he's been spied on by parents without his knowledge, that will destroy any trust between child and parent, maybe irrecoverably.

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          • MyPillowM Offline
            MyPillow
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            Agree with slmkhoo -

            Spyware are more suitable for younger kids eg Pri to most 13 yo - safety net to guide n watch them
            We should still give some breathing space to teens , some level of trust n let go - of course discipline n firmness in moral values still hold . I do have find fren app for all family phones to see location - We can see everybody , my teen din feel violation of privacy since whole family can see all - transparency.

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              Alex75
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              Personally, I wouldn’t rely on spyware. Talking to your child might be the very first thing to do. Setting rules in the house and letting them understand why they need to follow rules. Sometime we need to be more strict in order to discipline them.

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                hxranmay5
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                whats the reason behind all these problems ?

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                  Alex75
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                  Teenagers: Why Do They Rebel?

                  All teens go through similar phases -- the need for independence, a separate identity, testing authority. It's part of growing up; it's also linked to developmental changes in the brain that will eventually help them become analytical adults.
                  https://www.webmd.com/parenting/features/teenagers-why-do-they-rebel#1

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                    CerlynR
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                    For teenagers I don’t think we still need to track them as they might think you are not trusting them, try to talk to them first and see if they can understand

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                      mindscape
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                      You`d better go https://celltrackingapps.com/whatsapp-spy/ instead of trusting em.
                      Remember yourself in that age.
                      How many mistakes we did.

                      You must understand that young and yet weak mind can`t control all life OFFERS.
                      So you should be in safety with this one, I say thanks to my parenst, they were limiting my entertainment when I was small or.. just too young.
                      Thanks to this! Still, communication and character foundation is important to our teens for them not to be rebellious.

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