The Birds and the Bees

[ZacK]

Perhaps if you can elaborate on the ages and sex of your kids… That may help in getting the appropriate responses?

[wimdils]

[Moderator's note: Topics merged.]


hi everyone!!!

exams are over(at least till the learning bug hit again)!! now currently doing up resume and catching up w myself, friends and books!

hope everyone is fine too! by the way, any good books to talk about the birds n bees to a 4 year old? i think the first question should be \"should i tell her at this age?\" she has asked me at least thrice. \"how come only women get pregnant?,\" \"how did i get in your tummy?\".
so far, not knowing how to start, i've mentioned \" special parts that daddy and mummy have\", \" let's go to the library, (she forgot about the book in her search for fast cars..)\"
ur advice o should i tell her now? and if yes, any good books to recommend? and is there any homework i should do?

[RRMummy]

Hi wimdils, the same topic was discussed here:


http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?t=793&postdays=0&postorder=asc&highlight=birds+bees&start=0

I trust you'll find your answers there. Good luck

Hi mods, please merge. Thank you!

[wimdils]

hi, thanks for the tip!! now will be more prepared for the next round of questions. cheers!

[kaydenbrown]

Just go with the flow and let it be natural. When they ask something, just answer honestly but prudishly. You can use euphemisms too…

[jedamum]

if discussion is about birds and the bees, please discuss http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?t=793&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=30.


seems like you are in the 'safe sex' camp rather than the 'abstinence' camp...

[faith80]

Hi.. there's this relevant article about how to talk to your child about sex in Today's Motherhood latest November issue.... http://www.TodaysMotherhood.com/current... hope it helps... :lol:

[Anna Ng]

Something to share


Last few days I was chit chatting with my son who is six year old now.
Me: “Boy, you must remember not to let people touch your bird bird, only daddy and mummy can touch”

Son: “ok ok, teacher also teach us this”

After a while, I asked him

Me: “Boy, who can touch your bird bird”

Son: “only girls can touch”

My hubby: “ This is when you grow up”

:faint:

[Eagle-Ladybird]

bird bird . . . . :rotflmao: is that what it's called . . . :rotflmao: (pardon me)

[buds]

So, you have a name for yours too? :evil: