Cedar Girls Secondary School

[twilight]

I think your impression is not wrong, but it in no case means that no one else does the same thing. It could indeed be the case that absolutely no one from other school does all these, or it could be that you have not seen them before.


If the friends in other school have no break, they will just not reply. If their phones are on absolutely silence, no vibration, as they should be, and kept away from sight, then it wouldn’t be disturbing them, so to say. I have texted my friends from other schools during my break, and sometimes they won’t reply till few hours later. I don’t keep pestering to ask them why they’re not replying, because I am aware that not everyone is free to reply text messages at every moment. I don’t think that’s called selfish and inconsiderate. How are you supposed to know everyone’s schedule for every second, whether they’re free at the moment you text them? And it’s not like all texts you sent will be replied within seconds, which means that people have the liberty to choose when to reply. I have always seen my mother texting my father when he’s in work. He never complains that my mother is being selfish and inconsiderate. I guess it’s personal opinion, so if you think it’s selfish and inconsiderate, so be it.

Your identity explains why you have such a strong stance about this, but then I guess it just shows how important a school’s name is. I just have to say that whatever school it is, however many students do whatever things, it will not mean that every single person in the school is like that. After all, all humans have different brains.

[zeemimi]

STan:

I have very bad impression of cedar. Too many breaks n the girls can SMS their friends in other school but they forget that other people are not having break. Selfish n inconsiderate. Also seen a few cedar girls holding hands with their bf. very unsightly cos still in uniform. Don't see this with other band 1 girl school.


Btw I am a mother whose son is being chased by a shameless cedar girl till I have to stop his enrichment class and change ds hand phone number.

what is considered too many breaks? Cedar now has a recess break and a lunch break because the typical day ends at 3+. I think that is reasonable.

The type of girl you described can be found in any girls or mixed sch. Just because u do not see does not mean there isn't any in other schs. I hv seen girls fr ip schs hanky panky with boys. And justbecause u know of one cedar girl who is like that does not mean all the cedar girls are like that.

While u r frustrated with your problems, your posting in this thread is uncalled for.

[Bestmark]

STan:

I have very bad impression of cedar. Too many breaks n the girls can SMS their friends in other school but they forget that other people are not having break. Selfish n inconsiderate. Also seen a few cedar girls holding hands with their bf. very unsightly cos still in uniform. Don't see this with other band 1 girl school.


Btw I am a mother whose son is being chased by a shameless cedar girl till I have to stop his enrichment class and change ds hand phone number.

I fully agreed with twilight and zeemimi. SMS during break is not selfish. I am not a student (just in case you thought I am defending) but my DD is from Cedar. From my observation, Cedarian are very well behaved girls. The one your son encountered maybe the exceptional one so you should not criticise Cedarians cos of this incident.

[STan]

I give her the benefit of the doubt that she SMS during recess but who know? To send a single SMS is not selfish but to have 50 SMS or more is …!

[pepper spice]

STan:

Btw I am a mother whose son is being chased by a shameless cedar girl till I have to stop his enrichment class and change ds hand phone number.

I feel so compelled to reply to this post, to use the word \"shameless\" here is so strong. It somehow reflects badly on the writer. Remember, the girl is also someone else's daughter.

[STan]

pepper spice:

STan:

Btw I am a mother whose son is being chased by a shameless cedar girl till I have to stop his enrichment class and change ds hand phone number.

I feel so compelled to reply to this post, to use the word \"shameless\" here is so strong. It somehow reflects badly on the writer. Remember, the girl is also someone else's daughter.

What other words can u use to describe such a girl? Decent and kind? Sweet young thing? Or perhaps u prefer angels?

If she is your daughter would u allow her to behave like this?

[pepper spice]

Have you met this girl before? Spoken to her? Or did you jump to conclusion that she is "shameless" because she chases after your son?


I have a teenage son. If some girls were to chase after my son, I will not label those girls as shameless. No, I will not. 哪个少女不怀春？Yes, I will feel worried, I will not encourage the chasing either, but definitely not label them as shameless.

[STan]

Tried talking to the girl but she insist they are just normal friend. But to SMS him 1000+ messages a month is not normal. She even ask my son to change classes on sat to go to her school event to keep her company. Talk to her and even tell her my son got ADHD and is easily distracted with phone SMS in class also no use. If she listen to reason I don’t have to air my frustration here.

[pepper spice]

Possible for you to make friends with the girl instead? Encourage their 纯纯的友情 and let her influence your son to excel himself in his studies, sports, etc? (I have no experience in this area yet, but that is what my friend is doing).


This is the CGS thread for parents’ networking, don’t think want to discuss children’s BGR here. All the best, bye.

[Freesias]

STan:

Tried talking to the girl but she insist they are just normal friend. But to SMS him 1000+ messages a month is not normal. She even ask my son to change classes on sat to go to her school event to keep her company. Talk to her and even tell her my son got ADHD and is easily distracted with phone SMS in class also no use. If she listen to reason I don't have to air my frustration here.

I suggest that you talk to the girl's parents or approach the school to see if they can help to resolve your problem.

While I can understand your frustrations and you are of course entitled to have your own opinion, I agree with Pepper Spice that this is not the appropriate forum to air it.