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    • A Offline
      anlynn
      last edited by

      Hi peers,


      Do not really like the way my helper discipline my children like how i talk to them…

      Does your helper discipline your children like you?

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        POA Teacher
        last edited by

        anlynn:
        Hi peers,


        Do not really like the way my helper discipline my children like how i talk to them...

        Does your helper discipline your children like you?
        Are you at home with your children most of the time?

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          Ginger2012
          last edited by

          Depending on the nationality. For Indo, I hear from my friends the agency fee alone is close to 2K


          I just called a couple of agency today since my helper decides to go home next Feb . All the agencies I called hv implemented the change. Nation is charging $2600 for agency fee +++ and plus 7%GST + don't know what documentation fee the maid has to bear and this is the only fee we can deduct from salary 🤷 The other agency is charging $2500 +++ also- and all no more free replacement!

          I guess what we have to do is to add up all the cost and see the difference since there are so many other charges

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            anlynn
            last edited by

            POA Teacher:
            anlynn:

            Hi peers,


            Do not really like the way my helper discipline my children like how i talk to them...

            Does your helper discipline your children like you?

            Are you at home with your children most of the time?

            Yes and she like imitating how I talk to my children.... So annoyed with her.

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              dokomo
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              janet_lee88:
              dokomo:

              sigh.. my helper is down with chicken pox! she been resting at my home for about a week already. I had to change my arrangement in the caring of my girl. (thank God is school holidays now)


              if you willing and know helper is staying long with you 🤷 , try to vaccine her (and family members) against chicken pox. really hard to say when and who can get it. :xedfingers:

              With the jab, it really helps a lot. My kids and I had the jab and the chickenpox experience was mild...but hubby was badly hit.

              My brother's Myanmar maid arriving this sat...my mum having the jitters bcos she had been maid less for many years. Further more Myanmar maid cannot speak English and newbie.

              my girl also had the jab when young, but i still hope she doesnt' catch it. By this week, it will be 14 days of rest for helper and 14 days incubation period over for my girl too.

              good luck to your mum! :xedfingers:

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                dokomo
                last edited by

                anlynn:
                POA Teacher:

                [quote=\"anlynn\"]Hi peers,


                Do not really like the way my helper discipline my children like how i talk to them...

                Does your helper discipline your children like you?

                Are you at home with your children most of the time?

                Yes and she like imitating how I talk to my children.... So annoyed with her.[/quote]My current helper doesn't discipline my child. Anything she saw that my child misbehaves, she will report to me and I will discipline my child myself. Already told her since day 1. Previous helper tried to be the \"fortress\" when I discipline my child and I told her not to. Don't like it.

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                  janet88
                  last edited by

                  Brother’s Myanmar helper just came…so far she has been ok…but have to be patient with her as she can speak limited English. But she gets along with my kids. Both of them are teaching her English.

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                    Just A Mum
                    last edited by

                    Just want to warn others of terrible service provided by Upview Employment Service. One of the owners is Emilin Neo- the before and after sale attitudes are a vast difference!


                    Had a shockingly bad experience so thought other parents should know and avoid it.

                    Too long a story… From not being Case Trust Accredited company thought it stated and many other lies told by them.

                    Too a certain extent, I can understand if the maid agency cannot control the quality of maids… But I cannot tolerate if there is lack of service when agency fees have been paid, and when lies are told and misrepresentation of loan refunds in contracts.

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                      concern_mum
                      last edited by

                      hi


                      i found my gold ring inside my maid bag. What should I do? Her contract end next month and she has weekly off day.

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                      • janet88J Offline
                        janet88
                        last edited by

                        concern_mum:
                        hi


                        i found my gold ring inside my maid bag. What should I do? Her contract end next month and she has weekly off day.
                        send her home immediately.

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