Di Zi Gui 弟子规

[reiner]

hi phtthp,


blossom world no accept P1 kid yah… so my n2 can go only lor… he will be in the Oct class… also worry abt the chinese but the main thing for me… is to let him see how other kids behave… haha!!

is there any class material to buy? can know the Tr name?

[lovelydaughter]

What are we teaching our child?

我们在教孩子什么？

By teaching the Right Attitude to our child from young, he will possess a sound Judgement (ability to differentiate what is right or wrong), which is the true Wisdom.

Not teach them about gain.

Why is the reason that contribute to a kids in modern society that value money to the extend of severing the ties of kinship?

This is because the parents have not taught the right Attitude to our child.

我们在教孩子跟母亲，你都是用利益相交。


所以为什么现在的孩子为了钱。为了自己的利益，可以六亲不认。

都是我们自己从小有没有把正确的态度告诉给小孩。

所以这个判断力非常重要， 它是真正的智慧。


因为他要明白了哪些是对的，哪些是不对的。


From birth, the child is is continuously learning judgement from listening & watching from nitty gritty events (the behaviour of the parents) daily.

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一个孩子他从小他生出来， 他就在看，就在听。判断力就在生活的点点滴滴就在教给他了。

There is an ancient saying: The temperamental at age 80 can be foreseen at 3 years old.

A sound judgement can be taught to a child Before he turns 3 years old as he is continuously absorbing them through sight & hearing.
古人讲的一句话: \"三岁看八十\"。一个孩子正确的判断力， 在他三岁以前，可以全部都教给他。他都在看，都在听。

video from 0:40:10 to 0:47:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=eZnK_KGJi_c#!
馬來西亞師資培訓課程－02－愛心伴孩子成長--肖陳穎老師

Research was conducted on 1000 kids who are age 3 in 1980.
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Results were released 23 years later reaffirmed that character of adult mimics the behaviour at age 3:

1) 28% of kids who are Cheeful & Brave grown up to become cheerful, determined, decisive and leadership qualities => Confident
一、充满自信的占２８％。幼童时候他们活泼勇敢、充满自信，成年以后他们开朗、坚强、果断，领导欲望较强……还是属于自信心较强的。

2） 40% of kids who are Confident & Friendly, grown up to become Calm, Easily Adapt to environment & emotionally Strong=> Adaptable
二、良好适应的占４０％。幼童时候他们自信又随和，成年以后他们冷静、沉着、较能适应环境、不容易心烦意乱……依然表现出良好的适应能力。

3) 8% of the kids who are Reserved & less sociable, grown up to become fearful of being hurt, restrain the emotions & don't influence others= > Reserved
三、沉默寡言的占８％。幼童时候他们不活泼、不善言谈、性格内向，成年以后他们要比一股人更倾向于隐瞒自己的感情、不思影响别人、不敢从事任何可能导致自己受伤的事情……今天基本上还是沉默寡言。

4) 14% of the kids who are cautious, grown up to become more Disciplined & high self-control abilit => Self-Disciplined
四、自我约束的占１４％。幼童时候他们就表现出有一定的自制能力，成年以后他们谨慎守纪……还是表现出较好的自我约束能力。

5) 10% who are Hyperactive or easily distracted or pessimistic, grown up to have hasty temper, easily agitated by petty matters & poor concentration => Restless
五、坐立不安的占１０％。幼童时候他们好动、注意力分散、还有些消极行为，成年以后他们与其他人相比更容易对平常小事情做出过度反应，容易烦恼和愤怒……仍然不脱坐立不安的影子。

幼童时候——成年以后……这１０００人在个性特征方面表现出惊人的相仿、相近、相似。这就告诉我们“三岁看八十”还是有一定的事实依据和科学道理的。
http://www.tc930.com/jiajiao/article_2188.html

[phtthp]

Hi Reiner,


Blossom world (bw) only take in n2 to k2 kids. They don’t accept p1 kids. However you may call up bw, ask to speak to Li Chang. She is a very polite & courteous staff. Ask her - is it possible to consider opening a new class for kids aged 7 to 8 years old? (Ie. p1 and p2 kids)? If yes, that’ll be great!

Hopefully she’ll consider and discuss with her boss, the head of blossom world society. (Male)

FYI - at bw, all dzg learning curriculum material will be given to your child, inside the $60 School fees you’d paid up. $60 is for 12 lessons. Ie 3 months.

In the event the answer is no, you may consider let your child join the p1 to p6 dzg class at Guang ming Shan. You google Internet, look for mainline of Guang ming Shan, and ask "I understand there is a dzg class for p1 to p6 kids. I am interested to join. Can you kindly advise how to let my child join? "

This dzg class at Guang Ming Shan is on Sunday. Can’t recall is it start 9 am or 10am on Sunday morning. But there are so many kids there. When my kid was aged n2 bAck then, I brought her there before. However, they did not separate the n2 from the p1, p2. So she was dwarf by all the big Jie Jie, go go there from p1, p2. So I pulled her out, din continue.

Dzg at Guang ming Shan - they teach kids memorize dzg, with hands on action. It was very interesting & fun to watch, bec first time I saw kids learn dzg thru hands action. The p1 to p6 pupils will rehearse a few times until they get familiar, then they go up the stage to present dzg with hands on action, to the audience seated below the stage (ie. the audience are their parents ) Maybe u bring yr son there one Sunday morning, take a preview first. The dzg classroom is on ground floor, admin block of Guang Ming Shan. The textbook costs ard $15 (Can’t recall exactly). Just purchase 1 copy will do.

FYI -
Parents with secondary 1 to jc2 / polytechnic / nus, ntu, sim children -
At night on weekdays around 7.15 pm, there is also dzg class conducted at Guang Ming Shan. It is called dzg "Lun Yu" Confucius classics. They go in depth. Sch fees are also v reasonable. Those interested can ring up Guang min Shan to inquire.

[reiner]

hi phtthp,


thanks for your information of the P1/P2 dzg location. I will have logistic problem if to send the P1 to another pl as hubby gotta travel a lot even over weekends.

how abt "jing zhong" @ lor 35? comments? wrote email to them but yet have reply.

Now gotta pin my hope on bw…

[phtthp]

reiner:

thanks for your information of the P1/P2 dzg location. I will have logistic problem if to send the P1 to another pl as hubby gotta travel a lot even over weekends.

how abt \"jing zhong\" @ lor 35? comments? wrote email to them but yet have reply.

Now gotta pin my hope on bw...

besides BW, Guang Ming Shan, some community centres (turn to page 9, of this thread for cc), another place that teach DZG is Yuquan.

Yuquan DZG start from K1 onwards. (not N2, too young)
you may click video below, to watch.
Then give Yuquan a call, to inquire cost fees :-

http://www.yuquan.com.sg/course_recitation.php

Yuquan also teach San Zi Jing, and Bai Jia Xing.
All start from K1 and above.

sorry, I never heard of \"jing zhong\". Not sue what is it ?

[lovelydaughter]

When a kid performs a task, what is the source of motivation?

孩子做了一件事情，他的动力到底来自於哪里？

Is it When your PARENTS call you, Answer them right away?
Or Is it When the Sweets call you, Answer them right away?
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是父母呼，应勿缓?
还是糖糖呼，应勿缓?
Is it When your PARENTS call you, Answer them right away?
Or Is it When the 2 Dollars Notes call you, Answer them right away?

是父母呼，应勿缓?
还是两块钱呼，应勿缓?


When the child is obedient, WHO is he listening to?
孩子听话了，他听的是谁的话？听妈妈的话，还是听糖的话？

The result may be the same, however we need to evaluate whether we are teaching the right mindset (Compassionate, Respectful, Judgement) to our child.
同样是做了，但是我们的教育这个孩子的心境。到底往哪个方向在走？
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=eZnK_KGJi_c#

[JohnYeo]

phtthp:

Hi Reiner,


Blossom world (bw) only take in n2 to k2 kids. They don't accept p1 kids. However you may call up bw, ask to speak to Li Chang. She is a very polite & courteous staff. Ask her - is it possible to consider opening a new class for kids aged 7 to 8 years old? (Ie. p1 and p2 kids)? If yes, that'll be great!

Hopefully she'll consider and discuss with her boss, the head of blossom world society. (Male)

FYI - at bw, all dzg learning curriculum material will be given to your child, inside the $60 School fees you'd paid up. $60 is for 12 lessons. Ie 3 months.

In the event the answer is no, you may consider let your child join the p1 to p6 dzg class at Guang ming Shan. You google Internet, look for mainline of Guang ming Shan, and ask \"I understand there is a dzg class for p1 to p6 kids. I am interested to join. Can you kindly advise how to let my child join? \"

This dzg class at Guang Ming Shan is on Sunday. Can't recall is it start 9 am or 10am on Sunday morning. But there are so many kids there. When my kid was aged n2 bAck then, I brought her there before. However, they did not separate the n2 from the p1, p2. So she was dwarf by all the big Jie Jie, go go there from p1, p2. So I pulled her out, din continue.

Dzg at Guang ming Shan - they teach kids memorize dzg, with hands on action. It was very interesting & fun to watch, bec first time I saw kids learn dzg thru hands action. The p1 to p6 pupils will rehearse a few times until they get familiar, then they go up the stage to present dzg with hands on action, to the audience seated below the stage (ie. the audience are their parents ) Maybe u bring yr son there one Sunday morning, take a preview first. The dzg classroom is on ground floor, admin block of Guang Ming Shan. The textbook costs ard $15 (Can't recall exactly). Just purchase 1 copy will do.

FYI -
Parents with secondary 1 to jc2 / polytechnic / nus, ntu, sim children -
At night on weekdays around 7.15 pm, there is also dzg class conducted at Guang Ming Shan. It is called dzg \"Lun Yu\" Confucius classics. They go in depth. Sch fees are also v reasonable. Those interested can ring up Guang min Shan to inquire.

Thanks phtthp for the info.

[phtthp]

You're welcome, John


For blossom world society, I like dzg class on Sunday 10 am because the class is small & cater only pre-school kids so far, ie. (n2 to k2). As to future whether they take in p1, p2 - that I am not sure. Once reach maximum size 16 kids, bw won't take in anymore. The number 17th kid onwards will be placed on waiting list, until some child from within the 16 kids class happen to drop out half way. Either this or bw decide to form another new class of another fresh new 16 kids.

For Guang Ming Shan, the dzg class cater from (n2 to p6) on Sunday morning. Thus, there are many children. As to whether they break up into different age group according to levels (p1 to p6) and then different level enter different classroom to learn, that - I am not sure. Is best to call up their main line, check with their dzg course co-ordinator.

[lovelydaughter]

Blossom PARENTS' Day Celebration

双亲节


亲心。孝心。唤我心

孩子，当我老了，请你牵着我的手，陪伴我，慢慢地走

NOW (When I am old), please accompany me to finish my Last hurdle of this path. Please give me your love and patience.
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In the Past, I had Guided you towards the path of life.
就像当年我牵着你一样。
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Memories of the Selfless GIVING & KINDESS from our Parents, is it possible not to fill with utmost gratitude to repay their kindness?
忆起父母的恩情，想起父母的奉献，我怎能不含着泪报恩呢？呼吁全天下子女，及时反扑哺报亲恩！

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Program 节目：

1)Skit Performance 短剧演出

2) Mass feet washing 洗脚报亲恩

3) Tea-offering ceremony 奉茶献孝心

4) Sing-along with Blossom Youth 动力青年韵律带动

5) Blossom Exhibition 孝悌、爱国忠臣、端午节展说会

Max Capacity: 2000 pax 预计2000人

Please register by Family Nucleus with 2 or 3 generations
欢迎两或三代核心家庭报名

Details:
Date: 2 June 2013, Sunday
Time: 2.30pm-6.00pm
Venue: Marina Barrage 滨海堤坝

http://www.blossomworld.sg/blog/2013/04/blossom-parents-day-celebration-%E5%8F%8C%E4%BA%B2%E8%8A%82/

[JohnYeo]

The two drawings r so meaningful... reminds me of my families.