I had been taking contraceptive pills for on off ar 11-12yrs, except the time when I m trying to conceive.

Contraceptive pills can delay periods but doctors recommend do not exceed 2-3 months. I had delay periods while on the pills few times already, and for me, it doesn’t give me any major problems, but of course, be expect that the month when you start getting your Period back, the amount will definitely be greater abit.
As for your girl, I would prefer not to let them touch the pills if they are still young. For my case, my girl is 14yrs old n I wouldn’t take this as a alternative. Because contraceptive pill is HORMONES pills and is best to be advise from a doctor. Everybody is different, some people still have side effects even thought they have gone thru a doctor consultation,BP pressure, BMI, medical history. So, my advice is unless there is really NO OThER alternative n compulsory! BUT remember, there is always a CHOICE.

Me and my hubby is around the same age as u n ur hubby. First,u gota know whether is your hubby stress at work or any stressful stuff?

Secondly, for men above 40s, they are easily prone to ED. and this to men, is a big affect in their ego. Thus, they probably might feel inferior or unable to satisfied their wife,so it leads to NO to sex.
3) but for 1 years plus for married couples, is consider kinda weird? Either he is cheating(perhaps he is wise in clearing evidences? I m only presume ) Or he is using his imagination and passing the "job" to his buddy(his hand)? or ED?
But I believe that the most important thing for a married couple is to have a real serious talk with him let him know how you feel these 1 year plus? Find out what is affecting your marriage? Sexless marriage and even without physical close contact for sooo long, could gradually lead to serious problems in your marriage. solve this fast if not, a marriage could be destroy. And btw, every marriage at least will sure need close physical contacts.
I had solve my Similar problem few months back and now we are a happy couple:) best of luck!

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