So much so on all the 'bad' things happening in Year 2010.


It will end soon.

Let prepare ourselves for coming joyous season and welcoming 2011.

Pls share how will you be celebrating?

:celebrate:

Just my opinion....


There are many ways to 'skin a cat' (solve problems)
To name it:
1. Avoid it
2. Face it
3. Reduce it
4. Transfer it

If you're choosing (1), then some of the earlier suggestion from other forumers, you can start preparing

However, you're already husband and wife. There's bound to be ups and downs. U learn to accept and treasure what you have/given (just like the oath - for better or worse, rich or poverty, til death do us part)

If your choose (2), I suggest:
The cause seems to be money and ur DH job/career and probably ego as a man/breadwinner.
How about helping him to find a job?
Maybe you can share with us ur DH age? Qualification? Area of Expertise? Last drawn Salary? Interested in what kind of job?

Maybe we can help look around and recommend a suitable one?

Lastly, whatever ur decision, consider carefully... best for your family and your children.

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Hmm…I went with my family on RC in Yr 2008.


We got off at Phuket and just walk around.

Did not join in their package. Cos’ they charge all in USD, quite ex for me.

Depends on your family size? If with kids, then i think not so worth.

Moreover, only a short period of time on the tour

Yes, we have daughter 2.5 yrs old.


If my wife has specifically tell me what she wants, things would have been easier.

The problem is she like the element of 'surprise'
Which most of the time is 'surprisingly disappointed' :stupid:
Though she always say 'you know' or 'anything'.......

It is just so stressful to buy gifts for every occasion. :stupid:

:?: :?: :?:

My package comes with ticket.


I guess better to get the tixs over there. Most theme park quite fixed on tixs prices.

Moreover, can’t be much discount

Lucky she has no ear holes.


Else, my pocket will burnt another hole...... :lol:

Ya. my wife keep mentioning.....er .... more like 'hinting'

abt the 7yrs itch....... :roll:

Oh yes, i remembered... she said desert not important.
And it will be more complete if it comes with 'shining stones' :lol:

Hmm.....

Anyway, next celebration is Christmas Day.
Not sure what to buy as gift again.

Any ideas?

It's our 7th Anniversary!


Bought a small bouquet of Lililes and was delivered to her office.
Cost me S$60.00

We shared a set of steak and pizza. Plus cocktail drinks. Total cost S$110.00

Too full to eat desert later.
(BTW, we are both small eater)

:lol:

TY all for your kind suggestions. We celebrated our anniversary yesterday


The flowers works. My wife is very happy receiving them

Ended at \"The Jewel Box\" at Mount Faber for Dinner.

Food was good and of course the view is more fantastic.

Will try the other restaurants in the future

:lol:

Hmm, all your comments make me link back the earlier thread

'Accused being a good father but a lousy husband'

So? Did the change came about after the baby or after mummy have the baby.

Which means 'mummy makes/create a lousy husband'?

:lol:

Which links back to another thread on 'Extra Martial Affairs'?

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