I’m seriously considering LASIK surgery to correct my eyesight. Anyone who has done it and can share with me on the experience and recommend a good surgeon?


Thanks in advance!

:lovesite: Thanks for welcoming me to kiasuparents.

Hi all,


I'm new to this portal.
Read the posts at the forum and is presently surprised to learn that I can gather useful tips from there.
I hope to be able to contribute along the way too.

cheers!

Hi happyfather,


I suppose by you writing in this forum, you are actually taking a moment to reflect. As I can feel that you realized that your actions were actually in the moment of anger triggered by what happened during that moment.

Have you also paused to think why both of you came together, been together, what
you both has gone through, the visions you both had together, planned for the future? For all you have been through and planned for, it’s it worth giving up at this moment? There may be disagreement, quarrels which happens to all couples because every individual is different and unique. But does it warrant a break off? From what you shared, the trigger point is really over what I think is a small issue… Housework/dinner? Maybe there are more underlying issues accumulated overtime…
So think again… Is it really over the housework, dinner, smashed iPad, pride?

What is it that brought both of you together? I’m sure it’s worth some thoughts rather than to decide hastily… Moreover, now we have a little princess involved. Whatever the decision or outcome, she will be greatly affected. Is this what you really want?

When things dont work out, it’s always easy to call it quits and walk away… But a lot of times, one may look back after years and think again what will it be if you have decided differently… Hopefully no regrets…

A gentle reminder, human errs as no one is perfect. Give & take is a basic requirement in all relationships not only BGR.

I hope things will be well for you and all.

Best wishes!
The choice is yours