New HPPS Mum:Any parent here facing problem with your kids visiting the bookshop? My P1 son has been visiting the bookshop everyday and buying things which he do not need at all. He has not been using his pocket money to buy food but spent on buying unneccesary things(eg. small toy, erasers, cards, paper wallet, etc). Should I stop giving him pocket money?
I think you should find out why he is buying all the stuff. Is it peer pressure or he likes the stuff. The kids are given money to manage and they suddenly realise the power of it and may be a bit careless in the management. Besides cutting the allowance, it will be useful to share the value of money with him to encourage him to analyse what he will be missing if he mis-managed the money. Eg, if he saves his money, he can buy something better and bigger in the future.
My girl at P1 likes to buy snacks to share with her friends. If she doesn't buy, she feels that she won't be included in the sharing. But she started coughing so we are limiting her purchase to once a week. We will also start baking cookies so that she can bring and share with her friends. The money that she saves will be used to buy books that she gets to choose everyweek. She loves reading so she is excited about this arrangement.