In-law problems?

[buds]

foreverj:

hi buds


my heart goes out to u dear. think your family drama more incredible :!: than the \"niang jia\" show on TV now. although i dun watch the show but i figured wont be much different from yours. stay strong for your daughters :love:

You've always been around for me foreverj... and you know i WILL definitely
hafta stay strong for them and for my own sanity. Drama? It's like the
freakin' never-ending Days Of Our Lives if ya noe what i mean. :faint:

:rotflmao:

foreverj:

i told her if she needed any reminder/motivation just check out this thread in the KSP forum.

Ahlamak.. :shock: I'm sure you needn't frighten her leh. :lol: Not everyone
is as Empress Dowager-ing as the few MILs some of us here have. So the
rare gems are what they are... ahaks... :lol: ... RARE. And for those who
have, you dunno how lucky you are.. For those who live on your own,
albeit a small house... you shud know how lucky you are... For those who
have supportive husbands/wives who can maintain diplomatic relations
with the govt (MIL/ILs in general) without the need to be autocratic and
rude and yet manage to love your spouses equally.. i kow-tow to you... u
dunno how blessed you are.

For the God who always sees, hears, listens and understands... i hope
U have seen... heard... listened and hereby understood how we feel in
our hearts. Help me and others in this similar journey... give us inner
peace... inner strength to face your challenges how you've deemed us
strong enough to see through.

To other DILs in similar battles (cheh... like leading army lidat.. :P) :lol:...
never succumb to accede defeat. Rise up strong... rise up proud. Let's do
this together. Encourage one another to be the respectful DILs that we
can be... so that we nurture good in the children who see... so that we
keep our spouses off the nitty-gritties... so that we are not perceived as
the dumbos that some think we are... so that whatever happens, was
never and cannot ever be our doing. Do good and good things will come
to you. God willing.. no matter how near no matter how far. The good is
out there. So all DILs.. be good now.

[peapot]

Buds, so sorry to hear this. Its very sad but am glad you are the "dragon". I don’t have any in-laws because they passed away years back, so I always thought it would be good to have them around to help mind the kids. After reading this thread I guess I m in a way "lucky". What are the chances of getting great, understanding and considerate inlaws??!! Do you still live with them now? Maybe you should get your own place? How do you eat reunion dinner with them?? Especially your MIL?? I don’t think you can eat in peace.

[buds]

autumnbronze:

....... will realize that.

He has.

autumnbronze:

All the best buds, things will ALWAYS have a way of working out ... somehow ... :celebrate: :celebrate: :hugs: :hugs:

Yeah.. somehow.. :hugs:

I know it will.

Wait for my good news.

[buds]

Alamak peapot.. you need to catch up on back posts to fully get the

picture cos think you missed out a lotta juice, girl. Thanks, some things
are currently put forth into motion and i'm feeling optimistic i CAN turn my
twisted life around. Hehee.. The roller coaster rides have been fun but i
think what i need now is a joyride more than coaster rides. Hubs has
been a doll (very nice) of late. So, pray for me too? :xedfingers:

[autumnbronze]

buds:

autumnbronze:

....... will realize that.

He has.

WOOHOO, that is GREAT news buds, great news .... at least its not precipitated by you, so it'll def leave an indelible imprint in his mind ... if you get me ...

buds:

Wait for my good news.

eagerly, eagerly .... :xedfingers:

[Tri-mum]

Hi Buds, don't know what to say after reading your temp post. I trust HE will brace thru the storm with you and you will see Rainbow after a mighty storm. Remember that HE is your strong tower and so are you to your gals. Take care and remembered that God saw a tear in you and He kissed it away.... :hugs:

[auntieM]

You one strong and determined dragon :ugogirl:

[MLR]

buds sista, to me you are like the Phoenix that araises the ashes after each scathing burnt.


Thru you, I learn to appreciate my peaceful daily life which I used to think its boring.

You really suffers big time for LOVE :udawoman:

[buds]

For love. :celebrate:

[2ppaamm]

buds:

For love. :celebrate:

Yep, it really sounded you have grown to love bud_hubs! :celebrate:

Well girl, you are doing great, and I know you will be strong enough to get through this period and the fact that buds_hubs knows, 3/4 of the battle is already won. Go, start building something great (not just good) for you, hubs and the girls! Make them green with envy, make them regret!