Children of average ability
-
tamarind:
I was just thinking about this. Since your little boy can read very well, he obviously can recognize words very well too. So perhaps he will find it easy to write/spell words as a whole unit (at least to begin with), especially since you mentioned that he has no problems reading words containing \"b\" or \"d\" when the letters are put together like \"dog\". Does your son only write in reversal when doing individual letters or does it happen in words as well?
I also didn't place a lot of emphasis on individual letters, I started to teach him phonics before he could recognize all the letters. My biggest headache now is that he is not able to write all the letters and numbers correctly
He is supposed to master it by this year, next year at K1, he will need to write in words -
tamarind:
I guess you have to gauge his reaction upon being caught to understand if he really did not understand the rules or he is trying to test his boundaries.
First, my boy used his kids' scissors to cut a few holes on the cotton cover of his kids' sofa.
The next day, he cut a few holes in my king size bedsheet !
One week later, he cut his sister's water bottle strap !
For us, strictly no scissors using unless permission is sought or adult supervision is present. -
tamarind:
Your boy seems very intelligent to me. My gal of 5 years old (k1 this year ) can barely finish reading 4B of the Peter and Jane series. Even then, she gets it wrong sometimes. For the writing, its perfectly normal for them to write the mirror image at this stage. The principal of my daughter's childcare says that because the mirror image of the alphabets is embedded in their mind.My younger boy, who is 4 years 3 months old now, has average learning ability.
Although he is able to read well, he still cannot write all the 26 letters, upper and lower case. He tends to write his numbers and letters in mirror images. I tried to let him practice by more, but I could not let him write more than 30 letters or numbers a day. He will complain that he is tired, or lose his concentration.
Any ideas about what to do ? -
jedamum,
The kids' scissors have rounded tips and are very safe for children. I let my kids use them to develop their fine motor skills. My 5 year old girl often use the scissors and glue to create paper crafts. She has never cut what she is not supposed to cut before. So I do not expect my younger boy to do so. He is normally a sweet natured boy at home, he does not have a habit of destroying things. I think he does not understand why he cannot cut those things.
clare,
Your daughter cut her own hair ? :shock:
I bought those Kumon cutting books for my kids too. They love it ! We finished 2 or 3 already.
Yes he tends to write in reversal even when writing words as well. He can spell a number of words verbally, but he has problem writing them correctly.
I used to believe that he recognizes words by their shapes. So when the words are upside down, he should not be able to read them. But there was once he turned the book upside down and read an entire paragraph correctly. Strange.
EN,
We asked him. He could not answer why
phantom,
We actually have a lot of white paper for him, and he is free to take any paper to draw or cut. But I guess he got bored of cutting white paper -
Tamarind, chances are, he will not answer you because he is afraid.
I cut my hair too because when I woke up some part of my hair juts out. I put some water, it still juts out, so I cut it. Then I realize, I make it worst because it sticks out on top of my head instead of jutting out. I cut out the plastic tape underneath my bed because the plastic tape can be used as music when I flick my fingers on it. I cut my clothing so that I can sew my dolls clothing. I cut my errmm eyelashes because I read somewhere that it can grow longer. :oops:
If he is cutting for a reason, chances are, he will not stop. But if he is cutting because he likes using scissors, trying buying coloured papers. Fold a piece of paper into smaller squares or triangles & cut bits & pieces to make repeated pattern. -
EN:
You really did all that ? :shock:Tamarind, chances are, he will not answer you because he is afraid.
I cut my hair too because when I woke up some part of my hair juts out. I put some water, it still juts out, so I cut it. Then I realize, I make it worst because it sticks out on top of my head instead of jutting out. I cut out the plastic tape underneath my bed because the plastic tape can be used as music when I flick my fingers on it. I cut my clothing so that I can sew my dolls clothing. I cut my errmm eyelashes because I read somewhere that it can grow longer. :oops:
If he is cutting for a reason, chances are, he will not stop. But if he is cutting because he likes using scissors, trying buying coloured papers. Fold a piece of paper into smaller squares or triangles & cut bits & pieces to make repeated pattern.
Yes I think I should find some coloured papers for him to cut. He still cannot cut properly along straight lines yet, cutting repeated patterns will help him to develop his cutting skills.
I tried to ask him the reason in the nicest possible tone, he just gave me a blur look :roll: -
Tamarind
my elder girl cut her fringe & a lock of her sister hair!
no specific reasons, just itchy fingers :roll: -
Hi Tamarind, welcome to the ‘boys world’ where they would experiment on their own to find out what happens if…
Provide your kid with coloured paper of different textures for them to explore eg cardboard, orgami paper, felt, foam etc. Try Arts’ Friend at Ngee Ann City. They have a branch near Sunshine Plaza, I think. There are lots of arts and craft materials there. Keep him occupied with these and point to the rest of the house," no, no." For some boys, you have to keep reminding them…many times. You have to give some appropriate disincentives too…Kids have their phases.
My big boy is at the phase now where he gets hold of any seeds we have at home eg orange, chilli, pear, apple, soya bean etc and plant it in any pot we have in our little planter and see if it can be grown in our little pots. Hey so far very successful but I have no where to transplant them. I can’t have a tree in my little pots!
My boys will go to the kitchen to mix different things together to see what happens. I just have to make sure I have no ingredients for a " home-made bomb" lying around… -
Tamarind [quote]You really did all that ?
Yes I think I should find some coloured papers for him to cut. He still cannot cut properly along straight lines yet, cutting repeated patterns will help him to develop his cutting skills.
I tried to ask him the reason in the nicest possible tone, he just gave me a blur look [/quote]Some of my antics go undiscovered. Some yes & of course I won't be answering my parent's questions.
On a serious note, my ds has issues on mirror image too. He can write his name exactly like the image in the mirror. He has problem with b & d but his issues is slowing going away. Told him that d comes after c. Since c comes first, to remember letter d, draw letter c again & then add straight line to the letter c. Once he knows letter d, he will not be confuse with letter b.
Sometimes for math, he wanted to write thirty one (31) but instead ended up writing 13. So, I emphasize him to write out his working so that at least he did not lose too much marks on such errors. -
ksmama wrote [quote]he gets hold of any seeds we have at home eg orange, chilli, pear, apple, soya bean etc and plant it in any pot we have in our little planter [/quote]
I did that too but I chose durian seed instead but I was a very good little girl then. So doesn't matter whether it is a girl or a boy. Both gender can be very creative.
Hello! It looks like you're interested in this conversation, but you don't have an account yet.
Getting fed up of having to scroll through the same posts each visit? When you register for an account, you'll always come back to exactly where you were before, and choose to be notified of new replies (either via email, or push notification). You'll also be able to save bookmarks and upvote posts to show your appreciation to other community members.
With your input, this post could be even better 💗
Register Login