How do you maintain your relationship with your spouse?
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thankgod:
I witnessed this yday. Maybe i can't assume the woman is the wife. Then again, man shouldn't behave like that
Depends ...wormy:
This question is for the husbands.
Suppose on a heavy rainy day both of u has only one umbrella and u need to go get yr car in an open carpark. What would u do? Both share the tiny brolly. U go drive car over. Ask wife to drive car over
If heavy rain ...
Husband go take car and then pick up wife.
If not so heavy rain ...
Husband and wife to share umbrella, wife hold umbrella, husband hug her tight tight.
Ask wife to drive car over ... NEVER!
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wormy:
I witnessed this yday. Maybe i can't assume the woman is the wife. Then again, man shouldn't behave like that
Depends ...thankgod:
[quote=\"wormy\"]This question is for the husbands.
Suppose on a heavy rainy day both of u has only one umbrella and u need to go get yr car in an open carpark. What would u do? Both share the tiny brolly. U go drive car over. Ask wife to drive car over
If heavy rain ...
Husband go take car and then pick up wife.
If not so heavy rain ...
Husband and wife to share umbrella, wife hold umbrella, husband hug her tight tight.
Ask wife to drive car over ... NEVER![/quote]oblivious husband should not be assumed as one who is unloving (and vice versa). sometimes it is just a case of them getting too familiar with each other.
once, we encountered a man who was pushing a stroller. he pushed open the (mall) glass door and then didn't hold for his wife who was carrying the infant. we were standing near the door waiting for the lift and my husband quickly rushed to hold the door for that man's wife
. that man then go :oops: . 
rewind 10 yrs ago, me and husband was sitting at the coffee shop eating lunch. a strong gust of wind blew a styrofoam box cover in our direction. my husband instinctively 'siam'
and the box flew and hit my face. i was sitting beside him and never let him off this 'joke' ever since.
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wormy:
This question is for the husbands.
Suppose on a heavy rainy day both of u has only one umbrella and u need to go get yr car in an open carpark. What would u do? Both share the tiny brolly. U go drive car over. Ask wife to drive car over
sometimes he would ask me to take umbrella to get car cos he didnt want to get wet. sometimes the other way round (he would go cos he didnt want me to get wet).
dh also not one of those who would automatically carry grocery/shopping bags. now better would help. if didnt help, i wont be bothered by it too.
imho, cant be ๆคๆค่ฎก่พ. otherwise, very tiring. -
jedamum:
luckily not something else but really :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
rewind 10 yrs ago, me and husband was sitting at the coffee shop eating lunch. a strong gust of wind blew a styrofoam box cover in our direction. my husband instinctively 'siam' and the box flew and hit my face. i was sitting beside him and never let him off this 'joke' ever since. -
I dun mind driving to pick my husband to keep him out of rain. He dun mind doing that for me either.
Ok whatโฆ since I CAN drive, why let him come home in the rainโฆ catch a flu and THEN, I have to help him get well? -
the scenario was like this: heavy downpour plus ground flooding till ankle-level. both waiting at hawker centre. man talked to woman and then woman walked away towards car. woman took something (think itโs umbrella) from boot. wife drove car nearer to the man and man got into car.
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maybe wearing boss shoes, eton dress shirt and goodness know what pants and socks and underwear............ :roll:
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why only one response from man? Others secretly repenting?
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wormy:
why only one response from man? Others secretly repenting?
LOLMum:
sometimes he would ask me to take umbrella to get car cos he didnt want to get wet. sometimes the other way round (he would go cos he didnt want me to get wet).
dh also not one of those who would automatically carry grocery/shopping bags. now better would help. if didnt help, i wont be bothered by it too.
imho, cant be ๆคๆค่ฎก่พ. otherwise, very tiring.
make that 2, cos' dh's view is same as mine. -
wormy:
why only one response from man? Others secretly repenting?
wormy,
in my case, I will always go into the rain to drive car to the family ( or nearest sheltered pickup point ), or bring umbrellas back for them. Rain is not a big deal for real men :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: We walked for miles and miles in rain carrying 25kg of stuff on our back in our army days.
but occasionally, DW offered to go, but before she can finished her sentence, I am already halfway to the car :imanangel: :imanangel:
I think the reason so little men post here and a few other sensitive threads, is because usually all these emo questions are posed and deliberated by women. :siam:
Look at the in-law problems thread, so many pages !! You seldom see men having problems with the in-laws , do you ?
We rant more about the kayu referees than in-laws
just my humble opinion nia nia.
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