K2 boy always want to win, cannot accept defeat

[Oppsgal]

:moneyflies: when throw away toys and don't pick up from dustbin.


My kid don't like time out. run away screaming when there is time out. I have to catch my kid back and sit beside me. Every few second, kid run off. Then have to restart the time.

:faint:

[smurf]

yup, waste money when throw away toys, but if the child learnt his or her lesson hard when throw the precious toys away, it is worth it. rather than you fuming angrily several times and nagging and nagging, or try to pick him up from time out, etc.


however, if he does not value the toys at all, then maybe throwing toys method wouldnt work. but if the toy is his or her favourite, then it will work. in any case, he or she must know that you mean it, the punishment ie.

[sunset_dae]

haha, tae what i thought so too, so i picked up the toys but must tell the child i dun wan to see such behaviour again and im giving him one chance only.

Oppsgal:

:moneyflies: when throw away toys and don't pick up from dustbin.

My kid don't like time out. run away screaming when there is time out. I have to catch my kid back and sit beside me. Every few second, kid run off. Then have to restart the time.

:faint:

[heyhoe]

We will usuallly keep the "toy" in the storeroom. We will only return the toy over the weekend after they’ve improved their behaviour.

[seekingangels]

let him lose and say to him, it’s okay, mummy still loves you. daddy will teach you to be better at [activity he lost]. and tell him that nobody is perfect and we all have room for improvement.

[seekingangels]

let him lose and say to him, it’s okay, mummy still loves you. daddy will teach you to be better at [activity he lost]. and tell him that nobody is perfect and we all have room for improvement.

[seekingangels]

that it is alright to lose and brig out the old chinese saying "shi pai nai cheng gong zhi mu" "failure is the mother of all successes". without failing we would not learn and without learning we will never be wiser. hope this helps.

[seekingangels]

*bring out the old chinese saying

[smartmummy]

sunset_dae:

My son used to behave like this, each time he does that i will tell him strictly:\"Don't throw tantrum, if you kick and throw yr toys, i will assume u do not like yr toys and all will go into the dustbin.\" He tried to test my limit and there was once i really dump the toys into the bin and he started to cry and scream and sae dont want dont want, then i correct him again and tld him he shouldnt do that, suprisingly, he never does it again.

I did it once not for kicking,but he didn't follow my instruction and gave final warning.After I throw he very upset.But after that he listened whatever I said.But one of my friends felt its affect him a lot.She gave a look like \"what an evil mom\".

[Ichigokun]

Like parents like son, no wonder he so Kiasu. Because you are also Kiasu ( that's why ur on this forum) XD