All About Full-Time Maids
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LOLMum:
Huh...LOLMum? :?DesertWind:
I just paid almost SGD1,100 (including insurance) for my mother's new maid under the old contract term. But replacement after May got to pay a fee of a few hundred dollars because going forward under new rules more expensive already. Today went to fetch her, seems ok, pleasant enough.
all the best ! but watch that window.......watch that window.......
You mean as in the safety aspect high-rise flat window izzit?
Guess what, that was the FIRST THING I told her the minute she stepped into my parents' flat. After she put her bags down I brought her to the room windows and rattled the grills and told her in no uncertain terms DO NOT OPEN the grills in whatever circumstances since there are kids in the house! -
autumnbronze:
Thanks, autumnbronze!DesertWind:
I just paid almost SGD1,100 (including insurance) for my mother's new maid under the old contract term. But replacement after May got to pay a fee of a few hundred dollars because going forward under new rules more expensive already. Today went to fetch her, seems ok, pleasant enough.
Best of luck to your mom, DesertWind :xedfingers:
Yesterday after we reached my parents' place, I showed the new maid how to do the blood sugar monitoring and how to use the blood pressure equipment too. I started by doing on her ie. I tested the maid's blood sugar and then take her BP so that she knows what I am doing and then I do my father so that she can compare.
Turned out I think her BP a bit high (higher than my father) and then she told me she got a bit of a headache. When I told my mother, she got quite worried that perhaps the headache is related to the BP. :scared: So we will bring her to the doc to check and see whether the BP is serious or not, need any medication for the headache too?
She can speak Cantonese but English not so good. Still observing will check with my mother tom. how is it going.... :xedfingers: -
My mum’s ex-maid very ROD mood already and hence since fees increasing I decided to release her 3 months earlier and got a new replacement maid.
Took her to close her POSB account - wah lau the Q is terrible minimum wait is 1 hour I SWEAR I won’t any POSB for the new maid anymore! After that brought her to BNI to remit her money back to Indonesia. BNI told me they no longer open accounts for maids her in SG but they can do it in Indo. My maid told me to remit all her savings over to her brother/cousin’s account in BNI-Indo. I absolutely refused since the account not in her name - so how? I asked BNI. BNI told me in such a case we can use the maid’s passport to remit the savings over in Rupiah to the BNI branch nearest so that my maid can go and take the money when she went back home. I thought this is a great way too! They photocopied her passport and do the TT with a reference number so that when maid went to get her money, she can just show her passport so cannot go wrong!
Went to the airport and turned out she was referred to the immigration counter when she went into the departure area. The immigration wanted to check her work permit and ensure that all was in order I think, since I bought her a one-way ticket.
Initially I was debating whether to ask the agent to help me send her off but this maid told me a few times already she does not want to go back to the agent. Apparently the agent treat them shabbily and I scared her things got stolen or agent keep her passport and give her a hard time so in the end decided to send her off to the airport myself. Phew!
I told her thank you for taking care of my father he is so well now! She told me among the bosses she encountered since coming her I am the best…ke…ke…ke…
One chapter closed…good bye and all the best! -
DesertWind:
Great! I might just do that for my maid when she goes home later this year. She doesn't want to remit the last of her savings to her sibling cos she \"doesn't have any more money\". She insisted that she will carry the money home personally.BNI told me in such a case we can use the maid's passport to remit the savings over in Rupiah to the BNI branch nearest so that my maid can go and take the money when she went back home. I thought this is a great way too! They photocopied her passport and do the TT with a reference number so that when maid went to get her money, she can just show her passport so cannot go wrong!
So now, I shall tell her about this. -
autumnbronze:
Answer all you like, but I am stopping here. Given how you like to lump everything together whether there is any relevance, I can understand why you think this is a VIPER's NEST. YES, I better avoid the VIPER.Dear Dnls_mum,
You are adopting too much of a moral high ground and self righteous attitude that you CLEARLY do not see where I and the others are coming from. You are playing and twisting the words used out of context. I would call this verbal psychology, if there is such a term. There are people who resort to such tactics to hang on to their argument precisely because they have nothing to support their argument anymore and also because they CANNOT or REFUSE to UNDERSTAND others' point of view. Yes, one point I do agree with you is that you are entitled to your opinion. However, how that viewpoint is conveyed is another matter altogether. Go back to your first reply to moonee and hopefully you can see where I am coming from.
I am CERTAINLY not being emotional. You do not know me here in this forum, if you did, you will think otherwise. I will disregard this statement
that you have made. In fact, it's been a long long time since I have stepped into this thread, because it's like a viper's nest in here. And I have been proven right.
I will reply to your post. Let me attend to my crying baby first.
BTW, the use of CAPs in postings doesn't necessarily indicate that the poster is being emotional. -
DesertWind:
Hi DesertWind!
I told her thank you for taking care of my father he is so well now! She told me among the bosses she encountered since coming her I am the best...ke..ke..ke...
One chapter closed....good bye and all the best!
How long was she with your mum??
You must have felt happy when she mentioned the above statement!!
I broke down at the airport when my ex maid left in March. I did not
expect to. I too wished her all the best and thanked her for taking care of us and especially my kids. She was going home to get married after 4 years with us. She grew up with us. She literally transformed herself just by watching us - the way we do things like eating habits (for example, the
proper way to eat spaghetti), hygiene etc ... When I was expecting DS2, she observed how I avoided caffeine and MSG and asked me why. She said she hoped to be able to do the same when she is pregnant too!! She had initiative and was observant. There was once, out of exhaustion in the
initial months after delivering, when the baby was crying, she fed him milk and showered him on her own accord while I slept. When I woke up, I was
shocked at why she didn't wake me up. She mentioned that she had observed me doing all those things and was confident that she could do it and knew that I needed to rest.
My neighbor once commented that my helper did not look like one, neither
did she behave like one.
Anyway, I broke down because at the airport, she thanked me and DH. She
thanked us profusely because she said she has never felt as comfortable as she felt in our home. And the things we advised her about like how to take
care of her health (avoidance of excessive amount of certain food if
possible), saving up her hard earned money (we advised her to save every cent and dollar and in fact supplied her with everything from toiletries, to
clothes, to phone cards to hp). She thanked us because she said after 4 years of saving, she was able to buy herself a matrimonial home plus a
motorbike. She said she appreciated all the advice Sir used to give her in
the car about investing her money wisely. She said that while working for her ex employer, she did not know what to do with the money earned and her future. Now she has an idea. She said that she cannot forsee herself staying at home and doing nothing after working for us for these no of years. She will have to do something productive at home now.
I broke down because I never realized what we had said and done for her
out of GOODWILL had made such an impact in her life.
I miss her. -
Dnls_mum:
You are very fond of labeling, aren't you??? First the word \"pariah\", then \"viper\".
Answer all you like, but I am stopping here. Given how you like to lump everything together whether there is any relevance, I can understand why you think this is a VIPER's NEST. YES, I better avoid the VIPER.autumnbronze:
Dear Dnls_mum,
You are adopting too much of a moral high ground and self righteous attitude that you CLEARLY do not see where I and the others are coming from. You are playing and twisting the words used out of context. I would call this verbal psychology, if there is such a term. There are people who resort to such tactics to hang on to their argument precisely because they have nothing to support their argument anymore and also because they CANNOT or REFUSE to UNDERSTAND others' point of view. Yes, one point I do agree with you is that you are entitled to your opinion. However, how that viewpoint is conveyed is another matter altogether. Go back to your first reply to moonee and hopefully you can see where I am coming from.
I am CERTAINLY not being emotional. You do not know me here in this forum, if you did, you will think otherwise. I will disregard this statement
that you have made. In fact, it's been a long long time since I have stepped into this thread, because it's like a viper's nest in here. And I have been proven right.
I will reply to your post. Let me attend to my crying baby first.
BTW, the use of CAPs in postings doesn't necessarily indicate that the poster
is being emotional.
Anyway, I stopped short of replying to your post because I have learnt that one cannot force people to listen.
As usual, you have tried to throw a smokescreen over my post But it's ok. I know why and where you are coming from.
Hence, I have chosen to convey my thoughts in another post. -
DesertWind:
Huh...LOLMum? :?LOLMum:
all the best ! but watch that window.......watch that window.......
You mean as in the safety aspect high-rise flat window izzit?
Guess what, that was the FIRST THING I told her the minute she stepped into my parents' flat. After she put her bags down I brought her to the room windows and rattled the grills and told her in no uncertain terms DO NOT OPEN the grills in whatever circumstances since there are kids in the house!
hi desertwind,
i cut and paste my earlier post...
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Nearly have a heart attack when I saw my maid standing on high chair to clean the outside of the windows.
Told her many times no need to clean outside. Just lock windows and wipe inside ok already. Watched her a few times okay. But today went into room and horror......
She has been good so far but sometimes still a bit communication problem...
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http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/sgseen/what_bugs_me/1097108/employers_horror_she_has_to_bear_medical_expenses_after.html
So what do u all think of this agency fault? -
It’s mainly the doctor’s fault. Probably he didn’t even bother to check her out and run tests. Just sign?
Take action against the doc?
Complain to medical council?
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