Extra Marital Affair

[3Boys]

buds:

I was naturally overjoyed cos to me that meant she and her husband
had really moved on together. But when i was about to congratulate
her, she said, \"Aren't you gonna ask me whose is it?\" Shocked out of
my world, i was just open-mouthed. She answered her own question
and told me that she was carrying another man's child and intends to
keep it... Though the hubs has sworn off the EMA with that friend, we know he's


having on-going relationships with others... still. Some married, some
not. Now that's one long history of extra marital affairs which may nvr
end. He is happy with his wife now spending more time with each other
and all their children. However, his need for variety is still evident till
today..

I do not understand the selfish actions caused by husbands to hurt their
wives and their family, when upon marriage husbands have vowed to
care, love and cherish.... it is just sad and unfair.

buds,
it would appear that infidelity is not the province of married MEN only anymore. Married WOMEN too seem to want their share of variety. One could say its a sign of gender equality................

I was reading today about how girls as young as 14 are participating in sexual activity, and indeed sometimes baiting the boys/men. As the current laws stand, the boy/man in this situation will be at a disadvantage.

Parents, its not just the girls you have to watch out for, you've got to make sure your boys are not taken advantage off sexually by girls too.

[winth]

honey:

Really? Common in Singapore?

Yup. Now that blogs and forums are so common, you get to see such terms around.

buds:

It's sick.

Like pimping your own wife so that you can get your flings.

Yap yap. But sometimes it's not only the husbands, wives dun mind pimping their husbands for flings too. Reports show that numbers of wives straying is almost equal to husbands liao.

[RRMummy]

winth:

buds:

It's sick.

Like pimping your own wife so that you can get your flings.

Yap yap. But sometimes it's not only the husbands, wives dun mind pimping their husbands for flings too. Reports show that numbers of wives straying is almost equal to husbands liao.

It is just plain sickening and worrisome.. I mean what kind of world will it be like when our kids are growing up in... i shudder with fear just imagining the extent of potential 'danger' lurking out there...

..willing parties is one case.. then there are those who become victims due to their idiotic partners..

[buds]

RRMummy:

..willing parties is one case.. then there are those who become victims due to their idiotic partners..

Agree.
Nuff said.

[buds]

3Boys:

it would appear that infidelity is not the province of married MEN only anymore. Married WOMEN too seem to want their share of variety. One could say its a sign of gender equality................

Yap, true. Thanks for the correction.
Was swayed by more of the postings
from the women folk here about their
men's infidelities.

3Boys:

I was reading today about how girls as young as 14 are participating in sexual activity, and indeed sometimes baiting the boys/men. As the current laws stand, the boy/man in this situation will be at a disadvantage.

There's no supply without demand.

3Boys:

Parents, its not just the girls you have to watch out for, you've got to make sure your boys are not taken advantage off sexually by girls too.

Older experienced girls may come on strong to a virginal boy. Agree.

[Andaiz]

buds:

Older experienced girls may come on strong to a virginal boy. Agree.

Yep, remember the case of the female teacher and her male student? The sickening bit is that it isn't just in the wonderful land of US of A. It's happening in our own backyard too - the little red dot!

[apple79]

I learnt a lot from the posts here esp from insider.


Reminded me that we should not be over protective over our kids although this is a thread on EMA.

[Honey]

buds:

RRMummy:

..willing parties is one case.. then there are those who become victims due to their idiotic partners..

Agree.
Nuff said.

Now that we are on this topic of swingers, I recall recalling an article in a magazine about this lady. Her hubby kept wanting her to join the swingers club with him. Even tho' she initially found the idea sickening, she finally gave in to please her husband. Guess what? After a few rounds of sleeping around, her husband told her how cheap she was & he left her for another woman ! In the first place, it was his idea for her to sleeping with other partners & maybe she thought that by complying, she could keep her marriage but how wrong she was!

[PlayfulFairy]

Hi Insider,


I gotta salute you for your courage for sharing with us and forgiving and moving on! :celebrate:

[3Boys]

Honey:

Now that we are on this topic of swingers, I recall recalling an article in a magazine about this lady. Her hubby kept wanting her to join the swingers club with him. Even tho' she initially found the idea sickening, she finally gave in to please her husband. Guess what? After a few rounds of sleeping around, her husband told her how cheap she was & he left her for another woman ! In the first place, it was his idea for her to sleeping with other partners & maybe she thought that by complying, she could keep her marriage but how wrong she was!

At the end of the day, you've got to respect your own body. In the heat of the moment, the hubby may think its such a wonderful idea, but forgetting he is effectively 'pimping' his wife to other men. How many men can really be comfortable with the idea of other men having sex with their wives? In the asian context, very very few, I suspect. Wives must stand firm on this if they find it repugnant, until their idiot husbands come around to their senses.

Call me old fashioned, but one can really see where the biblical injunctions and admonishments against sex outside of the marriage really sets the tone for protection of the relationship between husband and wife, and secures the family unit.