boy or girl?

[Chenonceau]

This makes me thankful for having had an equivalent of a "sex talk" with my kids from the moment they were 3. I walked them through various scenarios of adults touching them inappropriately and taught them to yell "Pervert! Get away from me!! Aaaaaaaaaah! Scream head off" and kept repeating that if EVER that happens, they must tell me. Over the years, I remind them what to do.


I also never allow either to go to public toilets alone. Even with DS at 11, I will now still stand outside the men’s toilet and yell "Are you alright?" just to make sure that people know that the little boy in there has a Mommy outside waiting… and that this Mommy was prepared to barge in there to save her son if any male tried anything.

[fightingmom]

Same here. I sat down with DD when she was about 4 and told her if anyone touches her in an inappropriate way (quoted her some examples) whether a stranger or someone she knows, she is to let mummy know immediately. If we don’t protect our own children who are defenceless, who will ?

[pinky]

there are also molesters who disguised themselves as people of authority such as policeman and doctors to confuse our kids

[smurf]

its so sickening to hear that because of some perverts’ doing, the entire family (of the victim) has to suffer.

[pair]

Both have equal exposure to danger so it is really necessary for us to prevent our kids.I think every child should join self defense training classes so that they can protect themselves.

[Oppsgal]

Chenonceau:

This makes me thankful for having had an equivalent of a \"sex talk\" with my kids from the moment they were 3. I walked them through various scenarios of adults touching them inappropriately and taught them to yell \"Pervert! Get away from me!! Aaaaaaaaaah! *Scream head off*\" and kept repeating that if EVER that happens, they must tell me. Over the years, I remind them what to do.


I also never allow either to go to public toilets alone. Even with DS at 11, I will now still stand outside the men's toilet and yell \"Are you alright?\" just to make sure that people know that the little boy in there has a Mommy outside waiting... and that this Mommy was prepared to barge in there to save her son if any male tried anything.

For a 3 year old, how to teach them about perverts, without confuse them with teachers bathing them? If start to teach so early, will they start to scream pervert whenever teachers help them to bath?

[smartmummy]

When i asked my son in p1,he said teacher teaches about proper touch and improper touch.

One more thing parents should be more friendly with them.my son tells me everything.one of his classmates hide from parents cos parents give him always punishment.i told my son whatever u have to tell me then only i can guide u.
Do u remember the 13 yr old girl raped by a prc student?i watched it in the crimewatch,he came home and threatened her tell to ur father if u not cooperate to sex.worst think there were two men in the house when he raped her.i stunned when i watched.