Club SAHM

[terry]

buds,

ur hb appreciate ur efforts! so sweet rite? instead of complaining tat u r sweaty and like’yellow face auntie’. they r really lucky to have u.

[buds]

Thank goodness no mention of that at all! Phew! I've been trying to ahemmm... maintain especially after my number three. Soo.. i hope i'm doing it right? :xedfingers: Autumnbronze, what u think.. ok anot.. consider maintain or not? :laugh:


I'm not into facials and stuff but i use Loreal's Whitening & Spot Corrector for my face after i got quite freaked out mom said my face was like in brown and yellow patches. :yikes: :faint: It worked for me. :love: I will share facial stories with you ladies next time ok? Horror ones. Not that it matters to me since i am not the facial kind. :lol: But i LOOOOVVVE spas. The massage is rejuvenating. Aaaaahhh... :please:

Terry arh... i suppose it's either i did maintain or hubs was just horny that day. Cheh.

[janet88]

MummyThreeStreams:

jedamum:

sometimes my dh asked me where have i spend all the time :pokeeye: (usually when he finds the house still in the same state of mess ).

DH knows NEVER to ask me that question! He knows he will be courting disaster if he does! :nunchuk: :spank: :stompfeet:

Weekday mornings after kids go to school, I will prepare their work to be done for the day. Busier nearer CA/SA. Irobot does the vacuum.
Hubby does the ironing every Sun. Last Fri, I was rather tired looking at assessment books...so walked around the house to see what can be done, and found lots of clothes to be ironed. Decided to iron them.

Next, I took a plastic bag and decided to do some spring-cleaning. It sure felt good to clear some clutter.

[SAHM_TAN]

Hi buds,


Men are visual creatures so he must have seen something to make him ahem...... :evil:

I must not let my DH see your post or he will think I'm underworked :lol:

I admire your energy level to do so much for your family. You are my IDOL. :rahrah:

Like you I'm getting my kids to do simple chores. When DD1 is washing her plate, I close both eyes :rotflmao: For DS at the moment, he is just responsible for placing his plate in the sink. I have a small brush with dustpan, so if they dirty the floor, they will clean up after themselves. Of course they are not always so guai and will need to be reminded. DS sometimes will become like bb, think it's becos of DD2 and tell me he does not know how to do and need my help :faint:

You are superwoman :rahrah:

BTW you no longer living with your ILs?

[janet88]

I warned hubby that if he messes up my time-table for kids, I will wash my hands off and he takes care of everything. Men or should I say husbands should be smart not to court trouble by complaining about condition of the house when there are young children. I used to tell my maid that safety and hygiene are very important…but of course house should be presentable too.

[Kabby]

buds:

The girls can spring clean, sweep & mop their own room and the rest outside too. Fold and hang up on their hangers (colour coded for each girl) and also do up laundry on days they're having a good mood or nothing to do. :lol: This helps too. These days with the baby, they each race to help take care of the baby. :politebleah: Much to the baby's displeasure at being smothered really. :laugh: My DD2 is the most hardworking with chores and she loves watching me cook. She says next time she wants to cook for her family too.. just like mommy. :love:

eh buds, too bad my sons are much younger than your girls, else i think they make very good wives! such good training from a young age!

[SAHM_TAN]

kabalevsky:

buds:

The girls can spring clean, sweep & mop their own room and the rest outside too. Fold and hang up on their hangers (colour coded for each girl) and also do up laundry on days they're having a good mood or nothing to do. :lol: This helps too. These days with the baby, they each race to help take care of the baby. :politebleah: Much to the baby's displeasure at being smothered really. :laugh: My DD2 is the most hardworking with chores and she loves watching me cook. She says next time she wants to cook for her family too.. just like mommy. :love:

eh buds, too bad my sons are much younger than your girls, else i think they may very good wives! such good training from a young age!

Now society so modern, age difference small matter liao...... :evil:

[Kabby]

SAHM_TAN:

kabalevsky:

[quote=\"buds\"]

The girls can spring clean, sweep & mop their own room and the rest outside too. Fold and hang up on their hangers (colour coded for each girl) and also do up laundry on days they're having a good mood or nothing to do. :lol: This helps too. These days with the baby, they each race to help take care of the baby. :politebleah: Much to the baby's displeasure at being smothered really. :laugh: My DD2 is the most hardworking with chores and she loves watching me cook. She says next time she wants to cook for her family too.. just like mommy. :love:

eh buds, too bad my sons are much younger than your girls, else i think they may very good wives! such good training from a young age!

Now society so modern, age difference small matter liao...... :evil:[/quote]why? you thinking for your ds ah? :rotflmao:

[SAHM_TAN]

Would love to be in-laws with buds, can sample her cookings and with her knowledge can groom the grandkids somemore.... :evil:


But such things I leave it to fate, what is meant to be will be and what is not meant to be can't be forced.

However I do not discourage others from being proactive :evil:

Buds' ears must be itching now :rotflmao: both of us talking about her :rotflmao:

[janet88]

SAHM_TAN:

Would love to be in-laws with buds, can sample her cookings and with her knowledge can groom the grandkids somemore.... :evil:


But such things I leave it to fate, what is meant to be will be and what is not meant to be can't be forced.

It's nice to be in-laws with people we know. Of course Fate is something unpredictable.
Actually both sets of in-laws in the future will be able to get along ...since people are more educated and have a diff mind-set unlike the older generation now.